Girls, my boyfriend has a small "size" really small.. would you say it's fair for me to have sex outside our relationship only for sexual pleasure?

[Anonymous]

I'm talking like 3, maybe 3.5 inches hard and not thick either but at least not super skinny lol. He jokes about it being small, so I don't think it bothers him? I sometimes slip a joke on how small it is, he just laughs. Either way I can hardly feel it inside me.. sex is terrible but I love him and want to be with him. My ex was big.. almost too much to handle that I never got used too and I feel that has something to do with me hardly feeling him inside me.

He's handsome, fit and has everything going. He knows it's extremely small and has mentioned he wants me happy in bed even if it means other than him. Basically saying I can do what I want.. he's so cool about it, I'm skeptical, I just don't know how to make the first step in doing so.. please advice, anything helps.. I have never cheated and just need guidance!

Stay loyal 🍤

Go wild 🍆

[Anonymous]

Have you seen that episode of Sex and the City where Samantha is dating that guy who has everything going but a small one? If not, go watch it. HBO.

[Asker]

Literally how the sex feels.. it's so frustrating

[Opinion Owner]

Even the episodes where Charlotte’s husband can’t get it up, the point of it all is that although sex isn’t everything, it’s an important factor that you shouldn’t settle about, or sign up for a lifetime of bad sex. I feel that bringing in another person would complicate things, because the act is not only incredibly intimate but how you and your partner should be able to connect. If you aren’t able to connect on that level, then what do you become, just life partners? There’s a lot to consider outside of just getting it from someone else, the fact that it’s even a serious discussion should be a red flag.

[Dbtr99]

Why’d you leave your ex if you’re more compatible with him? Plus I’m glad that u kept it anon cuz your boyfriend probably would be embarrassed as hell that u put this on the internet.

[Asker]

We weren't at all. Just because the sex was amazing didn't mean we we compatible

[Dbtr99]

I’d leave your current boyfriend if you’re not sexually compatible.

[Dbtr99]

thanks for mho

[laly520]

move on

u ain't sure of him nor want him

[Asker]

But I do.. literally perfect besides one issue.

[laly520]

doesn't seem like u do ngl

[Nikki1989]

If sex is that bad, you should dump him and find someone more compatible.

[Asker]

He is compatible it's just that one thing.

[EmmaMary]

How Boring...Yawn!

[Jamie900]

My boyfriends is tiny but to be fair I pegging he wish strap on but I say stay loyal and don't hurt him

[WindSwept]

Stay loyal or move on

[JosyJosy]

Get some toys.

[Asker]

I have some, one even resembles the size of my ex but it doesn't "hit" the same.. I definitely can orgasm with my toys only way I can orgasm since I've been with my current boyfriend but I seriously miss the real motions of someone in me and positions I used to be able to experience. I feel so mean but it's the truth

[JosyJosy]

The third option is to break up if it really is a dealbreaker for you.