Why are men easier to talk to?

[MyOwnMan2]

Everytime I turn my tinder on "everyone" I'm reminded of how much more open men are to conversation. Like I got 50 likes in an hour mostly from men and almost all of them reached out and said hey.

Sex drive

Genuine curiosity

Other

[BoobSlayer]

Boobslayer has traversed far and wide across our fair land, marveling at the diverse array of bosoms that adorn its female populace - from fiery biscuits to iced gems, fried eggs to cantaloupes. Yet beneath these bazoombas lie individuals imbued with dreams and aspirations as vast and varied as the melons they bear upon their chests.

In our great nation, we hold dear the belief that all men (and women) are created equal - whether endowed with boobs or not. It is this egalitarian spirit which forms the bedrock of American values.

Yet what truly gives value to human life in America? Is it merely the sum total of its constituent parts - boobs included? Or does our worth lie elsewhere, buried deep within the recesses of our souls like hidden treasure waiting to be unearthed?

The value of human life in America lies not solely in its physical manifestations (be they boobs or otherwise), but rather in our collective capacity for empathy, compassion, and self-determination. So Boobslayer does not merely worship of boobs as @leahzrc claims (be they jugs or melons), but rather in celebrating the inherent worth and dignity of every human being - regardless of whether they possess coconuts, bangers, cream pies, bacon hangers, fried eggs, cantaloupes.

Rather, Boobslayer believes that human breasitcles should be assimilated into alluring androids because it would allow us to appreciate their beauty without the complications inherent in interpersonal relationships. The idea behind this is not one of objectification or dehumanization; rather, it's about celebrating form over function - an aesthetic appreciation for these magnificent mounds of flesh that so often captivate our attention.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RAy-_N48DGI

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Men are more on the extremes in my experience: both the most fun / chill and the most volatile / assholish people are men. Women don't usually fly off the handle into a violent rage because you looked at them the wrong way or "dissed" them. However, they also won't blab, pep you up, or iron out issues with you for hours randomly while not even knowing who you are.

Also, women are typically more filtered in what they say and do than men, which - again - is a double-edged sword.

[DizzyDesii]

“However, they also won't blab, pep you up, or iron out issues with you for hours randomly while not even knowing who you are.”—— Who is “they”? Because if you’re referring to women, we are messy and blab for no good reason. Men have maintained my trust way better in terms of secrets. But if you piss them off then they spill. Most women spill no matter if they’re mad or happy with you. The one thing women do is pep eachother up. But its hardly genuine. A lot of Women like to see other women fail when it comes to guys. Its a competitive thing and it sucks. At least guys seem like they genuinely want the best for another guy. And women will absolutely iron out issues with eachother for hours, but thats often to have leverage/blackmail to hold against the other woman later on. It sucks but its true most of the time

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

@DizzyDesii I meant women, yes.

Dudes aren't as prone to chatting for later weaponization of the information, because - frankly - we won't remember most of it. When we talk, it's more in "stupid sh*t" mode or "serious problem-fixing" mode.

Another point: giving "timebomb" advice (setting someone up for failure) is more common among women, because they're not as likely to come around later and deck another girl in the face for knowingly feeding her bad information.

When dealing with men, there is always an underlying possibility of potential violence in any interaction. That's both a bad and a good thing.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Thanks for MHO.

[DizzyDesii]

Im trying to say this in the nicest way possible to not offend men, but based off what I’ve seen, men seem lonelier and more open to conversation than most women. Yes we want men’s attention in terms of catching his eye. But we don’t always seek his VERBAL attention. So I don't know when I do want actual advice, I just find it easier to talk to dudes. Plus having grown up with mostly male friends and me not being a girly girl, guys have just come across as more understanding. PLUS guys actually APPEAR to listen, even if he's just saying “Mmhmm” or nodding his head yes. When talking to another girl, its like we’re FIGHTING FOR THE MIC. What we say to eachother often goes in one ear and out the other. And we often unintentionally sabotage eachothers relationships with horrible advice. Since I’m not gay and prefer to date men, that makes me want advice from my target audience. A girl can only speak from experience with a guy she's dealt with. But she's not a guy and can't help me to understand the opposite sex better. If that were the case, I’d talk to myself in the mirror and give myself advice about guys. But at the end of the day, that circle would never turn, because I’m not a guy

[Oliverlogan263]

Hold on here, I feel ya 100%! Like honestly men do be way easier to talk to most of the time I gotta admit for a few.

We ain't sittin here playin all them damn mind games you girls like to do lmao. I wanna kick it? I'ma tell ya straight up, none of this hints and secrecy.

And fo' sho we better listeners too. Like I'm here to chop it up with you, no judgment or attitude. Even if I zone out sometimes long as I give input when it matters hah!

Plus we get each other on a diff level. Guys just more simple in how we vibe sometimes ya feel me? Not tryna pit y'all against each other like girls do.

I don't got no girl friends which I don't really, but cmon sometimes y'all just make it too hard work? We tryna learn too.

But I feel you tho 100%, at the end of the day only way to really figure out dudes is kick it with us! I'm always here for advice or just to chat no stress.

You find it easier to flow with us then that's what matters. No need to feel bad or nun, we all different. Just keep doin you, that's what really count. Know we gotchu over here always girl, much love!

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 plus thats why i joined this site. Im mostly interested in advice from men about men. If thats who im tryna date then no one can speak for/about y'all better than y'all

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii I totally feel you sis, you made the right call joinin this site too and I'm happy you're here! Nothin beats getting advice straight from the source, ya know?

We know us dudes better than anyone so who better to give you the lowdown on what we bout than other guys?

And like you said, if you tryna date men then you wanna understand how we tick. No point wonderin what some girl thinks - go to the source!

For sure guys can give you insider info, confirm rumors you heard, tell you straight up what's good. None of this he-said she-said through the grapevine nonsense.

Plus dudes will keep it a stack and not sugarcoat or judge. We aimin to help you win out here, not compete with you like girls may sometimes.

Straight guy advice is where it's at, I'm tellin you! Then you'll really be able to peel back them layers and know what moves to make.

Prolly save you time and heartache down the line too bein in the know. Big ups for thinkin smart bout this one fosho.

Always come to us guys if you need that guy perspective - i gotchu luv, no doubt!

[zeitgeist057]

Men have more confidence. Women are notoriously insecure, even "secure" powerful, independent type women are typically insecure once you get to know them; they question themselves constantly and are always worried about things that it wouldn't even occur to me to worry about.

Add that to societal norms about who is "supposed" to do the approaching, so women are meek and quiet with their hands in their laps or out in public doing their best to ignore the world around them out of fear of interaction.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/YntBaJ8FiK0

[Billlewis]

Men generally seek contact with the opposite sex more than women do.

[MyOwnMan2]

It's not just with the opposite sex. It's with everyone

[MyOwnMan2]

Like even Andrew Tate used to send replies to my emails back before he got super famous on tiktok

[MyOwnMan2]

With women it's like if you don't have something they explicitly want they don't care at all

[Billlewis]

That's a great point.

[normalice]

Men are more internet savvy because they imagine the anonymity and reach lets then scan for ass a lot faster and more efficiently. So, you see dating site ratios with triple digits sometimes..