Anyone feel too lazy to date? I feel like its hard work and I can't be arsed?

[catarecute]

[shades777]

from a woman perspective i can see how a certain woman can come to that conclusion, women have been treated like children because frankly most of you act like children so responsibility on part is misguided. Besides getting yourself to be presentable, your not helping with the date preparation, your not driving yourself to the date location, your paying for the food your eating. Does that sound like an adult or a child pretending to be an adult.

[catarecute]

some people are not financially independent its not our fault its the governments fault. money is tough for everyone even the rich. even politicians, bankers and elon musk sometimes have problems with money. men can't expect to have the perfect housewife and baby mother and not show them that they know how to make money from the biggining. if you are talking about gold diggers they are a complete different group. they are attractive. men get fooled by their attractiveness. they are like that because that how they make a living. not just in dating but by modelling and making porm as well. seriously men reject average girls and go for the models then wonder why they find themselves with a gold digger. honesly that why i can't be asrsed to date its too dumb its killing my brain cells to date.

[shades777]

you'd be surprised id be happy with a average 7 of 8 girl

[catarecute]

but no woman wants to be classed as 7 or 8 cuz we are not objects. i look in the mirror and i see a 10 where most guys see a 5 or 6 so why would i bother to date someone who doesn't see me the way i see myself.

[shades777]

i see your point but in the looks department women are divided by numbers, doesn't mean thats what you are in totality just means at a glance, yep she's a 7 or yep she's definitely a 10

[catarecute]

lol its no thats all in your head. i never heard of this until i joined this site. or maybe its an American thing. i live in uk

[Anonymous]

No, I just think women are a losing proposition. A guy generally puts more into a relationship with a woman than he'll ever get out of it.

There are a few good ones and when you find one you marry her, because they are rare. But by 25 they're all married off. So really there isn't any more women worth investing in after that.

[catarecute]

whatever

[catarecute]

marry your own age and you won't have that problem. you are over 45 and you insulting all women over 25 not married then you wonder why you are single. you are clearly rude. if 28 and 29 years old are not good enough for you and you are 50 or even older i think dating is over for you.

[Opinion Owner]

First off I don't date 25 year olds. I don't date anyone I thought I cleared that up already. Secondly, you're 30! Don't try to pretend like you're young either. I was just b popping facts that all good women are married off by 25. Sorry you didn't realize you weren't a good woman. But the good news is you can do something about that. You most likely won't. But you have an opportunity. And as far as bad you considering me rude, that's fine. This ain't first time I've had someone lash out at me simply because I told them there was no Santa Claus.

[catarecute]

lol i dont know you and i am sorry for what ever you are going through that is making you that unkind. please dont message me in the future because i am using this site to better myself and you seem verry toxic. good luck

[virtualwasp]

yea, half the time i just wish a friend or family say date this guy, they vouch for him think he's what i would like and done sorted.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No. I am just totally uninterested in any men right now, hence why, I am not dating.

[Fireguy17]

You are correct, it is a lot of work and expensive too.
When and if you find "the one" sure then it is worth it, but in-between it's really like a second job.

[Sharkstealth]

Women won't even befriend me so dating pretty much out of the question also. I gave up years ago for it being just a waste of time for me to keep trying.

[ChicoFromThe305]

The more time goes on the less motivated I am to jump into a dating life

[Anonymous]

I'm not interested in wasting my money and time on women, I have more important things to do.

[catarecute]

i have more important things to do like watching tv and listening to music on my own.

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha, your life is pathetic, I do have important things to do.

[catarecute]

lol yea its pathetic but at least i am enjoying it. watching tv and walking outside and eating pizza all day its better than working your arse off for minimum wage.

[Opinion Owner]

If you earn minimum wage your life is even more pathetic.

[catarecute]

well to be honest as long as i am happy i dont think my life is pathetic. i have spent many years making money then over spending now i am fed up i rather enjoy my life make less and spend less. at the end i have the same money but i am happier. that what i will do form now. fed up with money.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but then I make dating low-pressure and fun.

[exitseven]

You only get out of life what you put into it.

[catarecute]

yea i or sometime you put loads of effort onto the wrong things without knowing. that happens a lot in dating. actualy 90 percent of the time

[exitseven]

Dating is like a big crapshoot. Sometimes you get lucky but the odds are against you. Still the laws of averages are in your favor.

[catarecute]

i dont get what you are saying. dating isn't about looks. you might think good looking people are happy because they are dating but 50%of them feel trapped in a unhappy relationship. i am not ugly i am verry picky. and in Europe 40% of women marry in their 30s i am waiting to find the right guy i dont want to date the wrong person. i know i will find him its just not right now.

[exitseven]

I have no doubt that you will.

[jahaims]

Nah, I'm not a lazy person

[catarecute]

lol i am

[Luckycharms12]

Then you will be single that's your choice