Should I include my height in my Tinder bio?

[Anonymous]

Okay. I am a girl with 160cm (5'3") short.

I actually think this whole Tinder and height thing pretty absurt. I absolutelly dont care about height of men so I just didn't include it in my bio. Its a bit shorter than average but I thought it is not that big deal anyway

however I have met with a guy and he said I had to "warn him" about it before we met. The fact is, he never ever asked my height so I just thought he didn't care?

Its a bit frustrating. So do you think I should include it in my bio to avoid such... unpleasant situations?

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+1 y

I have nothing against height being a big part of physical attraction, nor men prefering tall women. Its just I expect people to ask whatever they think dealbreaker. Is it my responsiblity to include everything in my Tinder-bio?

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+1 y

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[jshm2]

Unless it's your whole personality, no.

Also, Tinder is a train wreck anyway, most of those people are just there for ego sugaring and chatting to people they will ghost or catfish.

Try bumble instead.

[Asker]

"Unless it's your whole personality, no. "
No, far from it. My Tinder bio is full. I even included which vegetable I like most, but didn't include height. I think this whole height thing is bullshit anyway so I didn't even mention it in my Tinder.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you should probably include it. Just because you don't care doesn't mean other people don't. Height is very important to some people in determining physical attraction.

[SweetDumplings]

It shouldn't be tho and she's a girl who cares if she's 5'3 it's not a big deal at all.

[Asker]

I am one of girls who roll eyes on guys who include height in their bio
The last guy I have met said so; that I should have "warned" him being shorter than average.
But I mean.. why didn't he ask if he really care? I expext other people to ask what they really care. If he had asked how tall I am, I would answer.

[BlueEyedBeing]

Tbh, I don't care about girls height... I don't see the reason why someone should get upset about it. And tbh I find short girls very cute

[Asker]

Appearently, guys in my area have problems with it.
Then the question is; is it my responsiblity to put height in my bio or Im right to expect them to ask if they really care?

[BlueEyedBeing]

If they want to know it, they should ask. Otherwise if they expect things and don't turn out as they want, it's their fault

[Asker]

I agree to be honest... he didn't ask, so I just assumed he didn't care.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, why not?