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I have no idea why I can’t shake it off.. I blame myself everyday for being slow, weird , ugly, unattractive … I texted him about 3 times trying to figure out what happened.
i told him that I deserved closure or something … at least let me know you’re not interested.. something. I asked if it was bc I was unattractive … I told him that I’ll get my face done and that I wanted to before we met … i wanted to apologize for not being enough and I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I feel very very very sad about it
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He ghosted u because he is a shitty person that didn't respect your time or u you deciding to act desperate is a separate issue in itself
I think he thought I was ugly when meeting me
Did u cat fish him?
I don’t feel like I did! I’m the person in my pics
I had a promising conversation with a guy recently, but I messed things up by overthinking and not staying logical. He was level-headed, which drew me in, but he didn't want me as a placeholder. He said he would end up liking me for nothing…I kept trying to brush him off but I liked him and maybe wanted to give it a chance. He eventually became a tad bit frustrated with my behavior. I did a lot of shit testing. Eventually, we went on a coffee date after two weeks of talking, which was a rollercoaster. He insisted that if we didn't meet, we'd stop talking.
I was hesitant to meet him because I was unsure of his impression of me; I was mostly engaging for my ego's entertainment. When we met, I enjoyed his company and admired his qualities. I loved being in his presence, his masculine energy.. his big hands, his cologne, voice… he was a gentleman..
He suddenly stopped communicating, and it's been two painful weeks since.
He messaged me back once and then he ghosted me.
Ghosting isn't cool regardless of the reason. That being said, you sound like you need to work on yourself before dating right now.
I mean was it bc I was unattactive?
There's no way for us to know.
I had a promising conversation with a guy recently, but I messed things up by overthinking and not staying logical. He was level-headed, which drew me in, but he didn't want me as a placeholder. He said he would end up liking me for nothing…I kept trying to brush him off but I liked him and maybe wanted to give it a chance. He eventually became a tad bit frustrated with my behavior. I did a lot of shit testing. Eventually, we went on a coffee date after two weeks of talking, which was a rollercoaster. He insisted that if we didn't meet, we'd stop talking.
I was hesitant to meet him because I was unsure of his impression of me; I was mostly engaging for my ego's entertainment. When we met, I enjoyed his company and admired his qualities. I loved being in his presence, his masculine energy.. his big hands, his cologne, voice… he was a gentleman..
He suddenly stopped communicating, and it's been two painful weeks since.
He messaged me back once and then he ghosted me.
Ghosting isn't good regardless of the reason. I will tell you that I've met with people that I didn't get a vibe with despite finding them attractive, but it's not good to leave someone wondering.
If someone ghosts, they're probably not good at communicating so you're better off in my opinion.
But I felt he was level headed and I always felt he was straight forward… but looking back at it.. there were signs and he even mentioned something about “my next guy…” …
I just hope I have the courage to end it. I’m tired of never feeling good enough ever
I hope so too. Gotta find that person that wants to be with you, it won't work otherwise.
But I felt like he wanted me first! I didn’t want anything at the moment… all that seemed to change after we met
He did believe I was unstable
It could be because he didn't find you attractive or because of something that was said or for an infinite number of other reasons that are in or out of your control. Dwelling on it won't do you any good, just find someone else and try again.
I hope I’m brave enough to hang myself.
It's not the end of the world. I'm sure you have a number of redeeming qualities.
It is to me. You don’t know what I’ve been through. I want to feel and be loved.
I don't know, but offing yourself because a guy ghosted you doesn't scream stable.
No shit… that’s why I didn’t want to talk to him to begin with. I can’t handle feeling like I’m not lovable.
I think I understand him now.
What was the reason?
How hurtful thanks
How could you say something like that… if he really felt that way why did he not only continue to talk to me but he met up with me…?
Because you might seem like a potential partner until they get to know you more. This is very fixable for you.
No we were talking for two weeks prior and the whole reason we met is bc he wanted to see what I was like in person… over the phone he said he doesn’t know why he continued to talk to me… he said I come off as unstable through text. So I don’t understand if I show signs that something is wrong why continue …. Then he met me and ghosted … I don’t get it
He was hoping you would be more stable in person.
I’m not unstable! I just want a man to make me feel safe emotionally.. I don’t want to be used