Is this lifetime just not meant for me?

[Anonymous]

I am scared I am going to become that lonely, bitter old man without children or a wife. I am especially fearful of the day my parents are no longer here, and I will not have a shoulder to cry on.

I am 29 and never had a real girlfriend. I, thank God, managed to find a small Bible group with single friends. Of course, things can change as time progresses, and they may eventually end up married too.

I only want a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first real relationship. Seeing that I may not ever find that, I risk being alone for life.

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[Anonymous]

I think you are already lonely and bitter, but at least you’re still young enough! That means you still have hope, at the same time you need to learn to be less rigid. You are not inexperienced, you’ve had online relationships before and you’re not a virgin. Maybe broaden your expectations to also include at least girls who has had an online relationship before…

[Asker]

I can maybe accept women that have had solely online relationships before... I don't know. At least nothing serious or any history of them making love

[Asker]

But you also have to remember the girls rejected me upon meeting me in person, so that makes everything null and void.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a great start, since you also said online relationships doesn’t count right. But wait, are you also looking for a virgin?

Do you think they rejected you bcs you’re socially awkward? I remember seeing your pics a long time ago (you posted under a different account), you’re not unattractive by any means. So I’m guessing it’s your awkwardness that might have been turning girls off.

I guess you’d have to move somewhere conservative to find love

[Asker]

I do have a difficult time socially, and especially attracting women. Always have.

[Anonymous]

i saw in another post of yours that you said you were autistic. and i think that's the reason why your still single and never dated at your age. i think the solution to that is to look for other autistic girls (probably it will be easier to find girls who are also not very experienced if you look into girls like you). its very easy, just go on discord servers for autistic dating or stuff like that. that should probably work a lot better for you then tinder or stuff like that

[Asker]

I am on the Autism Spectrum but I am not full blown Autistic. I am, however, very behind in maturity and socially awkward.

[msc545]

Are you insist on having things your way or no way then? Yes you may grow up alone and childless and chronically angry forever until you die. All you have to do is compromise your unrealistic standards a little bit and you should be able to find someone. If you insist on sticking to things that are untenable then the consequences are up to you and nobody else.

[zagor]

If that is what you are looking for in a girl you better start leading the Jr. High bible classes.

[Asker]

That would be perverted and illegal

[Nikki1989]

You are already bitter, but anyone would end up that way, being as delusional and stubborn as you are.

[Asker]

I just want a woman with the same inexperience as me, and that is a fair request.

[msc545]

Sure, it's a fair request, but it's also a totally impractical request since most people are not as inexperienced as you are and certainly most women are not. You talk about inexperience as if it were a virtue and it is not. It's just inexperience.

[jogeb907433]

I'll also be a bitter old man, but I'd rather be that than marry a prostitute.

[Asker]

I agree. I rather have a clean napkin than a used up one.

[DaBiggestBird]

If you trust God, you won’t need to worry about anything. Try to blast light on everything

[Flower7]

Do you have any siblings?

[Asker]

I have an estranged sister that has alienated me and our parents.

[msc545]

How exactly did she alienate you and your parents?

[Asker]

@msc545 she moved to another state and hardly contacts us, despite our attempts to stay in touch. She avoids us.

[Asker]

She does talk to us when we do call, but she does not volunteer any info hardly and doesn't take the initiative to be close to us.

[msc545]

I can understand why.

[Asker]

@msc545 why do you say that?