My crush and I've kissed once a few months back, we spent a lot of time together, but now he texts first and then goes MIA?

[Anonymous]

I am very confused if he likes me and there's a shot, and if he does why is he hot n cold and texts me first but then stops replying after sometime. pls help me out. he used to talk about us being together as well this was 6 months back, and we used to hold hands and walk all across the campus. now we just talk on n off plan to meet in the campus but he doesn't always follow through. He had even asked me to join him on a concert a few weeks back. His best friends sent me a follow request all together 2 days back, and at the campus my friends have noticed him and his friends looking at me. He once even left his boys and came to meet me when he saw me with my girls. thank you;))

[strawberrybaby3]

The only way to find out is to just be open and honest with how you’re feeling and ask him. It saves you from a lot of overthinking. He does seem interested, maybe he just doesn’t like texting that much. Or maybe he’s texting and then stops responding because he wants to keep you hooked so that he can come and go as he pleases. Get an explanation from him then see if his actions line up with what he says.

[Anonymous]

Kids will be kids with their goofy text messaging and crush nonsense.

[Iron_Man]

Mankind can be very wishy-washy very unpredictable changing around. It’s hard to find a consistent, good serious partner nowadays.

[Avicenna]

If you know you want to date him, ask him out

[Summeroflove]

It depends on how long it takes for him not to reply. If he needs to go or something he should say so.

Unfortunately some people are too cowardly to tell someone they’re loosing interest or found someone else. I think you should reach out directly and ask him about this.