Have you ever changed your mind over someone you rejected?

[Anonymous]

[exitseven]

Yes, she was the best friend of somebody I dated. She really wanted to go out with me but I was still angry over getting dumped by her friend and i took it out on her. She really wanted to go out with me and I rejected her. A few weeks later I sort of changed my mind. She really was a nice girl and she was pretty hot.

[Summeroflove]

Most the time no. It depends. If I get to know someone better later on maybe. But.

[Chrysantenum95]

I've thought about the what ifs or could haves. BUT still its a NO, for justify reasons. Now, I learned that those people able to met their the one or pursue the dream life they wanted too makes me happy for them.

[catarecute]

wanting someone to be happy is called love.

[Chrysantenum95]

@catarecute it sure is

[BrightBubblyKat]

guys older than their teens, if they ever really had feelings for you, will always be back. As long as you act like you don’t need them, without being mean or bigheaded about it.

[DarkLegacy]

No we will not be messed around by women who think they can save us for later, after they have made mistake after mistake. it does not surprise me to see this from a woman of your age. It sounds like you think women should manipulate these men.

[BrightBubblyKat]

@DarkLegacy I’m speaking from personal experience, when the guys that liked you but never quite enough to lock down a relationship, decide they’ll settle for us, or save us for later will come back. They always do. My advice to her would be not to give them a second chance. They don’t deserve it and it’s no compliment that they’re back. Also, you shouldn’t have to convince someone that you’re worthy of them.

[DarkLegacy]

i think we may have got our wires crossed a little, im talking about women who reject the sensible, decent guy in her youth and then try and get with him when she gets older, on your second point however, yes people do have to convince someone that you are worthy of them. Especially if you want to settle down with that person and have a family.

[BrightBubblyKat]

@DarkLegacy I think you might’ve misunderstood the point of her question and my response. No harm done though 😊. I disagree that you should have to convince someone that you’re worthy of them when you weren’t considered a good enough option the first time. They’re just coming back now because they realised they can’t do better. Not through lack of trying.

[DarkLegacy]

Well i think i agree with you, that once someone gets rejected they should stay rejected, what im saying is that a guy should not get with a woman who has rejected him previous because of what you just said.

[BrightBubblyKat]

I’ve always felt insulted when guys came back and they always seemed desperate for me, when years earlier, they were embarrassed to be seen with me; and while I’m not beautiful or a genius, I’m pretty, smart and I have a good sense of humour. Not a catch for everyone, but not a piece of trashy garbage that they thought I was.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Oh right. Well I agree.

[BrightBubblyKat]

No one, male or female should have to be settled for.

[catarecute]

@DarkLegacy its the same with men they also reject you and think that because you still love them they can take you back whenever they want

[DarkLegacy]

@catarecute No we don't, you are juts trying to switch everything around, so pathetic.

[AllPink]

At first i did but because he was a really good friend of mine, then i realized that he wasn't really my friend... he was around me for some time, being my friend acting like a bro to me in hopes to get to like me in a romantic way, when he realised he had no chance to date because i couldnt see him as more than a good friend, he started getting angry at me for little things and stopped talking to me, it made me feel a little bit guilty because he was an important friend already, at least i thought he was... TLDR i almost did once yeah

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

When I was in the 10th grade;age '16. A 8th ( age '14 ) grader was interested in Me, through a friend and I turned it down.( We were on the bus ) Next x, I seen'er We were in the street and she had a "big butt"! And I expressed "interest". She ga'mee her #. And She wanted t' get back at me, for having turned'er down.

[Rei13]

Most of the time, no. If I rejected them there was probably a reason for it, not necessarily that there was anything else wrong with them they just weren’t for me.

[ScoobyNECBir]

No I have not unless the rejection reason was only due to distance or being in a relationship.

[Anemone978]

No.. I even rejected a guy I loved but it was for good reasons.. so I never changed my mind about the rejections..

[ProbablyClueless]

Do you mind me asking what the reason was?

[Anemone978]

@ProbablyClueless He didn't actually love me he just kept saying he did while he kept hurting me with the things he was doing behind my back and just how he talked to me..

[BunBun369]

Kinda had a lapse in judgement. But then I came to my senses just in enough time!

[slatyb]

Yes. I rejected an opportunity to meet a lovely woman for a very shallow reason.

[catarecute]

let me guess, was it the shape of her nose?

[Anonymous]

Yes, my first girlfriend, I met her when we were seven years old, she had an ugly nose and I didn't like her, then I saw her again when we were 14 years old, she had a big ass and she was beautiful, although her nose was still ugly.

[catarecute]

lol good job you rejected her. you soung like a d*ck. no offence you dont reject someone because the shape of their nose.

[Opinion Owner]

The nose is a very important thing, as it can ruin the whole face.

[catarecute]

your remind me of a french film call cyrano the bergerac. this woman rejcted this man who loved her because of his nose. so he wrote her love letters with a false name. she married the guy with the false name instead of the person who she really loved and loved her back. when she realised it was him it was to late she was old and he was dying.
result the both lived miserable aver after.

[ProbablyClueless]

Not really, no. People I reject, I've rejected for a good reason.

[Sasha0426]

All the guys I rejected, I’m glad I did. They didn’t turn out so good.

[genericname85]

no, cause the reasons i reject someone are usually not fixable for them.

[Ironic_Method]

I have, but it's only happened once. Still didn't work out, though.

[JesseP1nk]

When i was in my 20s lot of women rejected me... Now some wanna hangout and be around me... and if i reject them now then they get butthurt...

[taurusman]

I don’t outwardly reject people, but when I don’t wanna be around somebody, I don’t want to do it later either so no I don’t change my mind

[Anonymous]

No. Over time i realize more and more that i made the right choices.

[Anonymous]

No, Because unlike women, Most men dont reject for idiotic reasons.

[Anonymous]

Nope, bro was 27 and tried to marry me at 15..

[Luopio27]

Change of hearts happen only in Hollywood fiction.

[boobliker]

no I never have

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, it got complicated