30 soon never been on a date or anything. men don’t ask me out. is this my fault?

[Anonymous]

I’m nice respectful and hard working. I’m a math teacher and tailor part time. But no man has wanted to get to know me. I’m all alone. Dating apps men just want sex so I avoid them. Is it over for me? 30 years old is old…

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[OlderAndWiser]

1. Your photo links are dead.

2. If you consistently get the same reaction (or non-reaction) from all guys, then either it is because of

a. something you are doing, or

b. something all guys are doing.

Which do you think is more likely.

3. All dating apps are not alike. Guys on Tinder want sex. Guys on bumble, zoosk, and some others are looking for relationships.

4. Maybe you should consult a dating coach.

[Staximus]

You're very pretty and still look young. If you act like you didn't want to talk to people, they are not going to make an attempt to get to know you. You need to work on developing some social skills. Start going out and doing stuff with your friends so you can meet some guys and learn how to interact with people

[Staximus]

Just start having conversations with guys. You don't need to throw yourself at them, you just need to want to talk to them and make an actual attempt to do so

[Asker]

I don’t have friends.

[Staximus]

Why not?

[Anonymous]

Do you put yourself in situations where men can ask you out? In the photos you look very serious and it can be intimidating to approach someone like that. Smile and make eyecontact woth guys. Talk to them. If you can’t do it, try online dating.

[Asker]

I am a serious person. It’s just who I am. It’s helped me achieve my goals. What situations? I don’t force anything and premeditate interactions. Why would I smile at strangers? They could be a threat

[EmmaMary]

I really do simply fail to understand why... Perhaps try being a little more assertive and confident in striking up conversations with guys that look interesting to you.

[moneymagnet24]

Emma why you're so humble?

[EmmaMary]

@moneymagnet24

What you read is what you get.

[Asker]

Leave me alone

[moneymagnet24]

@asker

Don't dare to talk to Emma like that
You asked question she gave best advice wtf is "leave me alone' ? 😂😂

[Asker]

Can you seriously go away

[Asker]

I don’t want you talking or replying to me F off or your blocked

[moneymagnet24]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I didn't even know you why so much love towards me? I was not even talking to you I was taking to my @EmmaMary😘

[Asker]

F off

[EmmaMary]

Asker... Is it me or @moneymagnet24 that you're referring to?

If for whatever reason I've upset you with my comments, then I do sincerely apologise.

[Asker]

No Emma not you x

[EmmaMary]

Bless You and Thank You so much for replying and putting my mind to rest. ❤

Please do remember that my message box is open to you anytime, if you so wish to have a chat. x

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[HawkPerception]

Why not take life into your own hands? Stop waiting for guys to ask you out. YOU make the first move. I'm sorry to say, but the state of society right now with feminism and western women's mindsets makes it so that a lot of guys don't want to even approach women anymore. If you want a man in your life and you need to try approaching them yourself.

[Anonymous]

The links don't work so I don't know if appearance is a factor.

It sounds like you are very passive in terms of meeting men. Try taking some initiative and approaching men you are interested in. You might be surprised how showing interest in a guy can spark his interest in you. The vibe you give off is important too. Are you warm and approachable? I know some women hate this question, but do you smile? It's important.

Good luck!

[handsomelad70]

Maybe, maybe not. Folk usually take stock of themselves at age 30, so I suggest you consider your fortes and failing and try t bolster the former and minimize the latter and you shouldn't have trouble attracting eager lads.

[SotiCoto]

If you aren't willing to put the effort in to change your life then you've not really got any business complaining about it.

Also what are the broken links for?

[JacobJordan]

First 2 qualities are great 3rd is a problem. Second sentence just screams "career woman"

[LazerBean]

Yeah, it's very likely your fault. Try improving your social skills

[jahaims]

You are able to ask guys out you know. You are plenty attractive so that isn't the issue. Maybe you are shy or have a personality people don't like.

[Asker]

Maybe. So am I forever alone?

[jahaims]

Why dont you ask a man out? Have you ever been checked for autism or some sort of personality disorder? You don't come off as an idiot and seem pretty self-aware. Do you have friends? Maybe ask for their honest opinions

[Asker]

On the streets? I’m a thin 5”2 woman you want me to go up to a man and ask him out. I would rather shoot myself

[Asker]

No I don’t have friends. I’ve never been checked for anything. I work and I am not stupid so never felt the need to

[jahaims]

You can still be intelligent and have autism or a personality disorder. No friends or romantic partners is a sign of those things. I don't know what hobbies you have etc. You could ask a man out their. Being shy/introverted makes it hard to find a romantic partner. You probably won't be able to unless you step out of your comfort zone

[Asker]

I’m a full time math teacher and i want to be a fashion designer so i am designing and learning to make designer clothes when i have the time. I studied math at university. Maybe im autistic I don't know. Everything I do is alone except when I am with my students

[Asker]

I don’t have friends because I didn’t find them stimulating and I felt like I was wasting my energy and time

[jahaims]

You sound like maybe you're a high masking autistic. Females are under diagnosed when it comes to autism. Especially as an adult. I would recommend an evaluation. I'm not into fashion, so I don't know how interesting a friendship would be for you, but if you want, feel free to dm me if you want to try to make a friend. I am married, so i have zero romantic interest, just so you know.

[moneymagnet24]

You're too nice n Such a hardworking that no man from thus earth deserve you.

[Asker]

Drop the sarcasm please

[moneymagnet24]

Teachers are boring asf...

[Asker]

I have a stable career. You seem like a desperate whhre with that picture of yours

[moneymagnet24]

I also have stable career..
But you seems very unhappy in life

[Asker]

I am perfectly fine. Now F off and leave me alone. If you reply you are blocked

[moneymagnet24]

Aw don't be so in love with me 😘

[HighValue]

You could try asking someone out yourself.

[Anonymous]

Try 40 again