What can I send guys as a first message on dating apps? (Page 2)

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No weird cringe worthy jokes, just a normal first message. I want them to lead the conversation if they respond

Jkgordon · Answer

Allow them to Approach you for starters you appear desperate

PatientZeR0 · Answer

I know this is frowned upon and incredibly amount of pressure is put on people to respond in certain ways, but just say “hello”

MysticDevice · Answer

Somethimg other than "Hey". Just be a little creative. No need to be a poet or a philosopher though.

Massageman · Answer

"Hi. I read your post and we share a lot of similar interests. Would you like to grab a coffee/tea/soda and chat about it a bit?"

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Mention something in his bio. If you swiped right and have the desire to converse with your match, surely there is something in that bio that has caught your attention.

Nik1hil · Answer

A simple "Hi" works well, Men are simple

SayGracePlease · Answer

Just start simple like a hello and maybe something that they are interested in

Andres77 · Answer

I’ll never use a dating app. I’m just here for the comments.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Be honest first and foremost. Say if your a jack ass please move on. But if your not then me hit me back, you'll enjoy talking with me.

Surely · Answer

Discuss something he wrote on his dating app. That will prove that you read the whole thing and shows interest in him.

HaveNoName · Answer

For a type of human blessed with a pair of balls, just "Hey.. " is enough if he finds you visually acceptable.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Literally just say hi. Most guys never even have the luxury of any girl messaging them. Unless of course, you’re pursuing athletic muscular guys

Coden7 · Answer

Find something you like about their profile and say something open ended

loveslongnails · Answer

It's been so long since I used a dating app, I have no idea!

Shy_Steve · Answer

Just mention what you like in a Guy, But don't mention what you don't want in a Guy Because us Guys find that a major turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly you can just say hi, maybe mention something you liked on there profile or something else that works as a conversation starter.

Just be genuine and interested and well you'll have a good chance I would say.

DreamLife7 · Answer

If a man isn't messaging you first then he's not interested. Why are you chasing?

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Make him feel good

In_Trance · Answer

If you want them to lead, then let them message first... smh

SoJust · Answer

I think you need to be comfortable when sending the first message.

zagor · Answer

Comment about some interest or something in their profile.

Gail_lvsjizz · Answer

Just say “hello you’re not a sicko are you”? They’ll definitely 100% tell you the truth x

Martyrdom28 · Answer

Hey _____ inset name How has your week been?

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Are you seriously asking how to greet someone? 🤣

LiamJHayden · Answer

Something like "You seem interesting. Would you like to chat?" should suffice.

007kingifrit · Answer

try to connect things in their profile in funny ways. bring up his hobbies, be playful

OddBeMe · Answer

What’s the female version of the “dick pic”?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just say hi then tell them your name and say you seen their pic and you wanted to meet him

Guanfei · Answer

Just say hello. We get almost no messages on these app, really anything goes.

TheWinterMan · Answer

Ask them how their day is? With a smile face for a little show of effort. I could start a convo with that question and enthusiasm.

CubaPirate · Answer

Dress well wear nice shoes or there's no date 2

LeviXL · Answer

I usually start by asking girls if they are a virgin

TheVeganGuy · Answer

You can write anything you want. Don't be rude, be just yourself and serious.

azgınteke · Answer

It's a great chance to meet you on this planet...

Engin12 · Answer

Just say hi and we will know that ur interested in us

Luckycharms12 · Answer

How do you like your eggs in the morning

Anonymous · Answer

You don't look good in this pfp.. Make him confused he will respond instantly...

zariahdp · Answer

Introduce yourself

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t use dating apps. It’s full of creeps.

serious · Answer

Just say Hi or Hello

myabe123 · Answer

I usually send a meme

Huntingnfishin · Answer

"Hi there! I liked your..."

Nimitttt · Answer

Wanna suck my boobs? For free hehe

dazzinu69 · Answer

Kinda intriguing

shades777 · Answer

sup honey bunches of oats! try that

boobliker · Answer

anything you want to!

Christoff92 · Answer

Hello. How are you 😊

Wise4myage · Answer

Hi, how ya doing!

Likes2drive · Answer

Say hi how are you? Nice to meet you here

driven159 · Answer

Anything you want

Guardian45 · Answer

Hi! My name is X. What's your name? How are you?

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Ask them about themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

You're anon. lol

MaxUsefull · Answer

Nothing, wait until he send one

BLP11520 · Answer

Just talk naturally

krin_m · Answer

Just introduce yourself.

Justasian · Answer

Just by messaging him will make his day

The_Observer_69 · Answer

“Hi, nice profile. “

Ava1993 · Answer

Sure before someone else beats you to it.

dinojames22 · Answer

"Hello there" is a good start

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