I know short guys that married young by socializing and attending parties and being on their best behaviour at them. Not every dating strategy is easy for every person. Some guys have an easier time online, some have an easier time at work, and some have an easier time by hosting parties and socializing with people in their community. I also know guys that try to meet girls by doing volunteer work and some meet people at a houses of worship, but I know not everybody feels comfortable with that.
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Skip it, but tell them if they ask. (They're going to find out anyway if you end up meeting, so you should be honest.) If they have to ask, it's your chance to counter-ask them why this is so important. Just know it will be very telling what she's about if she has to make a point of knowing, and that her preference is too strong to the point of being shallow if she decides it's not worth getting to know you for.
Theses apps really need to inform women the % of men who actually meet their filter criteria and odds of actually meaning anyone who isn't dating every other woman.
At least they might make an informed choice to hold out until its too late.
Be upfront about it. It's better than women finding out when you show up for the first date or assuming you're shorter than you actually are.
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i think telling how tall you are in numbers as a man is like a woman declaring her bust size. i think that is quite superficial but if they open that option for women to ask men their hight, they should give men the option to ask women how big their tits are. cause that's litterally the same level of superficial.
Show your height if you are interested in a real relationship. That way if you meet someone you know that they already know your height and are okay with it. Otherwise you won't know. Better to have fewer hits that are real than lots of useless ones. Keep it real if you are interested in a real relationship.
It's better if you're upfront. I'm just gonna be honest, you're going to get ghosted A LOT once you tell them your height. Might as well just put it out there, that way you know the ones that swipe right will actually be interested.
Get off bumble and go on International Cupid, set your location to Ukraine and you'll find a bunch of cute girls who will talk to you.
They'll be seeking refugee status in the US as well, so you don't have to marry them to bring them inYou get matches that don't mind your height if you put it. I got fewer matches with my height posted, but more interested ones.
I didn't find my girlfriend on Bumble ultimatelyYou shouldn't look at things like that. You're conditioning your own mind to feel worthless and inadequate. It's like drinking poison.
Unless you have to don’t bother but if someone truly likes you height don’t matter
dude QUIT bumble, even if you're the hulk, you won't find your luck there. Dating apps are discrimating men
Leave it blank so you see how badly they want to know it!
Skip it. Tell them if they ask. But height shouldn't be important; so just leave it blank.
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