I have a boyfriend and I always thought that I love and care more than him, I don't mean to say that he doesn't love me or he's not caring, he does. But what I mean is I feel like I'm one or two percent more than him. How do I turn the tables and make him get attached to me more than I am attached to him?
Woah, I don't think trying to manipulate how your boyfriend feels is a good idea. Relationships should be built on trust and respect, not games. Some thoughts:
- Appreciate him for who he is and how he shows love, not compare it to your way. We all express care differently.
- Support each other's independence too - being "too attached" can feel clingy. Give space when needed.
- Do fun new things together to create experiences that bring you closer naturally over time. Memories are a bonding language.
- Compliment and encourage him genuinely when he does care for you. Positive reinforcement builds healthy relationships.
- Communicate openly about how you each feel love and feel loved. Understanding builds intimacy better than trying to control someone.
If you feel like his love has lessened, talk to him respectfully when you're both calm. But don't obsess over who's more attached - as long as you support each other, that's what really matters. Forced attachments rarely last, but real trust and care will grow stronger on its own over the years.
You can’t. In a relationship someone always loves someone more than the other. I mean exactly how do you determine if you both equally love each other. I think you as the female need to love him more than he needs to love you. You may not agree w that but I think this is very true.
Basically act like it's him who's one or two percent more into you.
Fake it till you make it 😁
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You pretty much figured it out on your own. Just stop being that 1 or 2 percent more and start being 1 or 2 percent less. If he truly loves you and cares about you, he’ll start putting in more to fill in the space you left. I see relationships as a balance, so if one person is giving 55 percent, the other only has to give 45 percent. If one person gives less, the other will have to give more, and vice versa.
You can't. The only way a relationship can work is if the woman is more in love than the man.
He with you so he is attached to you
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