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Do you have physical criteria/preferences for a dating partner and did you deliberately choose whatever your preferences are? (Page 2)
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I wasn’t too picky with my preferences but I am definitely attracted to my fiancés baby face, his green eyes, dirty blonde hair, and his body is just right lol I find him very handsome I feel lucky he even gave me a chance. I’m an average Mexican tomboy girl and he finds me sexy I’m like wow😀
I want them to care about their body, what they eat, personal hygiene.. if they’re overweight, I want to know that they actually have a desire to get back to a normal healthy weight… because it improves your oversell health and well being, energy levels and stamina….
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EVERYONE has preferences anyone who says they don't is ether a liar or a corpse.
As I am sure everyone would prefer someone who provides, love authentically and communicates effectively vs. The lazy asshats that abuse their partners.
Preferences are not inherently wrong unless they are hidden i. e., dating them just to avoid hurt feelings. That's being disingenuous, misleading and it's wrong.
I have to find him physically attractive. I like brown, blonde and black hair typically but red is ok too. He also has to be taller than me (it isn’t hard), not morbidly obese, and have physical features that appeal to me (they have to be at least okay, don’t have to be the best). I don’t mind someone being heavier but there is a difference between being overweight to morbid obesity. I don’t think I would bend on that or having at least average physical features. Height has never been an issue because the majority of the population is taller than me. Someone with a great personality makes for a good friend, but if there is no attraction that isn’t a relationship. I feel like I ask for very little when it comes to appearance and care more about personality but I’d be lying if it wasn’t a factor
Morbid obesity I don't even want to look at. I wouldn't go for the girl in the first pick either. I like slender but not a twig
There are things I do like that the absence is not going to be a deal breaker.
I like to mix it around as to what I perve at. Aside from slender I'd like her to have some body feature I really do like and that could be a lot of things. It might be her hands or feet.
I usually have set standards and criteria. However, I can sometimes consider giving someone that is not my usual type a chance if they have good qualities like are funny, charming, good hearted, and overall captivate my attention.
I have preferences.. but they have changed over time and I if I like your personality I will let my preferences slide more.. but I have to kind of find them attractive or it just ain't happening..
I understand where they're coming from bc I'm like that. Do I have a type? I don't thinks so. I used to think I like light skin black guys, naw. I like dark guys too. Asian guys white guys etc I've even been attracted to a girl. I literally think if you are special to me I will sense it. Of course a cute face would get my initial attention but if I like you and you happen to be fat oh well. If I like u and I feel that vibe and you just happen to be a girl ooops.. I don't go looking..
If I’m big aka overweight, I’m more likely to date someone also in my bodysize. I would feel too insecure dating a guy who’s thinner or skinnier.
If I’m overweight, Id also date a guy who’s bigger in muscle mass. Only because his shape and dimensions is as big as mine.
I would date thin guys or skinny guys if I’m not thin. However I believe I still wouldn’t dare thin guys due to the fact that l like bigger dimensions in men.
Wether it be tall, overweight or muscular.
I have no preferences, but I prefer average/chubby men. I have no interest in hugging bones or muscles.
No I dont have preferences I go for people I connect with on a deep level really.
I use the "don't judge a book by its cover" criteria. The person is what tends to draw me, how they look comes in 2nd.
I usually dated very athletic girls that were very active and liked the outdoors. I did date somebody who was the opposite of that,. I think that was the point.
I just want someone who is healthy and at least attractive enough for sex to be easy. Preferences are nice, but they're not requirements.
Besides, I'm punching way above my class in terms of what I prefer vs. what I offer back.
because men can compensate bad looks and women can’t. As for me if i find men is funny, good sense of humour, he’ll become the most handsome men in my eyes. He doesn’t need to be richie rich, but at least he try to be better in all aspect of life like personal growth
Please, elaborate your aspect: Men can compensate bad looks, and woman can't?
@skunk3n For women when men is funny they become the most handsome men in their eyes. But for men if you’re unattractive, you’re unattractive even if you’re caring, nice and kind. I’m not saying they doesn’t chose you. They’ll be with you but they are not blinded by your looks. They’re not gonna think you’re the most beautiful girl in the world. They still recognise you as unattractive.
That's because women are emotionbased gender.
They will get wind up in their emotions during that presence and what they feel about a guy, right then and now.
If a guy can show humour, good charisma and self-esteem with a centered masculinity, he will have a chance on almost every girl.
Men are the physical trait, we like what we see in the presence. Are you getting "rounder" by the years, and he has a fit-type preferences, then he might get turned off.
Buut there's one catch you might miss here.
Woman do have preferences too, of course. And that's same taboo'ed as weight.
Girls prefer tall guys (6ft preferably).
Very few girls would date a shorter guy based on his initial masculine looks (height).
Maybe among these few girls would have a second thought IF that guy has what I mentioned earlier (charisma, self-esteem etc). But how would that guy prove that before she knows him? In her eyes, he's already disqualified long time ago.
So guys under 6ft, needs to work on their height, same as chubby girls work on their weight... Right?
yes that’s right too !
If we only talk about looks, I don't have any strong preferences but there are some no gos like I wouldn't date an obese person
No hard preferences on looks just someone who takes care of themselves. Lately I find myself really attracted to gym girls but being in the gym isn’t a criteria for me.
No fat women and no short haired women.
Everyone has preferences whether they know it or not, my preference is that they have to be slim, other things like being a little shorter than me, dark hair or certain races I’m workable with but I wouldn’t date a smoker. I’ve never heard of a woman that doesn’t have some preference like even age difference
She had to be somewhat fit (not fat) and have a feminine figure. Nothing outlandish.