What are the pros and cons of dating someone who's good looking but also stuck up?

[Anonymous]

[SexyBrunetteNY]

Stuck up is so negative. It's used to describe people, men or women, with self-confidence. Why is self-confidence bad? It isn't. Ever.

As children, we were raised to understand our background, our history, what our relatives achieved and who we were, and that was meant to instill some pride in us. It also meant that we were allowed to have standards about how we lived our lives, who we associated with, how we carried ourselves, and what we planned for our future (s). Is that bad?

Anyway, outsiders frequently labeled us as 'conceited' or 'stuck up' growing up, but truth be told, they were just lacking. Be it education, intelligence, manners, looks or what have you. So, the labels are being thrown out when others FELT INFERIOR. Not because we were rude.

[Asker]

All I know is a lady I like is considered a "stuck up princess". She loves talking about herself, and I love listening to her talk about herself.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

Well you can some pride but that doesn't mean you're rude or nasty. Like I said, it's jealous people who label others.

[Asker]

I love confidence in a woman, even if it might be arrogance.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

I love it when a guy has confidence and knows his worth, too.

[Anonymous]

The pro is they're good looking so you get to feel somehow superior because you bagged someone hot. Ego boost. You get to enjoy their body and parade them around all proud of yourself. That's it. And you don't care about the cons because you know what matters is what people will think on the outside and they don't see that your arm candy person is stuck up. I feel like people who date someone attractive mainly for this reason don't care about the personality at first but will break up because of it down the line, but they will repeat it all because they love the high from dating someone hot who attracts positive attention for them.

[Asker]

I'm actually attracted to the stuck up type.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Uhm, well, when you date someone, I assume she has good qualities, too? Other than sex appeal?

[Asker]

I'm attracted to the stuck up type.

[BrightBubblyKat]

I can’t think of any pros.

[Asker]

Oh well, guess I'll roll the dice and see what happens.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Yeah, give it a go. I guess they’re confident and take care of themselves?

[Asker]

Yeah, she also loves talking about herself and I happen to love listening to her.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Well, that sounds like a good match then. Why worry about other people’s opinions?

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right. She's been dumped by other men because they get annoyed with her talking about herself, I could listen to it all day.

[BrightBubblyKat]

My cousin married a really quiet guy who adores her and she talks a lot and it’s a match made in heaven for both of them.

[Anonymous]

To me, that's a total turn off.

[Asker]

I could date a stuck up woman, I'm attracted to them.