Why do men only want friends with benefits but not a girlfriend? (Page 2)

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I’m single my whole life because no guy wants be my boyfriend.  everyone only wants friends with benefits , sex that’s it.  
 I’m blocked if I say I want a boyfriend , I don’t get guys asking me for dates, I’ve met 200 men on dating apps,  in person it’s worse men are all taken with baby & girl & im alone. The one guy I met that wanted a girlfriend lived in Ireland and another was also far in a wheelchair. That’s it.  all men deny be my boyfriend, I get no no no no no, all men I meet only want friends with benefits. It’s never ending.  I never meet a guy that wants a girlfriend & that wants same things as me.

sawno · Answer

I'm reverse in that, I seek the deepest love possible but thats hard to find because it requires a partner I can truly deeply love.

Paris13 · Answer

Perhaps Booty is More of as Benefit than a Real Relationship with Strings. xxoo

boggboss · Answer

Because most guys on dating apps are only looking for fun

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men like that are doing you a favour. Avoid them like the plague.

Likes2drive · Answer

All the younger guys don’t wanna deal with commitment or the relationship stuff that goes on with having a girlfriend because it’s too stressful only us older guys are willing to have a girlfriend and being a relationship

SixFootSexy · Answer

This should help

Rickyboy100 · Answer

Don't have Sex so Quick. Let them wait to get serious. Search a guy with an average or under average dick size. The chance he will stay with you is higher if he doesn't get so many options for Sex dates.

laly520 · Answer

if it keeps repeating with every guy u meet then ig u r a big part of the issue, maybe u r going for the wrong guys?

sheikalana · Answer

They're not ready to commit and prefer to be in a casual relationship rather than having the responsibility of being a good partner.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Don't fall for it the want to be friends with benefits cause the want sex. They want to get all the sex from you the can get with out you giving a commitment. The won't commit cause then you'll have expectations and you'll want exclusivity

DrPepper12 · Answer

He's out there. It's harder now that being gay is more acceptable; I hear 10% of possible men no longer dated hetero. Anyway, he there. Don't give up! You're young !!

Twalli · Answer

Probably because you never met me or, if we did meet, one of us didn't find the other one attractive. I was looking for a girlfriend. Now, that I am making one my fiancee, I'm (obviously) not looking, but I was.

exitseven · Answer

I was never er averse to having a girlfriend. I had fun with them all even though I did not have sex with them all.

supercutebutt · Answer

Men are just cranky because most of us prefer to be with a bear.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys, she admitted she spent years trying with a f-boy (it's in one of her responses). She's the type like the rest that are average but trying for 10s without giving average guys a second look

Jersey2 · Answer

Many men want what you do. Perhaps you are asking the wrong men.

Muerr · Answer

You’ve met 200 men on dating apps 😳😳😳

You’re a hoe that’s why. Men don’t commit to promiscuous women. You’re promiscuous and probably don’t have realistic expectations and wonder why these men treat you poorly.

strateguy632 · Answer

because of the commitment they do not want. but demand exclusive.

Sharkstealth · Answer

Go to church or school. It can be different there except school can be both. In church generally both sexes are looking for relationships.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Some men want the, um, benefits of a relationship (gee, wonder what those benefits might be?) without its responsibilities

Nerdvana · Answer

I am sorry to hear that. I am sure you are amazing. Hopefully you find the right person for you.

Gavin_Rowe · Answer

After failing relationships constantly and being hurt in certain ways, you just start going for gratification instead of actual love. Sometimes it's just out of fear of getting hurt

DextroShade · Answer

What is your height, weight, and dress size? Also, do you have piercings, tattoos, or any history of sex work?

CrabCakes11 · Answer

This isn’t true. There are plenty of men who want relationships and women who want hookups.

jshm2 · Answer

Because why buy a cow, when you can get milk in a jug for a fraction of the cost?

slatyb · Answer

Why doesn't matter. What matters? Whether they are honest about their intentions.

Princesspd · Answer

They just want sex. They don’t want to commit.

Deltanteiger · Answer

Where you from and are you open to LDR?  If so, i would like to get to know you.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Are you sure it's not something about you and/or your personality?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You are chasing Chad Thundercock. If you chase the top 5% of men you will always have this problem.

FuqUFggt · Answer

Because American laws completely discourage marriage for a man and American woman are completely trash on a risk/reward scale. Especially the white ones.

CriticalCatDad · Answer

Why do women want a slave and not a boyfriend/husband?

Cabarhev · Answer

Do you have at least one great guy friend you know well and trust? If you have one, maybe he could get a clearer picture of who you are, the guys you've been with etc.

JacobJordan · Answer

Lower your expectations for a boyfriend that might help.

Rangers · Answer

Those people are not "men", they're "boys", and you shouldn't give them a second of your time

uwotm8e · Answer

Obligatory "there are many guys out there that want a relationship, but you reject/ ignore them"

Med_guy1978 · Answer

You're knocking on the wrong door either intentionally or subconsciously.

Massageman · Answer

Males = sex first, then relationship. Females = relationship first, then the sex.

LiamJHayden · Answer

You need to change your routine so you can meet men who are not like that.

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Not all men work like that. But I would say value you enough or think they can get what they want without any cometment

whistlingwh0res · Answer

that's typical American men.. THey don't want commitment nor spend money on girls. They actually looking for dumb rich girl and they want sex in the mean time?

Anonymous · Answer

It's possible you aren't attracted to average guys, most women aren't...

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

friends with benefits are more fun and as a bonus they let you have more fwbs

boobliker · Answer

so much less hassel we can wine and dine without comeback

Vegasrunner · Answer

Sounds like you've been put in the recreational use only category.

michol123 · Answer

Do you have any children? a lot of men will avoid that type of responsibility.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Be extremely up front with your intentions and don't have sex up front...

jahaims · Answer

If that's all that men wanted everyone would be single. Those are just the guys you attract

JustAnotherGuy09 · Answer

Sounds like you are associating yourself with the wrong men.

shortster · Answer

I am looking for a girlfriend; so you haven't found me.

OddBeMe · Answer

I think most men want romantic partners. Maybe men just need to mature first.

Raaj4you · Answer

It depends on the person. I am ready for both.

DreamLife7 · Answer

He doesn't like you lol 😆. Men only do that to women they don't like

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Maybe dating apps are the wrong angle of attack. Perhaps you should try going places

Anonymous · Answer

Guys like that are just fuck boys out to have fun.

Anonymous · Answer

Many times this happens because a guy get repeatedly burned and realizes that this is the best way forward...

mayurr · Answer

You choose those type of men & then u say that all men r same☕

krin_m · Answer

May be you are associating with wrong type of men?

Slim57 · Answer

Cuz you're on dating apps, that's what most men and women want on those

Anonymous · Answer

I ain't judging! Im not looking for a serious relationship either, I just wanna have fun and be free. There's nothing wrong with that. (Guy or Girl)

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