Why is it so hard to find high quality men? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Quality women have no problem attracting and keeping quality men. Facts matter.

[Asker]

i have no problem attracting high quality men. its just that they're usually just boring as hell.

[Opinion Owner]

You can have the quality man or the bad boy, but you can't have both.

[Asker]

so are you saying i should marry the quality man who bores the hell outta me?

[Exterminatore]

@Opinion owner

She’s saying she doesn’t just want to watch dramatic soap operas, she wants to live one. But is confused by why sane and rational people aren’t filled with drama, so she’s board.

[Opinion Owner]

@Exterminatore Yeah, pretty much. Women with such expectations are the ones we see sooo often lamenting the fact that they are in their mid 30s and still single. If she's 18 - 24 and she's already complaining about not being able to land a man who meets her expectations, she's either going to change her ways now, or she's going to find herself in a world of hurt by the time she's 30 and still single. She can have the wisdom to recognize her problem and adjust her behavior now, or she'll be forced to do it when she's in her 30s and has far fewer options than she does today.

[LiamJHayden]

Frankly, your standards seem unrealistic, but you are welcome to them.

[turnpost]

What are your filters? Also are you interesting? what are your hobbies?

[Anonymous]

It's because on average, you tend to be much more turned on by guys you consider "scummy."

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why it is so hard to find high quality women.

[shades777]

you mean rich, I don't know ebcause its not as common as social media makes it seem

[scooogy]

Is this another all-women-are-perfect kind of question?

[BLP11520]

Many of the men you seek are taken, In my case i want out

[robocop666]

Women will kick a man to the curb over anything. You can never satisfy them.

[MaxUsefull]

I could say the same but in relation to women

[Anonymous]

Why is it so hard to find high quality women?

[Chthou95]

Because the high quality men dont want you

[Asker]

because there are no high quality men.

[Chthou95]

There are. They're being shared by multiple women. There's plenty of good men out there who may not being high quality but are good enough to sustain a future with. You just don't want those men. Stop whining

[Asker]

high quality men don't date multiple women at once. thats what you call a cheater

[Chthou95]

High value men are rare thus rather than settling for an average guy. But these kind of men are wanted by multiple women thus women will share

[Asker]

@chthou95

modern day men are so low quality that they think cheaters are "high quality" men that women prefer.

thats how bad it has gotten...

[Chthou95]

Yes you're basically proving the 80/20 rule is real

[Asker]

@chthou95

so what? you're only willing to date with in 20s.

it makes no difference.

[Asker]

so what? you're only willing to date women*** in 20s.

you are no different

[Chthou95]

Ill fuck older women. But in terms of dating, no thank you

[Asker]

@chthou95

young ladies have the pick of the litter. they don't have to go for men like you.

[Chthou95]

And when they're older and want to settle down, men have their say and don't have to date you 😋

[Chthou95]

No leftovers please

[Asker]

@chthou95

young ladies aren't interested in old men. they like handsome, tall, strong in shape young guys in their prime. they don't go for angry, bitter, jaded, ugly , poor guys like you.

[Chthou95]

I dont know man. Money talks. And i dont care what women say they want. I only care what they respond to. A woman's words are dogshit compared to what she ends up doing

[Asker]

@chthou95

take a look at marriage data, vast majority of young ladies end up marrying men less than 10 years older. don't talk about the money you don't even have.

[Chthou95]

Yup and look at who initiates the dvorces. And dont make assumptions based on this conversation sweet heart

[Asker]

@chthou95

vast majority of women aren't interested in men who aren't willing to marry.

[Chthou95]

You are aware that shitty and toxic men still get laid and have dating success right?

[Chthou95]

And yes but not too many women deserve a ring or marriage

[Asker]

@chthou95

women date shitty toxic men. women don't marry shitty toxic men.

[Asker]

no woman wants a man who won't marry her.

[Chthou95]

If they married good men, divorce rates wouldn't be so high would they

[Asker]

divorce rates are high because women lose in marriage but gain during divorce.

[Chthou95]

If they know they're going to lose, why even get into a marriage in the first place

[Asker]

@chthou95

because marriage constitutes an official family. it represents commitment.

[Chthou95]

You dont have to get married to have kids and? raise them

[Asker]

@chthou95

women don't want to raise kids alone,.

[Chthou95]

If you choose the right man which a lot of you women dont, he'd help raise his kids with you.

[Asker]

@chthou95

women want marriage because they know that men tend to abandon their kids that are born out of wedlock

[Chthou95]

And want that green just in case. And i stand by my opinion. Choose better men

[Asker]

there are no "better men". they dont exist.
either you marry a shitty guy or don't marry at all.

[Chthou95]

They do. They're just off your radar

[Asker]

@chthou95

high quality men are rare. but when i do meet one, i usually reject them for being too boring.

[Chthou95]

Then they werent high value. You're attracted to toxic men. You need excitement and thrill. you'll take that over a good man

[Blueeyes81]

Like attracts like.

[BigDog1989]

Because all the quality women are taken

[grega239]

They dont want you

[he-takes-a-part]

Your search is obstacle

[Jmmmfi4]

NOTHING COULD BE EASIER

[Anonymous]

Girl you're not gonna find them here 🤣

[Anonymous]

Maybe high quality men don't want you?

[Anonymous]

Society nowdays...