Do you ever feel too lazy to go on a date?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am asked out on a date with this nice man, I feel so lazy to go though… So lazy, almost calling in sick.

[AviatorTom]

When I was younger, and also after my divorce, there were times when I canceled or postponed a date. It's okay to change your mind, so long as you don't do it too often.

[TurtlePoop]

They say it's the thought that counts. So just stay home and think about going.

A dumb person coined the phrase: "No pain, no gain."

Bullshit, it's:

'No pain, no pain." :)

[SugarSugarplum]

If you wanna find your prince, you have to kiss a lot of frogs.

[spartan55]

He must have made quite an impression lol... are you going to cancel?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s very nice actually. Gentleman, cute, successful, hard working. But I don’t feel that attracted.

Another one, is the opposite and I feel attracted to the other one but I don’t go on dates with him not because I am lazy but because I think I am a bit too attracted to him and I don’t want to put myself in that situation where I am attracted to him but don’t feel fondness for his personality.

The Long distance man though, I feel attracted to him and have feelings but we are too far.

[spartan55]

... and he won't even come see you...

[Christian_Cartier]

No you're not attracted to the nice guy, but very attracted to the douchebag? Oh my surprise.

[spartan55]

Right?

[Realistic07]

I promise you just be honest with him and do so early on. This gives him the ability to cancel any reservations made, and the ability in which to see if there’s something different he can do to appeal to your sense of procrastination. be honest about this. It typically works out.

[Finchie40]

No, because I would only date someone I was interested in, so if I didn’t want to go , that be my answer that I wasn’t into them

[Karalinaw1]

Hi what’s up. How are you doing today. Am Kara by name single mother with one daughter and ready to mingle. You can send me a mail to karalinaw1@gmail. com and let’s know each other

[superchan2011]

@Karalinaw1 HI. My name is Justin. I'm also single and I think I'm ready to jump back in the saddle so to speak😂. If you're interested in us getting to know each other send me a dm on here or email me at jcarthur06@gmail. com.

[Finchie40]

She’s mine man back off lol she looks beautiful, but she could be spam , sadly you can’t trust the internet these days , to many spammers and hackers

[superchan2011]

Maybe we can both have her 😂. But you're not wrong about that. My last girlfriend came off of gag but she could be a spammer. Instagram for example is full of scammers.

[Finchie40]

Yea I won’t meet anyone off the internet until they can prove they are legit , mainly with video chat first

[Saramad_Hill]

Negative. I haven't been on a date in over four years. Before that, I've been on less than ten dates ever. I doubt I'll ever feel too accustomed to them to feel lazy about it. I'll give them my best shot, unless I'm supposed to meet with someone I'm not exactly sure about. On those, I bet I won't have my heart in it.

[NathanDavis]

nope... never too tired to meet someone amazing

and I'd go even with a 144 degrees fever... lol

just like I do when I go to work

[Dongie]

We know. Your only problem is the ', BIG black book.' You're always to tired to lift it.

[NathanDavis]

@Dongie hard covers are nice...

[Dongie]

They last longer.

[NathanDavis]

@Dongie they look much better, as well

[Dongie]

Yep, especially on a book shelf.

[NathanDavis]

@Dongie I like to build those

[Dongie]

Yeah, I've done a few myself. I worked at a cabinet shop for a few years a long time ago. It's pleasant work.

[MikeTheBartender]

Yes, it indicates you aren't that interested.

[ABC29]

If you are too lazy to go on a date with someone, then your interest in that person is not high enough. You are never too lazy for a person you are interested in. Exceptions such as being too tired, having a job, etc. are excluded, but that's not laziness either.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Lazy is not really the right word, but as an introvert it takes some serious willpower to push through and leave the house.

[superchan2011]

Not in my experience. When I was with my ex I always looked forward to going out on dates with her. That would sometimes be the highlight of my day actually.

[Truthatanycost]

No... because I don't date. It's a waste of time...

[slatyb]

If you canceled a date with me and didn't propose another time, I would not ask for another. That would be up to you.

[blueonblack22]

Let’s see you say the same thing 10 years from now.

[Dongie]

There mustn't be any attraction.

Now if I were asked out for to date, heh how many wild horses would it take?
Answer: wouldn't matter.
I'd still get there.

[Tomisworthless]

If you're not into him why bother, if you really liked him and wanted to date youd jump through hoops to make it happen. he's a nice sweet guy to use but nothing more

[Anonymous]

If you feel too lazy to go on a date, you shouldn't go. It means you are REALLY not attracted to the dude. You should be on FIRE to go on a date.

[exitseven]

No, never. If you are too lazy to go on a date you do not deserve his attention.

[jojouzumaki]

I never was since whenever I agree with someone, I make sure that I did show up.

[Babygirl_S]

I would feel lazy and depressed too if I were surrounded by Chinese men

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am going on a date with a guy from London, blond blue eyes

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And on Monday, another blonde from the US. Chinese guys are hot too, though. ;) Racist much?

[Babygirl_S]

Having a racial preference is not racist and no it’s not common to see British guys in China but you can make anything up for the internet 😂

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hmm… Why would I have to make it up? It’s like a normal thing.

[Babygirl_S]

China mostly has Chinese people

[Christian_Cartier]

So you're not attracted to the nice guy, but very attracted to the douchebag? Oh my surprise.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You said that twice

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said that?💀

[Christian_Cartier]

@chocolatetwopointo I think she edited it out.

[Christian_Cartier]

NVM, she said it below.

[chocolatetwopointo]

where did she say he was a douchebag?

[Christian_Cartier]

@chocolatetwopointo Read the below comments. She says he has a bad personality and she's attracted.

[chocolatetwopointo]

literally where?

[Nonamez]

I know this feeling very well , can't say it is good ir bad 🙈😅

[MizzArtFreak89]

I haven’t been on a date since 2011-2012 so I couldn’t tell you.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Sure. It's probably your nerves. It can happen to anyone.

[Alex-Snow]

Not yet.. I enjoy a date and some fun talk and sometimes maybe more

[Ladsin2]

I do that for a lot of stuff. Not dates. If a nice lady asked me on a date I'd have the energy to go out.

[RichieJoo]

Hahaha. You are not ready for a date. Show him some courtesy by saying 'You deserve someone better at this time. Can I ask you out when I feel like I am now worth your interest?'

[Likes2drive]

Sometimes because I would have to get all ready and depending how much you want to see them

[Staximus]

Sounds like he doesn't get your motor running

[SmileyLady]

Too tired or too broke sometimes, yes. Then if they sulk, I block them.

[PeterLegg91]

I ain't been on a date since mid 2016 yeah 2016, life's been stressful since then :(

[shortster]

Sometimes, it doesn't help when I get stood up most of the time.

[robocop666]

do you want to look back at your life when its finished and realise you had a boring life?

[22LonleyGuy]

Never been on a date or had a date setup before so no

[morganherrel]

Literally never

[SlightlyMental]

Why date if you both click?

[Olgaaa22]

Unmotivated yes or helpless

[msc545]

Many times. Which is why I don't date.

[Knightwatch27]

You don't find that disrespectful?

[Jmmmfi4]

I DON'T HAVE THAT LUXURY UNFORTUNATELY

[WhitneySnow]

That’s ok

[Anonymous]

I've never been on a date.

[Anonymous]

Maybe