Is being a romantic guy a bad thing these days?

[aquaman]

[blunty]

Not at all... Being a romantic guy is not inherently a bad thing. Romance can signify genuine affection, thoughtfulness, and a deep emotional connection. However, the perception of romance has evolved due to cultural shifts, technology, and changing relationship dynamics. In some contexts, grand romantic gestures can be seen as outdated or even insincere, especially if they appear performative or are not aligned with the preferences of the recipient. Furthermore, with the rise of discussions on consent and boundaries, it's vital for romantic gestures to be attuned to the comfort and desires of the other person. That said, genuine romance — rooted in understanding, respect, and authentic connection — remains cherished by many. Ultimately, the key is to ensure that romance is an expression of genuine feelings and consideration, rather than adhering to prescriptive or stereotypical norms.

[BunBun369]

I didn't know that a man being romantic was a thing that could loose it's stripes..

I mean but that is all up to the woman you're with.. or whatever you're with... I don't want to offend anyone. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🥸. I mean if you have a discussion when you start out. Go over basics. Some people might not want romance.

Cuz my mom likes romantic gestures. she is just picky about the gesture. Lol like don't buy her flowers. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. So in that sense it wouldn't be romantic.


Lol easily enough ask whats their favorite movies or genres of books. Lol then kinda gauge how romantic they are. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂😂😂

When I was coming up that's all it was is romance with some variation of another genre being pumped out.

Another perspective. So maybe it seems like women are breaking away from the "normal" roles with men because.. men haven't been the greatest throughout history. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I mean in marriage or commitment with women (all things). Basically y'all turned us into men.
Lol 😂😂 but I wouldn't know how because nobody grew up with a dad in the 80s, 90s, etc. Majority of the fathers were absent one way shape or form.. that's why there's a lot of feminine straight men out there. Because they were raised by a mother/grandmother situation. I don't know it's all messed up. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I gotta stop waking and baking.

Ps. That's all ya see is everyone recording and posting these romantic extravagant things with their couple... But I think to myself is that for them or for us? In the sense that are they just doing all this and posting for the benefit of monetary value and attention? There's been a heavy fog of narcissism filling up the world for a long time. Because I don't know but people throughout history had private moments and took photos and had tapes lol but they never was like trying to show anyone. What is the fucking point really. Money? Another smaller portable Tv pumped full of commercials and propganda brain washing the masses from whatever they are brain washing us from lol I wouldn't know I'm fucked I watch way too much porn. So as soon as they did that I was big effed. Got off on a tangent.. either way. I am kinda hoping that it's not thourghly read. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣😂🤣. I do feel there is a connection somewhere. Maybe you'd have to smoke to find the bread crumbs lol I don't know.

Romance to me would be just for the man to be honest. fuck being faithful lol just tell the truth. And let's work together to raise them bad ass kids and travel and learn and grow together. Not for 100 kazollin people but for us and our future and family. To enjoy the rest of the time we have on this candy coated ball floating through space at an alarming rate... What's physics? 🤔👀🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️

[Nikki1989]

It is a dying art, so it is always a huge bonus.

[Anonymous]

It's not bad but you have to be extremely selective when and who you're romantic with.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Not bad, but it is a waste of effort and money nowadays.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Thanks for MHO!

[AaronKrieger]

The fuck you on about? Lmao

Being romantic is a good thing and it's universally liked. People have an issue if you're obsessed with them or co-dependent, but that's a whole other ballpark.

[Yannae]

It's not bad. It's actually a plus. It seems to be more rare from what I'm hearing. Just know how and when and to who, because not everyone likes it. And not everyone is deserving.

[Thumper2thump]

no its amazing. I'ts hard to finding a man who is romantic or a gentleman anymore.

[Sasha0426]

Not at all. I’m not a romantic person, but I would definitely appreciate someone’s romantic gestures 😄

[Akam93]

Not at all. Less romantic men in this society. When i meet one its very rare.

[KrakenAttackin]

It definitely can be. If you are more into her than she is into you, she will dry up like the Sahara.

[Guanfei]

It is. There aren't many women worth being romantic with. It always ends up lonely and disappointed.

[Emzyyy01]

Not a bad thing but just don't go overboard or it might be cringey.

[JackCarter]

With your partner? NO

[Anonymous]

No. Not to me it isn’t.

[mandyfire98]

Not at all.

[4ngelic]

not at all

[Engin12]

Why would it be bad?

[thegreenyogi]

I don't think so.