Is my weight keeping me single?

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I’ve dated a few men in my lifetime but they never really lasted very long. The last guy I dated broke up with me because he was never really physically attracted to me. I admit, I’ve been overweight my whole life, and I want to date with marriage in mind. I’m starting to wonder if my weight is keeping me from meeting genuinely nice men who are also marriage-minded.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well it's certainly not helping. If you don't put effort into yourself why would I believe you'd put effort into the relationship? And if you're not concerned about your health, how long is this going to last? AND, personally I'm an active guy, if you can't enjoy that with me then why would I pick you over the version of you that can? If there's no physical attraction than by default you're putting yourself in the friends category, since I look for the same general traits in my close friends and my partners, with the difference being I am sleeping with the latter to the exclusion of the former.

[Anonymous]

First of all... It's not

However, it is impacting the amount of men attracted to you and willing to date you.

It would help but it doesn't guarantee you'll find they right guy. Personally I think it depends on the overweight girl. Some of them look just as good as the slim girls.

[ShesRad80]

i see plenty of heavy woman with partners so i would have to say no

[Billlewis]

I guarantee you that there are plenty of men who much prefer a plus sized woman over any other type of figure. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if it's okay.

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want.

[boggboss]

But thats the thing their are plenty of women that are on the bigger side so no I don't feel it's just that why dating is not working out

[Nik1hil]

Get in average weight range on BMI!..

Then see! How the game changes..

[DarkWinterNights]

Dating is hard in general, but it’s going to be harder when you’re overweight. It’s never too late to make a change. You’ll feel better x have more energy, you’ll be more confident and you’ll have something difficult you accomplished to be proud of.

[Chthou95]

Do something about it. Dont bitch or whine about it

[Anonymous]

how tall are you how much do you weigh? what's your body type?

[artgorgeous]

What is your BMI?

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I’m so embarrassed, but it’s 46.3

[artgorgeous]

Oh, shit. That's definitely the weight. You need to lose it for sure, that will increase your chances. You might even have a pretty face, but if you are overweight you won't get any benefit out of it. Men are attracted to how woman looks. For men its the priority. We don't care about women's degree or if she has a job, etc. Whatever she has is good for us. Most important factor is looks.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

What do I do? I wasn’t taught anything about health. Everyone in my family is overweight

[artgorgeous]

You need to go to doctor specializing in nutrition. He will explain to you, what you can eat, what you can't, how much you can eat and when. If you never did any physical activity, you need to find a fitness coach, or a person who specializes on weight loss. They can create a training programme for you and you will have to follow it. You will have to change your lifestyle and do exactly what these two persons say without cheating. And don't look at what your family eats, you will have to cook for yourself and you will eat differently.

[OddBeMe]

I bet it’s your confidence and not your weight.