When should I start looking to date if I am currently pregnant and single?

[Anonymous]

That isn’t me but more or less how big I currently am. Do you think a guy would mind dating a pregnant girl? I asked on a poll here and it didn’t turn out good but when is a good time to date then? Even after delivery would be stranger for me

[Anonymous]

There's plenty of simps that would date you.

[dazzinu69]

I would hella date you lol. no for real tho

[Asker]

How much money do you make? I’d let you clap my cheeks lol

[dazzinu69]

I do ok.. I'm in Las Vegas fyi

[TheSpaceGnome]

Single moms are at the bottom of the dating barrel in most men's eyes.
It says the woman is irresponsible, has trouble picking the right guy, doesn't know what she wants in a man (or can't read a guy's personality well), yet rushes into picking one anyway, and that even having sex with her isn't verification that she'll stay.

It also brings in the problem of the father being around, no self respecting guy wants his woman's ex around.

You are going to have an extremely hard time finding a guy, so when you should start looking is now, and if you don't cut off contact with the father completely and find a guy before the kid is born, it reduces your chances enourmously that any other guy will be interested, but it also makes child support impossible, so its a double edged sword that no matter which you pick, you will regret it.

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep asking this? Focus on your pregnancy and your baby instead of worrying about putting yourself out there to date. You will regret it later on. I miss being pregnant and I regret not having the opportunity to be able to enjoy it more.

You say you are looking for a long term relationship at the same time you are saying you need someone with money to support you and your kid.

Seriously you are going to find almost no guy interested in being with you if he were to find out you cheated. Also being pregnant and expecting him to provide for you and your child will likely make guys run for the hills. Use the search bar and you will find a lot of guys are not interested in single mom's

You need to seek child support from the biological father of the baby. It is his responsibility to help support the child.

[overthinkergirl]

i think there're not much chances but hopeful everything during pregnancy goes well and the birth isn't too painful. i also suggest that u and your boyfriend both raise a child or if u're not together anymore then at least he heelps financialy.

[Redstang88]

Honestly until the kid is in school your options are gonna be extremely limited. Dating a single mom is a lot of baggage, but a single NEW mom is a whole other can of worms.
You have bigger things to worry about, at least until the kid is out of diapers

[BourbonAndBacon]

You're not going to have a lot of good options because a pregnant woman is at the bottom of every guys list of the type of woman to date. A guy who can afford to support you has options, and a guy with options isn't likely to pick a single mom.

[laurieluvsit]

Many guys I know love the looks of pregnant girls.

I mean how many do you have to have? ... lol

If you find one guy that thinks you are cute, wouldn't that do it?

[riverrat3]

There are guys that will never raise another man's child. Some men will think you being pregnant you have a guy. But there are some nice guys out there, that if they know you are available they might be interested, do not give up, be friendly to all, flirt, have fun. Enjoy life.

[HelpfulWoman]

any man with a brain would and SHOULD run a mile.
Concentrate on the fucking kid and not your relationship status.

[Billlewis]

Why is everyone shaming her so much? She's young, pregnant and trying to make a better life for herself.

[NeverGiveUp69]

I've dated lots of women with kids and it is great. Scary but great. Most guy will be hesitant to date you, but you will find someone. Just make sure you know that the kid is the most important.

[Holsen]

I think it would be best around the time your kid turns 4

[exitseven]

I would worry more about how you are going to raise a child without a husband.

[Asker]

That’s why I’m looking for one

[exitseven]

good luck with that.

[andreasderjuengere]

Let's say... some 18 years after giving birth?

Us guys just. don't. love. the idea of feeding someone else's product :)

[BoopBoopBeep]

When you pull your head out of your arse and get your life together.

[Anonymous]

probably not until your kid is full grown and at that point you will be looking for other men coming off their 2nd or 3rd marriages that just don't want to die alone. Unfortunately not good pickings for pregnant women.

[Anonymous]

When the kid is in high school? I mean it’s not going to be easy finding a guy to date as a single mother, what happened to the father, is he in jail?

[Asker]

I was cheating on him to be honest. It’s over

[Opinion Owner]

Well he is still responsible for the child for 18 years at least so you still need to deal with him, maybe some day you can get back together because most guys don’t want to get involved with a single mother when a kid is that young, people date single mothers but when the kids are in their teens at least

[Slim57]

You shouldn't. You should GTFO the dating scene and take care of your damn child.

[Asker]

How am I going to support myself and kid? I need a provider

[Slim57]

Should've thought about that before you got pregnant and single, if you couldn't provide for a kid you should've done what's necessary to prevent yourself from having one, I thought nowadays women were strong and independent, why can't you be your own provider

[Asker]

Mind your own business at this point. There’s millions of men out there with money

[Slim57]

You're the one that made it everyone's business, I just saw you cheated too, you're a POS that doesn't deserve any sympathy

[Asker]

I’m on tinder and have over 50 matches already within this day and just started. 😌

[Slim57]

Oh wow 50 dudes that want to fuck and leave you just the like the dude who got you pregnant, you're such a winner, now find a man who actually wants to date you and not just sleep with you

[Asker]

If every one of those 50 guys gives me just $10 then that’s $500

[Luckycharms12]

No maybe in future now worry about you and your baby

[Kingdomkeeper1]

Tbh I don't see why guys have a problem with it. I wouldn't mind dating a girl who was pregnant. I guess you just have to find the right guy

[Anonymous]

Don't you have more important things to work on right now?

[Anonymous]

Wtf!!! Where's the guy who is father of child you are carrying?
Sick!

[rigmarole]

20 years from now.

[LazerBean]

In 18 years

[Asker]

That’s ridiculous. I would be 38

[LazerBean]

Looking for another baby daddy after you just screwed up instead of focusing on doing better and raising your child is what is ridiculous.

[Asker]

I’m looking for a serious long term partner. Not a new baby daddy

[LazerBean]

Is that what you said about your last baby daddy? Too little, too late.

[Asker]

I was with him for two years

[Asker]

But we argue too much

[LazerBean]

And you didn't figure that out before getting knocked up with his bastard child? But you somehow think that won't happen again because you're too selfish to think. I feel sorry for your child.

[Asker]

Your husband is too cute for you. Don’t get too excited about your life over mine.

[LazerBean]

I'm not excited about your shameful life of poor choices

[Worst]

lolㅤ

[Worst]

Make it your new years resolution

[Anonymous]

Whenever if you find someone willing

[Nuget]

Tomorrow

[Anonymous]

When your kid is 18.