If you are an average guy 95 % of women will reject you. Why should an average guy continue trying?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

First things first there's no such thing as average what is average it means nothing..

There's a time and place for everything everybody has different things in a person they look for..

. When you have to go someplace what do you do you go get gas put in your car so you can go there

If you're hungry what do you do you go to fast food or you go to the store and buy groceries so you can eat.

If you dirty and you want to be clean with you you take a shower..

It's the same thing with women if you want one go find one..

You can't be at home 24 hours a day and say nobody's interested of course they're not because nobody sees you..

Nobody knows who you are so go do all the above and put yourself in a position or in a location to where you can be seen known to where you can see somebody and start asking them questions like an average Joe LOL put yourself out there you will be found

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Only 5% of women are interested in "average" guys? LOL. Total bullshit. What a lame excuse.

Just because a guy gets rejected one out of ten or twenty times (especially on-line) doesn't mean that women are rejecting him because he's "average". (Actually, those aren't bad odds. You roll the slot machine 20 times before hitting the jackpot?).
And it doesn't mean that 95% of women are only interested in "above average" guys.
It's all about finding the right woman. You just need to score once.

Look around. Lots of average guys have girlfriends or wives. It depends on 1) attitude, to a great degree, and 2) what kind of girl you are looking for.

How many of those so-called "average" guys are interested in "average" women? How many are looking for a top 5% glamor queen rather than a cute, true-blue, girl-next-door type?

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

One of the odd 5% might just be the right one for you.

AmyHew1tt · Accepted Answer

Women marry the average guy all the time.

Avicenna · Answer

LOL, you only need one woman at any given time. Most women aren't going to want to date any given guy at any time, even if he's "perfect".

AviatorTom · Answer

5% of women is a lot of women... and many of them are very nice women.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say it's closer to 90% on the avg. will reject you. And I don't think a guy should unless she really earns that right. We have equality now right? So women are just as capable of approaching men.

But to answer your question why should men? Because women still want thier ego stroked even if they're going to reject you.

So the answer is pretty simple. How do you feel about it. Do you take it deeply personal when a woman rejects you? Maybe you shouldn't approach then... ever.

The REALITY is this. If a woman really wants to know you. She'll make an effort. If she doesn't then she really doesn't care.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

First of all, it is soooo not true that average guys are somehow unable to connect with women. Look around you, and you will see how wrong that is.

Secondly, you can’t possibly date 5% of women, anyway. If you go to a party or a club with 100 women, you don’t think that having 5 choices who would leave to get a drink with you would be phenomenal? What would you want? Do you need to be the only guy there that any woman would be interested in?

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

In life unfortunately rejection happens & as for me I look at it like they did me a favor & subconsciously they know they are not good enough for me. In life if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

fscalese · Answer

Don't waste time chasing women. The game is rigged like the craps table at the casino. Save your money. Build wealth. (home debt free, car debt free, no credit card debt, 401k max). Find hobbies. Spend money on hobbies. If you need sex occasionally, get a ticket to Bangkok. Take a week of three a day sessions. You have had sex with over 20 women and spent less than you would have on three dates back home. Ignore women at work, at gym, at church.

DextroShade · Answer

This is a good question that there is no answer for other than: these entitled women need to get over themselves and "settle" for average men before civilization collapses. Expecting men to bust their asses doing all the dirty and dangerous jobs that keep society running just to die as virgins is fucking delusional unless you want to bring back slavery.

Starrrboy · Answer

Guys, stop living in the online bubble lol.. go out buddy and look around you.. average guys have girlfriends, broke guys have girlfriends, fat guys have girlfriends.. even guys in a wheelchair have girlfriends.. and you know what, take a look at the next 10 couples you see.. I think 7 of them the girl would be more attractive... real life is not always like reddit and YouTube Lol..

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Because whining on a free website gets you attention?

Anonymous · Answer

Because through all the struggles, the heartbreaks, the single nights beating your meat off alone will be nothing more than a reflection in the rearview mirror once you meet that one special person.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Because we've known that sour grapes is a lousy motivation for inaction for at least the past 2500 years.

Anonymous · Answer

Not 95%, because 95% women are not above average, they just need some time to come in terms with the fact that they are average and they won't neccesarily get a top 1% STUD

DrPepper12 · Answer

That's not true at all! Can't be! It's ALWAYS on a bell curve for dating. Condider all the variables other than "average" ones whatever that means. Keep trying. You'll find her!

strateguy632 · Answer

false most guys are average and most guys are married. like 70%.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

The real question is, "Why would a guy want to be just average?"

zagor · Answer

Yet more than 5% of adult men are married. How does that work? Are all the other non-single guys married to each other? I didn't think gay marriage was THAT common.

Yannae · Answer

Of course they should continue, because those stats are a lie.

genericname85 · Answer

well you can significantly decrease your chances of being rejected if you correct your methods of choosing who to ask out.

Pohjolan · Answer

95% is even that bad. That's a 40% chance that one out of 10 will say yes. Also the average guy is fat and out of shape which is optional.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

So that's your excuse?

Anonymous · Answer

Because he really wants it so badly, otherwise being single isn't that bad, despite the way society implies it.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Because there are PLENTY of women who love Joe Average.

OddBeMe · Answer

95% of the women you try for. You can’t possibly think you’ve asked out 95% of all women….

Anonymous · Answer

They shouldn't but like religion it's one of those things the masses do

Anonymous · Answer

Giving up is better because if you don't try you don't get hurt.. if you want sex just get a prostitute.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Sounds like you're just insufferable to be around.

jahaims · Answer

Not everyone is a pussy

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Are you pursuing average girls?

Rangers · Answer

I've felt the same way

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YES AND YOU DEFINITELY SHOULD NOT

Twalli · Answer

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