If you are an average guy 95 % of women will reject you. Why should an average guy continue trying?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

First things first there's no such thing as average what is average it means nothing..

There's a time and place for everything everybody has different things in a person they look for..

. When you have to go someplace what do you do you go get gas put in your car so you can go there

If you're hungry what do you do you go to fast food or you go to the store and buy groceries so you can eat.

If you dirty and you want to be clean with you you take a shower..

It's the same thing with women if you want one go find one..

You can't be at home 24 hours a day and say nobody's interested of course they're not because nobody sees you..

Nobody knows who you are so go do all the above and put yourself in a position or in a location to where you can be seen known to where you can see somebody and start asking them questions like an average Joe LOL put yourself out there you will be found

[Lliam]

Only 5% of women are interested in "average" guys? LOL. Total bullshit. What a lame excuse.

Just because a guy gets rejected one out of ten or twenty times (especially on-line) doesn't mean that women are rejecting him because he's "average". (Actually, those aren't bad odds. You roll the slot machine 20 times before hitting the jackpot?).
And it doesn't mean that 95% of women are only interested in "above average" guys.
It's all about finding the right woman. You just need to score once.

Look around. Lots of average guys have girlfriends or wives. It depends on 1) attitude, to a great degree, and 2) what kind of girl you are looking for.

How many of those so-called "average" guys are interested in "average" women? How many are looking for a top 5% glamor queen rather than a cute, true-blue, girl-next-door type?

[Jessica405]

One of the odd 5% might just be the right one for you.

[Asker]

Peace of mind is what I value the most.

[Avicenna]

LOL, you only need one woman at any given time. Most women aren't going to want to date any given guy at any time, even if he's "perfect".

[Asker]

Good point.

[AviatorTom]

5% of women is a lot of women... and many of them are very nice women.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it's closer to 90% on the avg. will reject you. And I don't think a guy should unless she really earns that right. We have equality now right? So women are just as capable of approaching men.

But to answer your question why should men? Because women still want thier ego stroked even if they're going to reject you.

So the answer is pretty simple. How do you feel about it. Do you take it deeply personal when a woman rejects you? Maybe you shouldn't approach then... ever.

The REALITY is this. If a woman really wants to know you. She'll make an effort. If she doesn't then she really doesn't care.

[Asker]

Totally agree.
Ofc my ego is not hurt by a rejrction. Ut is not an indicator of my value as a man or a person. I just find it kinda pointless.

[Paul_in_Indy]

First of all, it is soooo not true that average guys are somehow unable to connect with women. Look around you, and you will see how wrong that is.

Secondly, you can’t possibly date 5% of women, anyway. If you go to a party or a club with 100 women, you don’t think that having 5 choices who would leave to get a drink with you would be phenomenal? What would you want? Do you need to be the only guy there that any woman would be interested in?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life unfortunately rejection happens & as for me I look at it like they did me a favor & subconsciously they know they are not good enough for me. In life if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

[fscalese]

Don't waste time chasing women. The game is rigged like the craps table at the casino. Save your money. Build wealth. (home debt free, car debt free, no credit card debt, 401k max). Find hobbies. Spend money on hobbies. If you need sex occasionally, get a ticket to Bangkok. Take a week of three a day sessions. You have had sex with over 20 women and spent less than you would have on three dates back home. Ignore women at work, at gym, at church.

[Asker]

I am more of a loner. So this is what I am going to do. Hobbies and I am getting money right.
Life will be great despite relationships.

[DextroShade]

This is a good question that there is no answer for other than: these entitled women need to get over themselves and "settle" for average men before civilization collapses. Expecting men to bust their asses doing all the dirty and dangerous jobs that keep society running just to die as virgins is fucking delusional unless you want to bring back slavery.

[Starrrboy]

Guys, stop living in the online bubble lol.. go out buddy and look around you.. average guys have girlfriends, broke guys have girlfriends, fat guys have girlfriends.. even guys in a wheelchair have girlfriends.. and you know what, take a look at the next 10 couples you see.. I think 7 of them the girl would be more attractive... real life is not always like reddit and YouTube Lol..

[BarryLiverstone]

Because whining on a free website gets you attention?

[Asker]

No winning... Ever...
Just stating facts and questioning decisions.

[BarryLiverstone]

Your facts are incorrect

[Asker]

In my case are true.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes in your case. So have you asked 100 women?

[Asker]

50 almost. And only 2 accepted to have a date with me.

[BarryLiverstone]

There you go, you have gotten 2 girls to date you. Just ask 50 more this weekend

[Anonymous]

Because through all the struggles, the heartbreaks, the single nights beating your meat off alone will be nothing more than a reflection in the rearview mirror once you meet that one special person.

[NamerOfStars]

Because we've known that sour grapes is a lousy motivation for inaction for at least the past 2500 years.

[Anonymous]

Not 95%, because 95% women are not above average, they just need some time to come in terms with the fact that they are average and they won't neccesarily get a top 1% STUD

[DrPepper12]

That's not true at all! Can't be! It's ALWAYS on a bell curve for dating. Condider all the variables other than "average" ones whatever that means. Keep trying. You'll find her!

[strateguy632]

false most guys are average and most guys are married. like 70%.

[strateguy632]

what is creepy is the extra 600, 000 women married... to who?
unless... maybe to each other?
can that many
300, 000 couples?
anyway around 70 million men married, deduct kids and 70% men married despite most average.

[zagor]

Yet more than 5% of adult men are married. How does that work? Are all the other non-single guys married to each other? I didn't think gay marriage was THAT common.

[Pohjolan]

95% is even that bad. That's a 40% chance that one out of 10 will say yes.

Also the average guy is fat and out of shape which is optional.

[Yannae]

Of course they should continue, because those stats are a lie.

[genericname85]

well you can significantly decrease your chances of being rejected if you correct your methods of choosing who to ask out.

[genericname85]

it's only gonna be 95% if you never learn and keep making the same mistakes.

[BonzoInBitburg]

The real question is, "Why would a guy want to be just average?"

[OlderAndWiser]

So that's your excuse?