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Fuck boys never have a reason to settle down. These f boys may get married but they will always seek additional women.
Men can spot fuck boys a mile away so we have a hard time understanding and sympathizing with women who can't.
Yup, I had a roommate and knew he was a dick 30 seconds after meeting him. Sure enough, new girl x3 a week at minimum. The odd part was his confidence was so clearly fake and his ego was painfully inflated, didn’t seem to matter though- he was faking it till he made it.
@DarkWinterNights This is just further evidence women regularly make poor choices in men.
When you say bad boy you should have to define that. Cause so many people have different definitions of what that is now.
women trying to tame bad boys will have it coming at them with being mistreated and getting cheated on. And honestly they deserve it. Bad boys aren't dogs to be taught tricks or how to be a good boyfriend.
Well if they lack empathy and they don’t really care about the people around them then they will stay focused on themselves and not really be concerned with what you want unless it’s to further what he’s getting from you. So even if he does marry that’s probably not how you want it.
We bad boys never change. We don’t do shopping carts like cucks. We carry all our groceries to the register. We don’t take allergy meds even when we’re wheezing from mowing the lawn because we’re bad boys. What you gonna do?
Hahaha! Cute
depends what kinda bad boy and whats goingon in the head and heart. probably take some transformation.
I honestly feel that those type of guys never "settle" and if you're the girl that they do happen to "settle" for, RUN...
In my experience it can go both ways but you likely won’t be able to fix them or make them just bad enough to be good 😉
Sure, just like when tigers turn vegan and eat nothing but vegetables.
Haha so if someone stole cars at age 20 and never got caught they must therefore always steal cars? Even at age 50 or 60?
Maybe, maybe not but the possibility would still exist if the situation presented itself.
Tigers never change their stripes. They just get better at camouflage.
pretty sure they do but you better watch out. most of the times they are ready to settle down when they already have multiple women pregnant, have been in and out of rehab, and their criminal record is about to explode
Yes. There is no fixing a bad boy. Thanks for trying the sex is great until we don't care anymore and move on to your sister, best friend, or your prettier cousin.
I don't want to fix one. Just know if he's still one or not one anymore. I mean, in his own words, he's not cos he's getting too old for all that. So maybe with age as some people say they get past all the messing around?
Yeah that's what we tell the dumb ones. "These fangs?" "No they are dull, I'm to old to bite" ha ha ha ha
Only a girl would date a man with the expectation he will change. His actions tell you who he is; his values and his priorities. Its foolish to think you can train him to be someone else, or that you would even be attracted to that person.
They're only bad until they find someone who inspires them to be really good.
watched or read a lot about bad boy fictions? that's fairytale thing, in real life sorry girl but no one is that special to make a guy who can get every girl he wants to settle for 1 unless he has a fear of loneliness and settles for the best when his game starts to die.
@aceleon She lives in cloud cuckoo land
Never was a 'bad' guy, but with maturity, most men settle down to be more civilized toward women.
Why would you want a bad guy to begin with? If they change, good for them, but I'm still not dating them.
Girl's date the worst possible guy they can, and then when things go south, they blame all men are trash.
How can anyone answer this with anything other than some will settle down and some won't. There's no way of being able to know how large groups of people will behave.
Regarding your update. So your question is really can people change.. The answer is yes. They can. Likelihood of changing? I'm not sure how we could quantify this to allow for a educated guess but that's just I'm not sure how to do that. If there's a way to answer it someone smarter than me would need to explain it.
Also your question regarding a bad boy requires an actual definition not some arbitrary, anecdotal observation that some have experienced.
I believe most do, say 65-75%. The others end up in prison or dead.
They may eventually want to settle down; but no woman will be the impetus for that change. So it is best to wait until after they change to start a relationship with them.
Well that's what I'm asking. The bad boy stuff he has told me are from 20 years ago. So do I give him a chance now? Or believe that he must be the same now as back then?
It sounds like he has grown up and settled down. If he isn't doing that stuff anymore.
Speaking from experience only boy moms are a bad dating choice.
Of course, just fuck him a bit longer and he'l become your prince charming.
I wouldn't worry about it. That's how much faith I have in those types of guys.
On most cases, they'll always be bad boys.
In your 40's, worried about "bad boys?"😦😦😦And women mature faster huh? Yeah, maybe at age 14. But then the maturity comes to a screeching permanent halt.☝️
Well yeah. Cos when u get in your 40's dating then people are gonna have a past. As I mentioned above to @ilovewinters. So should I give him a chance? Knowing his past history was pretty typical bad boy style for where I live? Or believe that he could be a decent guy now? I mean... if I was your age and dating then it would be more current rather than past so of course easier to say no thanks and steer clear.
I am not sure about bad boys, but I know that I am never going to trust a bad girl. :)
Usually no change, but somtimes life mellows them
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nah I think most bad boys are actually afraid of settling down, the thought of staying with a particular women for a year long time and living together scares them.
I believe men will settle with any woman when they have grown and are ready. No one can change anyone but themselves.
I agree. Not looking to change him. Just how do you know they at that point and are ready?
After failing in so many relationships I think you will know by his actions immediately. He should respect you and consider you in every aspect of the day because you’re that important to him.
Oh well so far he does. He texts me non stop when we not together saying he misses me and can't stop thinking about me and asking what I'm doing. And if I don't text back in like an hour he worries if I gone off him or am mad at him! But he also respects if I say I'm hanging with friends or still talking to guy friends, even if he would prefer I am with him. But it's super early days. But I do feel very much prioritised by him at moment.
Depends on the bad boy. My mom says a lot of them settle down in their forties.
They can settle but they tend to keep a lot of their habits. Usually when a woman is involved with a “bad boy”, things tend to go south for her.
you are too old to not already know the answer to this.
Really? I don't think so. If I was 20 and with a bad boy then hd is a bad boy. But over 40? Then there is chance they were a bad boy when younger but have changed with age and experience or with a desire to settle down and stop messing around. So it's perfect age to "wonder" whether they are trustworthy or not.
every such guy i have ever seen that is a bad boy still is one at 40 plus
only difference is many of the older ones just dont go out doing much because they have less energy
That's fair enough! You have experience for your opinion. Thank you.
here's a piece of advice that every woman should ALWAYS adhere to: never get with a man who is not already the person that you want.
Why should you settle for a "bad boy", and what does "being bad" even mean, do you like murderers?
Well on the good side, a bad boy is usually up for some risk taking and good at rough dominant sex. On the bad side, they run with dodgy people, deal with or know about drugs and criminals and dodgy stuff. And the really bad ones would be abusive and scammers. Soooo... if the last bit obviously a no no. The middle bit? If its in the past then hopefully just left with the good bit? But more likely their associations are always gonna bring trouble 😏
So basically, you don't want to be in a 9-5 all day
Why did you choose those as MHO?
Bad boys will only be nice if their woman is worth it, you can't change a guy unless they want to change.
If you were a bad girl, would you change to be nice for someone you are with?
If a guy is looking to settle down with a girl, he won't be a bad boy. So if you find a bad boi, don't expect to change him.
Well I'm not saying he is acting a bad boy now. Only that the things he has told me about his past are bad boy actions! Hence... can they change?
If they are no longer a bad boy, then they're ready to settle down. It's when they still are that you'll have problems.
😊 thank you. That's what I was asking really on here.
She says I'm a good boy when I eat her pussy
If you're asking this question, you're contemplating making a mistake you will almost certainly regret.
If they're your age they're probably not going to change, ever. A college aged kid maybe up till 30 can change
Yes, yes, they are still bad no matter what. Movies try to make it seem like a woman can just magically change a guy from being a bad boy to a good boy just from her loving him then is shocked and appalled when the bad boy does something bad.
Well Ted Bundy eventually got married but that was after another date had been set with a great deal of voltage.
Yeah, the I can fix him fallacy. No, people be it makes or females who have developed beyond a promiscuous path rarely turn good.
Males*
After 10 days and coming back to it. I think no. Bad people can't become good. Whatever happens to a person or does in this life is what he chooses.
By now I have enough time to say it with confidence that not all people are actually good. They just make up things. Good luck, you will need it eventually 💯
no I don't think so... not everyone...
but there are kind boys and more opposite types of boys and men there...
Yes... its the same with " bad girls"
Yes they will eventually find a "good boy/girl" and take advantage of them.
I think once a bad boy/girl you should always stay that way and don't ruin a good boy/girl life.
Bad boys is a hoe phase everybody goes through. Boys and girls. Some mature when they become parents some still have that tendency. But whoever isn't raised well can't grow up
Women are hoes only in the weekends same for bad men.
I think most of them mature, grow up a bit and chill out
It's depends on the person but most of bad boys they changed after age 30 or 35
We are all bad boys….. some of use just control it better
Well I'm proud to say and type that I've been a professional asshole for over 25 years :)
Haha! So not settled down yet still?
Settled down 3 times and yeah, it never worked out. Not to play victim lol but I've seen a lot of women misconstrue being treated right with expecting everything. From the get. That pussy ain't worth my time.
I can see that. Although, maybe I'm wrong, but from my perspective it always seems like the woman gives everything and the man nothing. Which is actually her fault. (And yes i have done this) So the woman gets negative, angsty, and miserable. Which is not sexy. So the man has no reason to wanna stick around. At my age and with my life lessons I think it is best that both partners have a life, goals, ambitions separate from eachother and back eachother up to achieve them. That you are together to better both your lives and have fun, excitement and joy. Never rely solely on eachother to provide everything (physical, mental, emotional, financial). As that creates a draining and needy dependence which is not healthy.
Yeah, that's the "woman runs her battery out in the first 5 months trajectory" Enabling, being on the dudes nuts, etc. Then almost exact opposite. What's awesome and also sucks now is that individuals like us are boring and lame, but could get the whole relationship thing right.. I personally just wanna keep being an asshole :)
Well i admire your honesty and commitment to follow your desire lol. You sound upfront which I respect!
Me and desire should never belong in a sentence, besides this one to say that! I'm blatantly honest to a fault, but hey fuck it! You only live once!
Are you asking because of a specific person?
Just started seeing a guy who has done lots of bad boy type things. My last boyfriend was bad boy. Don't wanna repeat my mistakes.
I think around late 30s to 40s is when they will start settling down.
He's 38. The things he has told me were when he was in his 20's. Hence... do I trust he might not still be as he was back then?
I dont think they will ever change cuz their mind is already fcked up
look TBH i reaaly love to be a bad boy but there is some persons play bad boy in begin of relationship then they turn to a beta male after that that's a shame 🥴
If they are actually “bad” they are likely broken. Don’t trust them.
nope they don't change for my experience some learning disabilities men can be player to.
You mean men that never grew up and want to go back to jail?
Some might, but I think the odds are stacked against it rather heavily.
"Bad boys" are just immature dudes with unresolved trauma
So and so I guess. Also depends on what you define as a bad boy haha
Nah! They totally want to settle down for the right girl. And I'm sure it'll be you! So GO FOR IT!