How should a 33 year old man respond if attractive 19 year old girl makes some passes at him?

[Anonymous]

[wiltingrosepetal]

Should? Respectfully turn her turn because he's double her age. Obviously that's not gonna happen, but that's what you'd call the moral way to deal with that situation

[Asker]

Double her age is 38 and nobody has a problem with a 33 year old with a 50 year old

[Asker]

I’ve heard stories about my football coach fucking 19 year olds

[wiltingrosepetal]

Because 33 and 50 year olds have genuine life experience, mortgages, steady incomes, dating histories, and aren't, y'know, fresh out of highschool 💀 come on

[EmmaMary]

Why is someone your age (under 18) asking such a question as this?

[ProbablyClueless]

I would either not respond at all, or get out of the situation.

I've been in situations like that, and it made me super uncomfortable.

[Asker]

What was the furthest it escalated to?

[ProbablyClueless]

Nothing. because I recognized what was happening and immediately got out of the situation.

[Asker]

19 is legal, what are you scared of?

[ProbablyClueless]

"Legal" isn't the same as "good idea." I'm not scared of anything. The issue I take with that age gap is the difference in maturity and life experience. The girl and I are in different places in life. It wouldn't be a good match for us to get together until she's had more life experience.

[shortster]

If he is single, give her his number. If not, tell her thanks but I'm taken.

[HelpfulWoman]

no. dude is too old and its border pedo vibes

[jahaims]

Tell her nty and move on