Relationship/drugs?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a relationship with someone that I met a year ago. We were on and off for a while and then started dating seriously but I like to believe we both had the intention of taking things further. He’s an active user and it wasn’t always that way. He started again after being a year clean. Im doing the best I can to support him, but im hurting. He does things I don’t like or relate with and because he’s using I’ve let it pass. But I’m beginning to question myself and wonder if I allowed what he’s going through to justify his actions or if what he is going through is making him do these things. also we’ve never gone on a real date. I’ve never hungout with him outside of his room and he’s that is very dumb of me to tolerate I agree but I’m confused. if there is anyone reading this that has been or is going through something similar leave a comment.

[kylee2437]

You are investing too much time into someone that hasn’t brought much good into your life and also sooner or later going to bring a dark cloud into your life. As someone that has had a drug addict of a brother and an alcoholic as an ex - you seriously don’t want this in your life. These kinds of people end up abusive in more ways or not that can lead to the cause of your death - I’m not kidding. Drug addicts are dangerous people and you can’t ever trust them with anything, and they won’t hesitate to put their hands on you when you try to stand up for yourself.

[HelpfulWoman]

you've posted this before ages ago. he's a trash person. all you'll get is trash.
now shut the fuck up as you got advice before, and stop playing victim for some attention druggie boy obviously isn't giving.

[exitseven]

When you are in a relation with a drug user there are 3 in the relationship. You him and the drugs. I know that the relationship is good in a lot of ways but there will be a lot of times when it isn;t/

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[ChicoFromThe305]

He needs to want to help himself, if not then there's not much you can really do about it

[Staximus]

If you're talking about hard drugs then just leave him

[Anonymous]

Once a druggie, always a druggie.

[kylee2437]

Not true and this is an unfair statement. People have the availability to get clean and live normal lives.

[jahaims]

You are the enabler