I like the same guy my friend used to like, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

So she didn't even told me that she liked this guy but i found out. She said that its over with him. That didn't work because he didn't like her back. Would it be morally bad if i try to pursue this guy?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man girl, that's a tricky situation. On one hand, your friend did say it's over between her and this guy so it's not like she's still pining for him, you know? And you can't help who you like.

But at the same time, pursuing a guy she used to be into could really hurt her feelings and make things awkward between you two. Friends are so important, I'd hate for a dude to come between y'all, you feel?

I'd say have an honest heart to heart with your girl. Let her know you think the guy is cute but don't wanna disrespect her. See how she genuinely feels - is she totally over it or still stings a bit? Make sure she knows her feelings come first.

If she really swears it's cool, then feel it out slow with the dude first before anything official. Go on a group hang with your friend there so it's not weird. Just be as gentle and considerate as you can of her heart in all this, you know? Bros before potential guys always!

Hope it works out without drama. Just be real with each other - honesty is the best policy with BFFs. You'll get through it alright!

[Anonymous]

It will go the same cause he will date and sleep with you but not like you!