What the heck is wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I finally had the chance to be in a relationship with a hot girl who’s my type. And I blew it! I had to be honest that I have a girlfriend. We first met online because she wanted to have online sex with me. She got mad I wasn’t into it, so I told her she can hit me up whenever because I’m looking for a relationship. Not sexting or whatever. It’s been months since then. And I deleted the chat. Out of nowhere she messaged me today.

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But I didn’t do it because I love my girlfriend. Even if she isn’t my type. I still thinks beautiful

[RespectfulGuy]

Not giving any excuse but stating a fact: man is promiscuous. From the East to the West, even in Abrahamic religions, rich kids having wives and concubines are historical and biblical/Islamic facts.

Yes, us guys are beasts and animalistic.

Monogamy is considered a "modern" thing. Even the New Testament is considered modern when compared with the Old.

But if we accept today's social trend, then we have to curb our promiscuous animal desires and go monogamy.

This means you're in the wrong to "look around" when you already have a girlfriend.

And if you love your girlfriend, then go clean. Break off with the new girl. This will show your loyalty.

Caution: you wrote that your girlfriend is not your type. This is a red flag to a long-term relationship. If you go further with her, then there's a possibility for regrets and greater hurts. A point to consider.

[laly520]

it doesn't matter
u have a girlfriend now focus on her

[Peridot25]

You’re a troll, right?

[Anonymous]

The fact you met online is an instant fail.

[Anonymous]

Anyway which website you find this girl

[JayBones]

Everything