Guys and girls who cheats on their love have some unhealthy and mental issues because an understanding guy or girl doesn't cheat on their love. Agree?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I agree. They're unworthy of marriage. They don't deserve loyal partners

No, cheaters deserve everything they want and they are worth more than loyal people

A total of 43 votes were cast: 15 girls and 28 guys. See detailed results

[sawno]

No, I don't agree. Thats way to narrow of a definition. You are ruling out men who are simply using her for sex. Perfectly mentally sound men who are highly dissatisfied in the relationship and would have left if not for the kids, etc.

I know it would be easy to cast away all men who cheat as having issues, but thats just to simplistic of a scapegoat. It can simply be their intent to cheat for a number of different reasons. You have to find a man who is truly loyal at heart and loves you deeply, not just one that lacks a mental issue.

[Asker]

I agree with the last line. The starting of the opinion might be understood as an opinion but can't be acceptable

[Summeroflove]

Unless it was rape. Someone who cheats chose to do it. They aren’t worthy of marriage. If someone’s a cheater and genuinely repents. God can forgive them. Deliver them from it. And find them someone amazing.



But if they don’t or keep doing it. Unfortunately. They will either be alone or be with exactly who they deserve

[yikesyikesyikes]

People who can't stay faithful need to just accept that they should not be in a relationship and expect that from their partners. I think it's probably not normal to have 1 partner and we all live by those strange ideas. For the most part we get it right but if you know you one of those people that will mess around my best advice is go it alone get use to the fact that you need to be alone so you can do whatever you want. It's really horrible to find out your partner is messing around...

[IslaTheWitch]

It depends on the person - cheating can be just a one-time event, a planned thing to happen regularly with one or many different people, or just a change of heart. But it is not related to mental issues. It's more of a choice. Because we always have options, and sometimes people choose the easiest way.

[Kelly6]

@islathewitch can't agree more

[Asker]

It's surely a mental issue or else they won't make a wrong choice

[OlderAndWiser]

"Understanding?" Cheating is not about how understanding you are. It is about self-centeredness and a refusal to treat a sacred promise as important. It's not a cognitive defect; it's a character flaw.

[Asker]

Exactly. It's a character flaw

[Billlewis]

I've always maintained that there are two different scenarios relating to extramarital infidelity, and the degree to which an affair affects the relationship, as well as the possible benefits it may provide depend upon whether the woman has a boyfriend on the side or the guy is being unfaithful. I know the double standard probably drives people crazy, but I honestly think that a woman's indiscretions are far less harmful than a guy's, and I'm equally certain that the fairly frequent trysts she engages in with her boyfriends are ultimately a boon to their lifelong love affair with one another.

[glennos89]

Cheating is wrong in any kind of way. If you wanne fuck arround, stay single, get a open-relationship or make sure your partner is okay with it but cheaters are ruining people's thrust for selfish reasons.

Cheaters should stay out of monagemous relationship. Cheaters are losers 💯

[RedInnocent68]

No question bias there at all. 😂 Relationships are complicated, and people do change, both for better and worse. At the end of the day ‘cheating’ is driven by disappointment and lack of fulfillment, which can be from either internal or external factors. Blanket value judgments are difficult to make.

[JacobJordan]

understanding? did you by chance mean a morally centered guy or girl? cause those are the type of people who wouldn't cheat

[RavVid]

I suspect a lot of infidelity is due to mental/emotional issues. Not raging pyscho stuff but depression, a need for validation, boredom more low key stuff.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, I totally agree. A relationship is about trust, and trust is very important. Breaking trust is no good

[aceleon]

ey are unworthy of anything, they are the scum of the earth, they deserve every kind of pain.

[Anonymous]

love you for your good question... cheating never accept

[strateguy632]

not mental issue!! just temptation tempted

[Danny_dan92]

In short, humans are narcissistic and selfish

[Pohjolan]

Some are just dicks.

[Carly2005]

Yes I believe ve they have a mommy daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

Duuuuh