It's only been a week that I've been with my new guy (lots of intimacy and he says we in a relationship). He said it's OK I still talk to guys on my snap but he didn't look that pleased either. Some are guys I've been with too. Physically. I'm not talking to them at the moment. And he knows that too. Im very honest. He said if they wanna hook up then he wants me to cut them off. But otherwise I can talk to them. And I would cut them off completely for my guy. Like now, without them saying anything naughty. But it's such early days I'm not sure if I should. Some people tell me that would be foolish. To put my all into my new guy so early on? Cos I don't know if I trust him yet. He said on day one that he had blocked and deleted any woman he was talking to... shall i take the risk and go all in with him?
Only as a show of fidelity, Your Boyfriend must know You are doing this for this to be appreciated and if it is then it is not wasted on Him, make certain of this.
However I was fine with My Female having guy friends, I preferred Her to have Her own life outside of Me, If He loves You, He will want you to be happy with Your own life outside of Him too.
The decision is Yours to make.
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I think you should put all your desires and passion into this relationship enjoy it and make it work. Don't worry or be possesive towards him, it'll just scare him off. Just put everything into this and enjoy your company. Sooner or later all the cards are laid out on the table...
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Seems like an obvious answer. Your doing it cause you need attention, you don't give a real fk about this guy's but you love the attention, we all do. But attention is to women what porn is to men.
In the back of your mind your casting a net to catch a bigger fish. That's how I'd see it as your boyfriend and I'd promptly dump you for itNot necessarily, in my opinion. As long as the flirting, etc, is kept to a manageable level, you may eventually find it quite an exciting aspect of your relationship with your new boyfriend.
No. He’s still looking at girls on Tik-Tok. Keep enjoying yourself on snap. Don’t worry about it.
I think the best thing you can do is stop using Snapchat
And try to focus on this relationshipDon't expect respect from a man if you are still swimming the snap chat sewer.
Snapchat is basically spyware, so you shouldn't be using it at all.
Yes, you should stop 🛑
Yes you should.
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