Most of wealthy friends are married and have babies. They are living a lavish lifestyle. They are shopping, travelling, buying properties, cars and partying all the time. They don't go to work. Most of my middle class and poor friends are always struggling, both married and unmarried.
One problem with being a house wife is that you have to integrate yourself into a high calibre social environment which means accepting all kinds of social codes that are superficial and baseless. I've had rich people judge me for the degree of eye contact I offer them when I'm having a meal with them at a table, I've been judged for the speed I communicate my thoughts at, the level of attention I pay to my fingers when I'm trying to avoid spilling my food, the propriety and commonness of my facial expressions when I am in dialogue with others, and the types of appraisal I offer people in society that others find to be important or rich. An example is that my aunt and uncle hated me after I said I thought a Chinese cousin of mine was normal looking. They thought she looked like a super model but I grew up in Canada and I did not find her features to be special. They said I was a liar who was pretending she was average looking cause I was jealous of her. I also had girls avoid me cause I never gave them advice when they tried to steal other girl's boyfriends. I was seen as socially useless to them cause I did not support their dating goals.
I’m not in it for the money I’m in it for love and only love not here for men’s money
Unfortunately we are not that far removed from a time when women depended entirely on men for the resources needed for survival and success. As a fact of evolutionary biology, it is literally in their DNA to select mates based on their ability and willingness to produce and provide. We are dozens or possibly hundreds of generations away from evolving away from that trait. No amount of parroting the popular PC nonsense of the day makes that any less true.
Money is not everything, it's more of what a person can contribute towards an eventual relationship. What lifestyle one can have and how one can live a normal, peaceful and lovely life.
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