Does a man's attractiveness to the opposite sex decrease significantly if he listens to "girly music"?

[Anonymous]

• Listening to "girly music" like Fifth harmony, Dua lipa, Bebe Rexha, Charli XCX, Mabel, Zara Larsson, Zedd, Ariana Grande?
• Watching My little pony friendship is magic and Alice in Wonderland (2010) and similar movies
• Practicing skincare routine with cleansers and lotions
• and also haircare while having long and good quality hair
• Dressing up but not in those boring business suits or plain tshirt and jeans. Not afraid of wearing pink or shiny or glittery jewelry.
• Sewing up the holes in his socks
• Loves cocktails and finds beer way too disgusting
• Is not afraid to be called GAY and just plays along when it happens because why the heck not?
• Flowers are nice to have
• Does not care about "for women" stuff like perfumes and uses it as if it's unisex. For example if it smells magnificent, then it's great.
• Being into lovey dovey romance stuff and always ready for cuddles

All of the above at once?

At what point does a man become too "girly" for girls to find that guy attractive? What or when is it too much?

This is NOT to say the man is weak or a sissy or a fem-boy or whatever.

Updates

6 mo

Why did the GAG admins change the question title? Now the question doesn't sound all that intriguing anymore.

[4ngelic]

• Listening to "girly music" like Fifth harmony, Dua lipa, Bebe Rexha, Charli XCX, Mabel, Zara Larsson, Zedd, Ariana Grande? No
  Watching My little pony friendship is magic and Alice in Wonderland (2010) and similar movies my little poney yea, alice no
  Practicing skincare routine with cleansers and lotions no
  and also haircare while having long and good quality hair no
  Dressing up but not in those boring business suits or plain tshirt and jeans. Not afraid of wearing pink or shiny or glittery jewelry. dressing up no, wearing pink is fine unless its excessive, the jewelery stuff esp glittery yea
  Sewing up the holes in his socks no
  Loves cocktails and finds beer way too disgusting no
  Is not afraid to be called GAY and just plays along when it happens because why the heck not? no
  Flowers are nice to have no
  Does not care about "for women" stuff like perfumes and uses it as if it's unisex. For example if it smells magnificent, then it's great. no
  Being into lovey dovey romance stuff and always ready for cuddles NOO

[Minxxie]

Not at all. Honestly, men are far more judgmental of other men, always policing if the men around them are masculine enough, it's lame. If you are straight you should be more concerned with what women think anyway!

Most women would enjoy having similar interests and tastes as their partner. My boyfriend likes a lot of those things, I think it's incredibly sexy that he is well-groomed and has some interest in fashion, I love that when we go out to eat I'll try one wacky cocktail and he'll order another one so we can share and we can both try something different. We do that every time we go out and it's super fun!

He likes romance media too and that's great for me because it means he looks up to the men in those stories and does a lot of romantic things for me.

Just be you! There will always be someone who appreciates exactly who you are and as long as you are kind and respectful you are already WAY ahead of most men!

[Asker]

So these things actually work in my favor? Hooray!

[DaySpring]

You should only ever be concerned with what you think. If you're concerned with what women think you are screwed. You shouldn't conform. A partner that fits with you will come along. If a man doesn't like romance movies then in my opinion he isn't fit for a romantic relationship. You have to have a good attitude toward romance. And Music is just music. However, feminine things DO make you more feminine. That is how to mind works. Everything plays on your conditioning. Your conditioning is who you are. Not the outside thing.

[joeND]

I never paid to see a girl band, he is either :Gay, trying to impress dates, or likes strip bars, which is what women artists are all about, Cardi B said the most important thing is the look. after hearing this I will never let these strip dancer get a dime from me.

[boombastik]

I wouldn't know, i don't listen to that music but any time i listen to something i don't like it puts off a vibe that's puts me on edge, makes me lose focus and causes anxiety but that could also have to do with the 440hz tuning as the off beat creates dissonance.

[Anonymous]

I imagine it's kind of a good thing in terms of some of the music. Because so much of it is sexual and sensual in ways that most guys could learn a lot from.

Personally I don't like the music girls listen to. I've tried. I entertain the songs. I give them a chance to a degree but honestly I can't stand the music.

But I've definitely learned things about women because of the kinds of music like listen to and the lyrics and the things they are saying and expressing in feelings.

[DaySpring]

You learned about the artist not women.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah I learned a lot about women. They some freaks.

[ShesRad80]

no

https://www.youtube.com/embed/-RNG_tTXXcg

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[Anonymous]

His taste of music would be the least of my concerns. Is he kind, respectful, smart, funny, has good hygiene.. i could go on and on. As long as he isn't sexist, racist, homophobic, arrogant, stupid, i dont care what music he listens to.

[Opinion Owner]

My boyfriend is way too worried about not being “manly” which i think isn't healthy. When im just goofing around he sometimes asks why im always trying to emasculate him. When really im just playing around. Like i know he's a man.

If he werent so afraid of letting go of that toxic masculinity mindset that would make me happy. Aka, the stuff you just listed.

[Opinion Owner]

I used to like putting my hands in my boyfriend’s pockets. It’s comforting for me, but he isn’t comfortable with it for some reason i think he said it means he’s my bitch lmao. I didn't make a big deal of it and have forgotten that i like doing that out of comfort.

[Opinion Owner]

And i always told him i want to wear matching clothes or matching anything with him because i find it sweet, but its too “gay” for him.

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway, im done ranting over my boyfriend. Dont be afraid to show who you are, women appreciate stuff like that.

[Asker]

I had a girl put her hands in my back pockets. I didn't understood why they do it until you said it. Either way it's fine by me.

Matching clothes? Funny you mentioned this now. I just finished watching the sequel to Alice in Wonderland 2010 (Alice Through the Looking Glass) and the Chinese costume part intrigued me. For the fun of it I'd happily wear this. It looks pretty nice.



Lucky for me these things seem to actually work in my favor now that you and the other girls mention the "fabricated" issues boys have these days 😁

[DaySpring]

Sounds like you would prefer him more girly. That's okay. That's why I don't use terms like masculine or feminine to define myself. Labels are trash.

[Opinion Owner]

Im glad to know other girls do the pocket thing too lol, and yeah girls like that :) so you dont have anything to hide or worry about

[Opinion Owner]

@dayspring hm my bad if it sounded like that, dont get me wrong i like that he’s strong and brave and all that. It makes me feel safe, but i also wish he wasn't so scared of doing other stuff too. Less “manly” stuff because i dont believe it emasculates him but thats what he thinks. That he could still do certain things without losing his sense of masculinity. Either he’s just not that guy or women just can't have it both ways. Can we?

[Opinion Owner]

@asker, one question, how did you feel about her hand in your pocket? Was it emasculating like my boyfriend said to me? Or did you not care?

[Sabretooth]

I think a person's taste in music can give you an idea of his values. rap music definitely doesn't promote kind, respectful, smart but does promote sexist, racist, homophobic, arrogant, stupid. it was easy to figure out how DMX died... there were only 3 guesses.

[Asker]

I didn't feel anything when the girl slid her hands into my back pockets to get a grip on my back cheeks. Its like whatever to me 🤷‍♀️

[davado88]

thats the second time good hygiene has been mentioned.
Can you people tell i haven't showeed in months?
omg how embarressing

[Nikki1989]

I couldn't take anyone seriously if they listened to that kind of crud.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Not at all, listening to ariana grande, taylor swift etc gives me great insight within 'girl culture' and that allows me to be a bsetter men. :)

[Anonymous]

Metrosexual comes to mind. by the way attractiveness is subjective. So the answer is yes and no and im sure im the only one with the correct answer so SUCK IT other commenters.

[strateguy632]

some of those list, if i were lady i would like but most in list would be turn off.

[anon1903]

Nope. It's cute. I'd probably date them, because of the similarities.

[haana]

nope, it don’t decrease at all. Masculinity doesn’t depend on what songs he listened.

[Nifrayu]

Of course not. These things have nothing to do with sexual attraction.

[zagor]

I never heard of any the music you mentioned.

[Strong_Warrior]

I listen Alpha dominant musics. Masculist musics 👍🏽

[Anonymous]

Duh. Guys that listen to girly music are annoying and repulsive.

[Chayce]

Lmao

[Anonymous]

at the point when he inserts a dick in himself. Which i suspect was during writing that rambling question , or having them inserted for him

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not at all…

[RedInnocent68]

Music and cocktails? No. My Little Pony? Maybe… 😂

[Jennz6]

I’m going to say no, just guessing

[femalepretzelmaker]

Nah do what makes you happy bro

[KrakenAttackin]

You just defined "metrosexual".

[In_Trance]

most likely, yes