Two guys want to date me?

[Anonymous]

I never ever get guys but now all of sudden two guys want to date me! I've never had this problem before so I don't know how to deal with it. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated. I hate being anxious and uncomfortable about this.

[Finchie40]

Date both of them , dating doesn’t mean you are in a relationship , dating is just getting to know someone , be upfront with both of them that you are just dating and not looking to rush into anything , and do yourself a favor , don’t have sex with any of them , until you know for sure which one you really want to be with , Guys’ look at sex different then most girls’ do , So don’t sleep with any of them until you know for sure which one you want to be with , I have dated multiple girls ‘at the same time before , mainly because I wasn’t really ready to settle down but I was honest and upfront with all of them before hand , so as long as you are honest with them , then you have nothing to worry about , you don’t have to tell them every little detail because they aren’t your partner , so if they can’t respect your decision and can’t respect that you are dating other people , then that tells you right there that they aren’t meant for you period. Kick that one to the curb. Always remember you are single, until you choose to commit to someone and make it official that you are boyfriend and girlfriend the same way he is choosing you , , anything before that you are single , and you don’t need to answer to nobody. You don’t have to be rude , just be honest. Treat them the same way you want to be treated in return ,

[FunkyMonkee]

I've had that problem before. I just told them, "I'm not that kind of girl!"
All you have to do is date them. After a few dates with each, you'll be better informed as to which is the better guy for you or, if you're even interested in either of them.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You go out with one, then you go out with the other. You see which one you hit it off with more, you stop seeing the other one. I'm not sure I understand what the difficulty is here.

[slatyb]

It's simple. Date them both. If they ask whether you are seeing anyone else, tell the truth.

[Asker]

I don't know that sounds like it would complicate the situation. Wouldn't it make me a bad person?

[slatyb]

No. Not if you are honest about it. How can you make a decision is you have no information?

[laly520]

its easy just choose one

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well choose one I guess lol

[ab2shifty]

Choose one lol

[In_Trance]

So date them