Should I stop talking to guys on my snapchat that I used to flirt/sext with because I'm dating a guy?

[Crimsyjo]

It's only been a week that I've been with my new guy (lots of intimacy and he says we in a relationship). He said it's OK I still talk to guys on my snap but he didn't look that pleased either. Some are guys I've been with too. Physically. I'm not talking to them at the moment. And he knows that too. Im very honest. He said if they wanna hook up then he wants me to cut them off. But otherwise I can talk to them. And I would cut them off completely for my guy. Like now, without them saying anything naughty. But it's such early days I'm not sure if I should. Some people tell me that would be foolish. To put my all into my new guy so early on? Cos I don't know if I trust him yet. He said on day one that he had blocked and deleted any woman he was talking to... shall i take the risk and go all in with him?

[DagonbroughtMehere]

Only as a show of fidelity, Your Boyfriend must know You are doing this for this to be appreciated and if it is then it is not wasted on Him, make certain of this.

However I was fine with My Female having guy friends, I preferred Her to have Her own life outside of Me, If He loves You, He will want you to be happy with Your own life outside of Him too.

The decision is Yours to make.

[Crimsyjo]

This is good advice. As he has been cheated on in past relationships I know its not easy for him and he has been really great about saying I can still talk to the guys I have been talking to. But I can see he would prefer I didn't so, for him, I'd like to show him this relationship means a lot to me. I am in fact impressed with him accepting he can't control me and isn't telling me to stop directly.
You say you were fine with your female having guy friends. Does this include ones she has been intimate with?

[DagonbroughtMehere]

"As he has been cheated on in past relationships" you walk on eggshells with on like this, any action taken will no doubt have to consider at least a Positive and Negative outcome to them, by this I will give an example;

For His Birthday You two go out to eat, You have the Diner staff sing Happy Birthday to Him (Providing they do know it isn't copyrighted).

Positive: He's genuinely pleased by Your surprise, and is Surprised pleasantly.
Negative: He is embarrassed.

Only You, Crimsyjo, can tell how He will react to every act of Love You show.
You should know now how to proceed.

[DagonbroughtMehere]

"You say you were fine with your female having guy friends. Does this include ones she has been intimate with?"

If 'She' is enough to bring Me back into the so-called "Dating game" I care little for Her Previous relations providing they are not a threat to Her.

[Med_guy1978]

I think you should put all your desires and passion into this relationship enjoy it and make it work. Don't worry or be possesive towards him, it'll just scare him off. Just put everything into this and enjoy your company. Sooner or later all the cards are laid out on the table...

[Crimsyjo]

Thank you. I think you are right. I'm so scared of looking foolish if i go all in... but at the same time by keeping one foot out I am probably only going to guarantee its failure. At least if I give it my best and it doesn't work out I can't blame myself. Even if some people will think I was foolish...

[Med_guy1978]

You can't predict the outcome but just go into it relaxed and share your passions and fantasy. If he doesn't match your interest or vice versa the quicker you can both move on.

[lucas262]

Seems like an obvious answer. Your doing it cause you need attention, you don't give a real fk about this guy's but you love the attention, we all do. But attention is to women what porn is to men.

In the back of your mind your casting a net to catch a bigger fish. That's how I'd see it as your boyfriend and I'd promptly dump you for it

[Billlewis]

Not necessarily, in my opinion. As long as the flirting, etc, is kept to a manageable level, you may eventually find it quite an exciting aspect of your relationship with your new boyfriend.

[Crimsyjo]

No. We are both 100% only eachother types. And I do wanna do that now. But I've been burned before jumping too quickly. So I'm hesitating. But no, no sharing of any kind lol. Not even just texting or sexting kind.

[Billlewis]

I recommend that you fine tune your online correspondences to better enhance your relationship with the luckiest guy in the world -- meaning, to use those opportunities to tease your far away admirers, who are now (hopefully) insanely jealous of your new boyfriend, and feverishly enduring the maddening frustration of knowing that he's enjoying hot, passionate sex with a gorgeous woman that they can only dream about 🤗

[Crimsyjo]

Haha but that would be thinking of pleasing other guys (far away "admirers") rather than only focusing on my man and his wishes and desires.

[Billlewis]

Not necessarily, because you'd be surprised by how many guys are so turned on when their girlfriends tease other guys, and then harness the sexual tension for the benefit of their fucking sessions.

[Crimsyjo]

Not my guy. He's 100% clear on that.

[Paul_in_Indy]

No. He’s still looking at girls on Tik-Tok. Keep enjoying yourself on snap. Don’t worry about it.

[Paul_in_Indy]

…and feel free to DM me that snapchat handle. ;)

[Crimsyjo]

Haha. I'm not looking to flirt with anyone else whilst seeing someone lol

[Sameone]

I think the best thing you can do is stop using Snapchat
And try to focus on this relationship

[Anonymous]

Snapchat is basically spyware, so you shouldn't be using it at all.

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't expect respect from a man if you are still swimming the snap chat sewer.

[Crimsyjo]

So you would cut off completely any femsle friends and/or potentials from day one of dating someone?

[Jennz6]

Yes, you should stop 🛑

[dudeinohio]

Yes you should.