Boyfriend (28M) and his friend that’s a girl?

[333user12648]

When I met my boyfriend he had just moved to my city. I am (23f). Anyways he Erik’s me some of his friends/ girlfriends were coming into town and I said cool. So we enjoyed going out with one of his girlfriends she kept calling him by nickname (his last name modified) just seemed like a power poly and trying to prove her dominance over the situation all night, which did end up happening when he asked does anyone else want drunk and I said no, but she said yes and he got them drinks and my boyfriend got drinks and ended up puking in his cup. What really got me was that at the end of the night after she left she messaged him saying, I didn’t expect your girlfriend to be so hot, which my boyfriend relayed to me. It felt like they had a relationship in the past which he denies but she comments on all his insta posts so…

[Oliverlogan263]

That chick sounds like super weird vibes. Like who even says that about their bro's girl, major red flags.

I'd be keeping a close eye on them for sure. Her being all touchy with him and trying to one-up you is not cool at all. Seems like she might still have feelings or something.

Def ask your boy straight up what their history is. watch his reaction close - if he gets defensive or vague, he's probably hiding something.

Also peep how she acts around you now - does she try excluding you or flirting with him more with you there? That would confirm she's tryna cause issues I think.

Either way you gotta set some clear boundaries. Tell him her behavior made you uncomfortable and you don't want some other girl disrespecting you like that. Your relationship should be just between you two.

Maybe limit how much he hangs with her solo too if you can't fully trust the situation. Don't let some other chick stress you out, you got this! Just keep an eye out, you'll see their real deal soon enough.

[Anonymous]

what exactly is your question? A lot of guys have female friends. He isn't hiding her from you. So that alone should show you that is he trustworthy. Commenting on IG posted doesn't mean they ever were involved.

[Kelly6]

yes they had relationship,

i had some similar relationship in past too

[Kelly6]

thanks for mho

[ThrillSeeker01]

Baby girlfriend or friend...

[collie22]

Did you ask her?