Guys, What do you think about a girl making the first move? (Page 2)

[Tortoise_Lover]

No id demy her because dating is dumb in my eyes and I'll just be stronger single, make more money for me, won't have to worry about divorce and some lady stealing half my shit. Kids? Nah. Got tortoises. Will outlive humans anyway.

[serious]

Of course I will appreciate her courage for doing so. Yes of course I won't take things forward though

[BoopBoopBeep]

I wouldn't think anything of her adding me as a friend on facebook. That means nothing in my culture.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nothing wrong with that.

Yes, do send a message. That's a good idea. State your intentions. Use the writing skills that you learned in English class: every essay should have an introductory paragraph.

[spartan55]

Anything on social media is NOT making a move... 😂

[Pohjolan]

You do realise that we get friend requests from all sorts of people including members of the opposite gender?

That by itself isn't making a move.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him if he's interested, then contact you for a chat.

[exitseven]

I was really shy with girls and would like to have a little help.

[fluffyninja0505]

Guys actually prefer it , I remember my old guy saying that in old days girls selected guys , my old maa dropped a kerchief which had her name embroidered on it , and hence the story

[Nifrayu]

That's definitely preferred. In fact I've never been comfortable making the first move.

[Nifrayu]

As for a message. Here are some examples of messages that were sent to me.
"Hi. This is pretty forward but I think we we could benefit from talking to each other." Soon after that she asked for my phone number.
"You're really cute." I said "thank you" and then nothing. I was in a relationship at the time and it ended a few weeks later. About a month later she sent me another message asking if I was single and we went from there.