My answer may sound cliche, but i would go with personality. Believe it or not, i notice this one guy purely based on his act. He is being ded gentle and im melting over it and eventually have a crush on him and now at the stage of loving him. Knowing his good personality makes me look at him as attractive physically as well
How we look depends on how we feel. I could follow you around for a day, snapping photos of you. I could show those photos to someone who doesn't know you, and that person would probably assume the photos were of different people. If you feel intelligent, you'll look intelligent. If you feel sexy, you'll look sexy. If you feel loved, you'll look beautiful. It's amazing how a person's attractiveness can change drastically, just based on how they are feeling or how you are feeling. People may view your favorite meal as disgusting, while you see it as comfort food associated with positive memories of your childhood. Beauty will always be in the eyes of the beholder.
Unfortunately, people nowadays tend to be very impulsive. They don't have the patience to stick around after the first impression and get to know the actual person. I understand the physical is a quick way to get noticed, but, if there's nothing below the surface, the relationship isn't likely to thrive.
Primarily how compatible I feel we are. how his character is, and just how I feel when I'm with him. Am I comfortable? Can we talk and spend time together? Enjoy each other's company? Is he a good kisser? Etc. Does he show interest.
physical attractiveness is the first thing most guys notice then personality. It's he physical attractiveness that first gets yout to approach her. Although my current girlfriend I wasn't really that sure about because she wears a lot of frumpy clothes but I liked her personality and she was pretty around the face, I just thought she was a bit overweight. Then when we first had sex and she hot naked, not fat at all, she dressed frumpy because she had big tits that are a bit oversized for her short little body.
I met my husband online, so long before I knew what he looked like, I liked him for his writing.
In reality, we are totally opposite, but we share similar interests and opinions, so we have a strong base for friendship. It's not an ideal relationship, but it has worked for over 20 years.
Both/and. I think that if two people are attracted to each other there will be some physical attraction up front, perhaps because of subtle factors like compatible body chemistry. It’s not the only factor, but not one to be dismissed entirely at the beginning of a relationship.
both, its never one or the other, both are equally as important however I notice people try to put one on the pedestal and look down on the other as if they have some sort of superiority complex.
at the end of the day you want someone thats easy on the eyes and easy on the ears, and easy on the nose.
anyone who says otherwise is mostly a liar and in great illusions
In a perfect world maybe we’d consider compatibility first but I think for a lot of us, we are drawn firstly by their physical being. Then it’s just a matter of time and seeing how much of the person you enjoy and what you can oversee.
I like to go more off of personality. Looks are important also. But ultimately personality and compatibility with common ethics and interests, will win.
A little bit of both for me, I definitely need to have somewhat of physical attraction to you and/or find you attractive but have a good personality is a must as well
Choosing someone based primarily on physical characteristics seems like a fling to me 😅.. It's not that black and white.. I just like the whole package lol..
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