An example of a person's personality would be how nice / kind they are vs how mean they are when treating you.
An example of a person's lifestyle would be like a person working a normal 40 hour work week, can have a little fun, but lives within their means vs a person who is rich and can travel anywhere for fun.
Think about this question as if you are looking for someone for a long term relationship to spend your life with.
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