Should I go search for her?

[Anonymous]

There is this 25 year old woman I met on a dating app that has never had a boyfriend. Girls like her are very rare.

Sadly, she dropped me on snap after a week of talking. There was no explanation behind it. Although, I know her name and found out where she lives and goes to college. She lives in another state.

I am thinking about traveling there to find her. I am only wanting a woman without a romantic past, so my options are extremely limited and I like her.

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[Anonymous]

What excuse are you gonna tell her if she asks you why you’re in town?

[Asker]

I won't have one. I'll just say I wanted to surprise her.

[Opinion Owner]

Well… be prepared for another rejection then. You’ll just come across as a creepy stalker in her eyes especially since she never invited you to meet in person. Reach out to her on snap again first maybe?

[Twalli]

She will be surprised and, likely, terrified

[Opinion Owner]

@Twalli exactly and this guy already has a restraining order in the past from showing up at another girl’s doorstep, her father basically filed chargers against him so yeah…

[Asker]

What is a way I can reach out to her then and it not be creepy?

[Opinion Owner]

Send her a text or snap, just ask how she’s doing, keep it light

[Asker]

But what if I don't know her actual phone number and I can no longer find her on snap?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe DM her on IG or FB? If you’re already blocked on snap tho I would suggest to just let her go and move on.

[slatyb]

Are you insane? It's she wanted to talk to you, she would be. Maybe you just like being the subject if restraining orders?

[DryGermanGuy]

@southernwhiteman You already have a stalking conviction. Do you want another one?

[Anonymous]

You sound like a serial killer! She stopped talking to you, now you want to stalk her? wtf

[Asker]

I am not a violent person whatsoever

[Naruse]

Don't do it it's gonna creep her the fuck out. Mission abort!

[Asker]

Oh... hmm... is there any way I can get her back or gain her attention?

[Naruse]

I mean you could try chatting online to her again but if she stopped responding after a week she probably isn't all that into you. There are other abstinent Christians out there I get it's rough but sometimes the best decision is to try elsewhere, there will be other people who interest you and maybe they'll be a better fit for you and reciprocate.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL.. Dude she dropped you for a reason. Leave her alone lest you find yourself in legal trouble being a creep.

[Asker]

What about just a letter?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

She's gonna wonder how you found her address so that's gonna scare her a bit possibly.

I have learned in my life, you can't force things. It never works, just creates stress and tension.

Believe me, there are other women out there that physically look better than her and are better than her so you don't need to put yourself through stress wondering about some chick that basically send you packing out of her life on the internet.

[Asker]

But I want a woman without a romantic past

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I understand. I wanted to play organize Football when I was a kid and play in the NFL but that didn't happen.

In life we might if lucky get 25% of all the things we want but most don't.

Very few things go as we like in life.

[Twalli]

Do you understand how creepy you would be if you did that?

[LazerBean]

@Naruse this is the one I was talking about lol

[Naruse]

'It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again' Yeah I'd be getting red flags too. lol

[Iron_Man]

Yes, good luck

[Asker]

Thanks. I know she is a minister's daughter. I thought about trying to figure out which church she goes to and surprise her there.

[Iron_Man]

No sex until she’s married

[Asker]

Exactly

[Iron_Man]

Good man

[rigmarole]

Nope.