How direct would you want someone to be if they had feelings for you?

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johnnydeeeep · Accepted Answer

That's actually a more loaded question to unpack than would appear at first glance.
When considering how direct I would want a woman to be with... what occured to me initially was whether is whether or not I would be reciprocally interested.
Then since I prefer to make the first move, naturally I would hope that she would instead reveal her interest in a o
more subtle and indirect.
In consideration what becomes immediately and glaringly obvious is that the potential for prospective variables that could influence my preference is likely infinite.
Though I wouldn't have suspected initially that I this question could anything other than pretty cut and dry, I'm going to have to conclude that each and every instance is different and the only two people that could plausibly know how they'd prefer it given this circumstance, is you and this other person... So it's actually kinda coolprove as, unless you want to ask them how they would prefer it in advance... You kinda gotta roll the dice on this one and hope hope for the best...

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Accepted Answer

They can be direct but shouldn't be persistent. they should be respectful and let me have space and options u accept or deny it
When they force relationship and their opinion it's unattractive and unbearable

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely direct. I want someone to be direct regardless of how they feel. People make dating very difficult because they can’t say what is on their mind

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

It's not whether a guy has feelings for me that makes me interested in him, it's whether I know he does not have feelings for any body else.

VKN724 · Answer

People are naturally averse to "putting it all on the line" with direct communication. Men who do it are seen as either aggressive or romantic. Women who do it are seen as either independent or "too masculine."

No one wants to lose the potential future with someone they like by being direct. This is why being direct and putting it on the line is usually seen as a last option after being subtle hasn't worked.

Anonymous · Answer

I do play games and i am not proud of it. mainly because i didn't want to reject someone and make them feel bad. Or i feared their reaction if they get bitter about it. Some people dont take no for an answer and are pushy. And will end up saying Something mean out of spite. U can get some psycho reaction. The world would be a perfect place if we get the honest answer for all our questions right? But for some reason this doesn't happen...

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I want them to be as direct as an arrow pointing in the exact direction I'm supposed to go.. At my age, things should be straight to the point.. Not that I'm old or anything, just that we are super grown..

pickles77 · Answer

I personally like a progression. I like it to be indirect at first and then as we get to know each other it can be more obvious and when we both reciprocate this then I think there should be a conversation to solidify things.

Selliebeanz · Answer

Direct because I’m straight forward. You risk losing when the getting’s hot. If a guy isn’t forward with me I assume I’m not that desirable to him. No guy will put you in the position of another guy taking you if he cares about you.

aceleon · Answer

As straight as an arrow if possible, don't like People Who beat around the bush.

glennos89 · Answer

As direct as she dares to be. Prefer he to let me know as directy as possible tbh

Simslover92 · Answer

If I was single, very direct. I hate when people beat around the bush especially about their feelings.

Staximus · Answer

As direct as possible. I don't have patience for games

Nifrayu · Answer

At least somewhat direct. Definitely don't beat around the bush.

overthinkergirl · Answer

100% direct. they should say something like i really like you…. if guy is giving you mixed signs it’s a no for me.

SunnyRS · Answer

Completely direct.  I don't do well with hints.  Whatever you have in mind get it out, if it works it works if it doesn't you didn't waste your time.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

The dirty answer: If emotions run high, I’ve found girls don’t ask my permission to express themselves. They explode when they feel like it.

Your desired answer: Whatever they’re comfortable with. I’m flexible.

Arik_jade · Answer

I am in opinion of saying straight forward about my desire... I would directly speak what I mean and mean what i want to say...

Anonymous · Answer

If it's someone I know I just want them to be direct, there were a lot of boys in school who never told me they liked me until many years later. If it's someone I don't know, I don't want to hear about it.

katiesmuff · Answer

I would want them to be direct and ask the question!

DJB72 · Answer

I generally prefer someone who calls a spade a f*cking shovel.  Tell me everything every time.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

Very direct. If they're subtle I won't catch on.

Kaneki05 · Answer

As much as they can be.

syncheart · Answer

I wish they would tell me to my face, so that I didn't go around wondering why are they acting so strange.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Direct. I would want to know how they feel

bowenw · Answer

Direct but in a sweet way.

Apple1996 · Answer

Very direct. Just say it to my face

Radiate143 · Answer

Direct like satellite TV.

swettannie · Answer

errr, why hiding it?

Jazzy54 · Answer

💯 😊

BLP11520 · Answer

Let me know soon

dudeinohio · Answer

Pretty direct

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Touch it.

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