Would women be willing to share a high value man?

[Chthou95]

Since women dont want the average man any more and since most men are off their radar, would women be willing to share a high value man (that multiple women want) because he's rare and not that common?

[laly520]

no sane woman would want to share her man whether he is rare or not

[Chthou95]

Youd be surprise how many women will accept this because they don't want to settle

[laly520]

I would never share my man
n yes I saw some being ok with that, would never get it

[Chthou95]

Women are more attracted to men that other women want

[lacorine197]

truth @Chthou95

[HollyK21]

Since when are average men off the radar?

[Chthou95]

Ughh 63% of men 18-31 are single compared to women 34%. Most men are invisible to women

[HollyK21]

Hmm. I looked up an interesting article involving those percentages. Not saying this is what you read, but some things stuck out to me.

Many young adult women ages 18-29 prefer men over 30. Yes there is a surplus in young men out there being passed over by women their age, but the reason behind it isn’t because they’re invisible, but based on modern women’s trends.

For one, women have higher dating standards than in the past when we catered to gender roles. Societal norms have changed, and women are able to make more informed decisions about who we date.

For example, more women nowadays don’t want to be solely homemakers. We’d rather be busy pursuing education or building our own careers, with the gender income gap having largely been closed by women under 30. This means women aren’t needing a man’s financial support how we used to before like the 1960s.

So if women aren’t having to rely on men to be taken care of, can pursue our own careers making just as much if not more, we can really make our choices in men based off other factors that matter to us more.

Like emotional availability for example, or finding a partner who shares similar values such as morals, communication, etc. It’s too often that younger men aren’t actually looking for commitment, and instead play these horrible mind games that put women off completely. An older guy is much more likely to be compatible, and that’s probably why they have more luck than a dude in college.

[Chthou95]

Its not that men aren't looking, they just don't have any options or choices so they cope and give up. But yes older men are in relationships but younger men are more single than ever. Its only going to get worse

[HollyK21]

I don’t want to generalize, I know there are men in which you describe who don’t have options or choices so the cope and give up. But what do you think could be the contributing factors for the men facing this issue? Looks? Location and/or exposure to women? Personality? I think something more than invisibility is making it harder for the younger men these days, aside than the factors I mentioned before. It’s unfortunate for sure, but we all face our trials I suppose.

[Chthou95]

All those things can contribute but social media is big culprit as well. Women have far mpre dating options due to unlimited attention and validation they get from men so a lot of women develop high egos and feel they deserve a high value man. A man on her level, won't cut it for her. But she's chasing after men who are wanted by many women

[lacorine197]

as you've said before, it's the trends...

[lacorine197]

this is true.

[HollyK21]

Oops I forgot I was having a conversation here lol @Chthou95 I definitely agree social media lends a hand, but in that respect I’d say women on dating apps are having the same experience. This is genuinely not a biased take, and purely comes from experience. I’ve seen so many friends use those apps and have the hardest time because the guy they matched with is talking to multiple women. Just as you feel women have endless options, guys have the same ability to swipe through yes or no’s and be picky as they want to be. Especially if he isn’t looking for a serious connection and only sex, it sucks for those women wanting a good guy. Things like this contribute to why they go for older ones, and unfortunately for younger men it’s one of those “one bad apple spoils the batch” conundrums. Where innocent and good men are being looked over or not taken seriously because of a woman’s bad experience. I feel like dating in your 20s for both genders is just so shit right now.

[Chthou95]

The more choice women have, the more dissatisfied they become

[nawtee_me]

If a man wants to be shared then he is not of High Value I can guarantee it...

[Chthou95]

Times have changed old man. The dating market is not how it was 20 or 40 years ago

[nawtee_me]

Yes I am old but things have bot changed so much... It all depends on where your value comes from. People do not give me my worth, I do... And for those wanting to share themselves split their worth between those they are shared among...

[Chthou95]

Social media changed a lot of things. It made things worse

[normalice]

Sounds like some redpill nonsense.