Agree or Disagree: Alpha Males prefer brains before beauty?

[coachTanthony]

agree

disagree

[ohsheeT]

Every guy that calls themselves alpha male I laughed my ass off.

It's their way of trying to be a big shot trying to get women and trying to control because they think they're so smart..

A real alpha male would never even bring it up and would just live life who he is.

When you have to put a label on yourself and tell people about it it's just too weird for me

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, may I ask for permission to refer to you as an Alpha Male? Thank you very much.

[NathanDavis]

smart, interesting, funny... these are my priorities

looks and appearance are secondary

they're all important though... and this alpha bullshit is still... bullshit, lol

[coachTanthony]

lol.

[Caroline91]

And your comment is a good example of an alpha male attitude. You just might fall into that BS category... lol. I do believe there is something to the concept,. Men who are natural leaders tend to share a lot of the same characteristics that, when viewed together, tend to make up the alpha male set of attributes. Both my dad and brother are this type of man. Your priorities for a woman are also typical and I bet you also want someone who, regardless of looks, does take good care of herself. Anyway, good for you for going the what's really important.

[NathanDavis]

@Caroline91 well, yes... of course I would love to be with someone that ideally, take care of themselves, because that's healthier... say for example, I want to spend the rest of my years with this woman, have a family, and be happy with... would very much prefer someone that follows a balanced diet rather than a strict difficult one... someone that stresses a lot less over appearance, than someone that stresses a whole lot over some surreal or extreme standards, which tend to be temporary anyway when biased on mass consumption

generally speaking... healthier people have more chances to be happier

[Caroline91]

Wish you well!

[NathanDavis]

@Caroline91 thank you, likewise (=

[Siri137]

I guess that girl in the photo must be really intelligent. She's wearing 50's style dark-framed glasses. That always does the trick when you want to raise your IQ.

Oh, and there's no such thing as an "alpha-male". I thought I already told you this.

[sage2021]

Since he believes he has enough brains for the both of them, she can be his eye candy.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@douride2 let the braining begin😂😂

[coachTanthony]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d41xVMOg5Y8

[douride2]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Either way I'm out of the picture. LOL

[Logan-5]

Alpha males are labeled as such because of their successfully dominating others, including being with someone else's girlfriend or wife, or fooling a girl into being exploited. Maybe in that last sense brains are of interest. The smarter or more academic the girl is, the more he feels he's taking her down a notch by dominating, fooling, or exploiting her. His superior street smarts win out in the end--the only smarts that he values.

[Caroline91]

To me that seems more like a good description of a player who is also macho, rather than an alpha male. I think characteristics that define a true alpha male are: He doesn't need to show his superiority, tends to look for challenges, is goal-focused, is a natural leader, lives a healthy lifestyle, is honest, not in competition with other males, he manages his emotions well, he cares how he looks, he looks for balance in his life, and he is assertive rather than aggressive. I think he wants a well balanced woman who is both smart and attractive. I don't think she has to be extremely beautiful, but takes good care of herself and is well put together and someone who will keep things interesting and exciting, never boring.

[Lionman95]

I´d say disagree since many of the guys that call themselves alpha also call themselves traditional and don´t look for a smart woman but a woman that cares of the household and the family. That doesn´t mean they don´t value intelligence in a woman but it´s not the primary goal.

[Paul09]

First "alpha males " do not exist. They were created by men who thought they were tougher a better than other men. Second alpha males are usually bad boys or assholes. So they love to use women for sex

[coachTanthony]

Love Doctor Brad acknowledged that they exist and he would know he isn't real either.

[LaurenM1997]

This is becoming a joke you said you’d stop and you haven’t 🙄

[coachTanthony]

People chose on my poll that they wanted more. Blame them.

[electromagnetic]

Ass and tiddies; she got ass and tiddies. 🎵

[worldscolide]

I don't think that's limited to "alphas". But I'd say good men prefer brains over beauty cause a pretty face, and hot body will only keep a man short term, once the attraction wears off, there has to be something else there to keep him interested.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm not fussed, just as long as she has a pulse! (j/k)

Actually @Coach I've got no idea. I don't think I know any Alpha Males.

[DaveJord]

What if you prefer both?

[coachTanthony]

Kinda refers to wanting both

[IslaTheWitch]

as they don't exist, so who cares?

[coachTanthony]

[Bipolar_Fashion]

Yes. If he wants a slow girl, he is insecure.. what do you say Tanthony

[coachTanthony]

He wants brains and beauty... just is it brains first or beauty first

[Bipolar_Fashion]

Fair enough

[Bipolar_Fashion]

This comment is interpreted as if she has beauty, it's okay if she doesn't have brains... rather than both... but if you said "what attracts him first" it works out... once he gets to know her.. you can't know beauty...

[Bipolar_Fashion]

Sorry... your question is interpreted as "if she has beauty, it's okay if she doesn't have brain"

[Bipolar_Fashion]

So I can understand initial attraction... "prefer" sounds like the two are comparable... but they aren't on the same level since brains don't affect physical attraction (related to initial attraction)

[coachTanthony]

Well to be honest I am just paying homage to another user with the question lol

[Bipolar_Fashion]

Oh I see.. my condolences

[coachTanthony]

Paying homage not paying my respects lol

[coachTanthony]

Nobody died is what I am saying

[bolverk]

I do not know about 'Alphas', but I'd prefer a 6-7 with intelligence/personality instead of a 9-10 that has nothing but beauty.

[OtterMan68]

would a man who considers himself an "alpha male" be seen with a woman he didn't think other alphas would consider beautiful?

[DrPepper12]

Alpha anything doesn't exist except as a Greek letter.

[thegreenyogi]

I'm not sure. Depends on the Alpha Male in question.

[RedInnocent69]

It depends on relationship versus entertainment.

[Twalli]

What makes an alpha male? I think most guys choose substance in the long run.

[ShadowChaser]

More Alpha Male posts? I thought you said your job here is done 🙄

[coachTanthony]

Stay tuned

[soe11]

Always brain first and brain is sign bravery.

[DarkLegacy]

Oh no, i thought you were going to give this nonsense up