Beautiful people of GAG, would you avoid/ignore the person you’re crushing on/attracted to? Why/why not?

[Pinay_ako]

Yes

No

A total of 53 votes were cast: 20 girls and 33 guys. See detailed results

[Lottydotty]

I have at least. And I can't say why. Psychological part was bizarre to me. I just kept doing the exact thing opposite what I intended to do. In my head it made complete sense at that time but all it did was evade contact. And it just extremely sucked because I didn't want to play games. So I kept losing my head over it, trying to get over it. Became a whole mental debacle and eventually she quit the job, she didn't say a word. Nothing matters suddenly and it's all just insanity that I do my hardest to keep locked down out of the way with a year's worth of highs and extreme lows. Can't say I'm over it or ever will be, I am trying to not do it again.

[SunnyRS]

If they are single then I won't avoid them, but if they are taken then I probably would.

[SunnyRS]

Thanks for the mho

[Pinay_ako]

You’re welcome

[Xia1994]

Beautiful asker of GAG. I would ignore him if he’s rude or if he thinks I’m about to help him cheat on his lady.

I’m not gonna even entertain a guy with a lady I’m not that desperate there’s wayyyy too many other single men in this world I could go pay attention to.

if he’s rude or mean even if I find him attractive I’ll immediately lose interest I don’t want anything to do with men like that 😖😣

[Paris13]

I have Had a Few of Them and Even Put Them (If from USA) In my Contacts and We Text. Out of Country, Did a Google Hangout. Had Met my Ex partner-Now a Friend on Gag Five years Ago and We had Become a Couple off of Here. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks To Gag. xxoo

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't crush, but if someone piques my interest, I for sure wouldn't ignore them... quite the opposite :D

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I'm not what's considered beautiful but why would I ever ignore a person I'm crushing on? I might hide it from other people maybe, but never ignore the crush.

[NotTacocaT6969]

If I suspected that I might be at risk of exposing my feelings, stalling a reply for a while might be my reaction.


Don’t want to seem too eager

[itsclearlynicholas]

Sure, many women never bothered to talk to me or flirt with me, yet they'd glance and stare and wait for me to make a move like I should do all the legwork
I'm lucky, sassy attitude pa-lease *keeps on walking* 👀🥲😒😈😒😋🙂🙂😋

[itsclearlynicholas]

*I'm *like

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Pinay_ako them ladies wanted me to do all their legwork 🦵🏻 for them. And I'm like, uhh, forget them and if they want me, they'll have to ask me/for my number ahahaha 👀👌🏻😂 and thankfully none ever bothered to actually hit on me. And so that's their shortfall, not mine. Merrily, im still single and saving more money and using more my time for me 😍

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If she does it to me then I will do it back.

I don't bother people that don't want me to bother them.

[Pinay_ako]

Same! Idc if we don’t talk anymore 🤣, you ignore me. Rest assured, you’d be ignored back.

[mandyfire98]

Nah, if I'm interested then I'm definitely gonna try to pursue it.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah. Unless I think they will actually be receptive to my advances it's best to not be around them at that point. When it comes to romance and sex I am somewhat shy at first so if there's not even any interest in the beginning why bother?

[LaurenM1997]

No I wouldn’t unless they done something wrong and they need to figure out what they done wrong

[Nikki1989]

I am far too old for crushes. I just push any of those feelings away.

[DryGermanGuy]

How is that going to help? At one point, rather sooner than later, you have to make a move! 🤔

[lightbulb27]

I did that for decades until I was no longer so scared of girls and had confidence.

[spartan55]

Uh... why would I do that. That's about as counterintuitive as it gets.

[Markymark92]

I use to avoid only because I was just a little nervous but then I felt like an idiot so then I just started saying hi when we’d cross paths or what not

[dragoblack]

Yes, because my constant luck with romance, is they are not attracted to me, when I'm attracted to them. If she's interested in me, she should say so.

[Iron_Man]

If I was single, no I wouldn’t avoid the person that was crushing on

[Smartman5]

I can't open up easily because I have difficulty communicating with girls.

[jack1924]

I wouldn’t. I will try to talk to them to know them better and see if there is a chance.

[RavVid]

I have when I was young.

[Pinay_ako]

Why did you do that

[RavVid]

Well I was reserved and I didn't know how to talk to girls. Was yet to learn how to.

[Amur8711]

Why would you ignore them? Wouldn't you want them to notice so you can break the ice?

[QuietRunner]

I wouldn't ignore them if they were talking to me

[RebelinSteel]

No I tend just be my normally quiet self

[Bklynbadboy12]

I would ignore them I'd play it cool

[Pinay_ako]

Yes match their energy.. some get mean when you ignore them back 😂

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love it

[Pinay_ako]

Ya why’s that

[DJB72]

Nope. Not since I hit 30

[DrPepper12]

I'm too undisciplined. I couldn't ignore.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Yes. If I ignore her, she will be more attracted by the mystery & then come to me.

[Pinay_ako]

Not really, makes me lose interest quick.

[NathanDavis]

never have

[Batsy01010101]

Yeah when I'm feeling heartbroken I do