I’m 4’11 and weigh over 140 and can’t seem to keep a guy , I don't know if weight is playing a factor or not?

[Anonymous]

I have thyroid issues and pcos , which makes it somewhat harder to lose weight and keep it off unless I starve the crap out of myself , I notice I constantly get ignored by men or ghosted online , I don't know if that plays a factor or they’re just being jerks for the sake of being jerks with no particular reason.

[Summeroflove]

Something like this shouldn’t prevent you from getting a great guy if you’re a great woman.



You haven’t found the one yet and if someone can’t accept you for who you are. They’re not worth it



Now not all men who aren’t into you are bad. It means you’re just not for them. Doesn’t mean tneh judge you as a person.




But. No it shouldn’t prevent you from dating.

[Summeroflove]

And don’t starve yourself. It’s not healthy. Please follow sound medical advice

[Asker]

thanks

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[Avicenna]

It could be the explanation. Start with guys you already know or friends of friends.

[Asker]

I tried dating a friend he obviously forgot that I asked him and hasn’t said anything else about it since then and he’s the only friend I have.

[Avicenna]

OK, what are your interests and hobbies? Have you tried meeting guys who share them?

[Asker]

Yes I’ve tried dating guys online with similar hobbies thinking in the past that maybe it was conflict of interest , but that didn’t work either

[Avicenna]

Any luck meeting guys in person? Online dating is usually a waste.

[Asker]

One guy as I said and he forgot about it.

[Avicenna]

You need to be more patient than that

[Asker]

I like the guy, but I don’t want to keep reminding him of things nonstop.

[Avicenna]

Well, there are other guys

[Asker]

Not Irl that I know.

[Avicenna]

See, that's your problem- you're too reliant on meeting guys online, which usually doesn't work out.

[Asker]

Well there’s no where else to go

[TracyF]

If you need relationship advice, it's what I do.

[Asker]

thanks a ton, I’m in an online one rn that kinda comes and goes.

[TracyF]

You said it sister

[Iron_Man]

You know how you look so what is it then¿

[Asker]

Well I’m always going to think that I look like shit no matter what.

[Iron_Man]

Be positive in your own thinking

[Asker]

It’s difficult when ya been ghosted several times.

[Iron_Man]

Trying to find the right kind of guy meet them in different places then you have Been try Christian guys

[Asker]

I’m not Christian

[Iron_Man]

Then, what are you?

[Asker]

Agnostic

[Iron_Man]

Have you ever thought that’s why you’re having issues because you’re not grounded

[Iron_Man]

In Christ

[Asker]

There’s people without religion that have relationships and I don’t find religion particularly fun or interesting , no offense. Everyone should be able to believe what they want and have their own religion or lack there of, but it’s just not something I’m interested in.

[Iron_Man]

Well, if you ever wanna get help, you can let me know. I’ll come back in here. Just mention me.

[Iron_Man]

Who says it has to be fun or interesting even though it, can be it’s not about having entertainment with religion

[Asker]

I think Christianity has rules that are basically impossible to follow sometimes.

[Iron_Man]

I would have to explain to you a lot right now I have to get going you can tag me here like I said

[Asker]

Okay 😂 have a good day sir 👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome try to remain positive

[Asker]

I’ll do my best 👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

You to

[In_Trance]

I doubt weight is a factor