Im scared of dming him?

[Anonymous]

Hello everyon,

im looking for some objective opinions and encouraging words!

im in uni and i caught a guy looking at me for a few times and it made be a bit suspicious. I startet checking him out more and i got to admit i got really intrested in him. So much that i thought about dming him in instagam. We soon have summer break and i thought i coudl dm him taht ihe seen him before.

-->Here is the thing im not sure anymore, if he still is looking or even if i really interpreted them glanzes the right way.

-->Also in summer break it will come over as i have been thinking about him and sm him randomly.

-->Im not sure he woudl recognize me by my profile.

-->And mostly its just how can i explain myself taht i found out his instagram profile.

--> and if he rejects me and i seen him next year in lecture hall?

Woudl you guys like such a dm or is it too random and offputting?

I dont know what to do in really scared if his reaction and the circumstances, but i got so curious and i woudl like to get closer.

I really hope m gut feeling wasn't wrong about him being intrested

[TadCurious]

There's nothing wrong with trying. This situation is what guys have to deal with for like forever. At some point you have to take some initiative, and whatever his reaction pat yourself on the back for doing so. There's nothing wrong with girls taking the first step.

[Asker]

How wil li explain myself did i foudn his peofile and during break i coel across as a creep

[TadCurious]

I don't think you have to explain yourself and I don't think reaching out would make you come across as a creep.

[Asker]

Just followed you pls dm me

[alfamale123]

Girl it is nothing wrong with it. You like him and you will regret if you dont try to make a move. But if it is possible do it in person. Ask him for some help or if he can send you something for school or if he has some notes,... and give him your instagram to send them. If he is interested he will do the rest for you, he is a guy. If he is not interested he will do nothing so thank him for notes and thats it..

[Asker]

I just followed you old dm me

[noohair]

What is the worst thing that can happen? What is the best thing that could happen?

[Asker]

I worry i come across as weird when i dm him is like out of nowhere and hiw did i find him?

[Emanon25]

Yes you can dm him

[Asker]

Why please explain

[Emanon25]

That’s for you to start to know him better, you can dm me if you want to talk

[Asker]

Yes please

[Asker]

I just followed you