Is there a way for an introverted guy to be attractive? If so then how, and where is the best places to meet introverted girls?

[MikeyObrien]

Generally I keep to myself and a very small group of friends. Social gatherings drain me a lot and I'd personally rather lie down and read a book that go to a party most days. This being said, it's very hard to meet other nerdy/shy people in public because I am as well. Any advice?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My little sister's husband is very introverted (from America). He really prefers to unwind at home and being around people is very draining for him.

He met my sister by attending her home party though (he and my sister had a mutual friend in common who invited him to the party). That seemed to be a comfortable enough setting for him: just small little private home parties, nothing too crowded or noisy.

Maybe something like that would suit you like making a group of friends and attending their home parties or even throw your own home parties.

[aceleon]

grow a tougher skin, no seriously, forget about the god damn book, it waits for you in your solitude, this is time for socializing, think like this do you want all of your life to go exactly the same? not experiencing anything?

also don't even think about the shyness, a man should never act shy, you can ''feel'' shy but you can't be seen like one, if you can't do anything, learn to act, trustme eventually you will be one with your acting, i was an introvert too at middle school and the first year of high school, once you get how pointless it is you will out grow it eventually, there is atime for being social and get rid of your shyness and there is a time for being allthe şntroverted shy geek you are, when you are out of your house and inside society you have to left the shy kid at home, he has no business outside of your home.

[Nikki1989]

Of course, and you can meet people anywhere at any time.

[NathanDavis]

one doesn't negate the other... lol