Is it a red flag a guy your dating keep his phone on dnd mode late at night everytime?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

My husband has his phone off every night until it’s time for work. His work phone and personal phone be off. If it’s emergency they will call our house phone. As soon as he leaves the building he turns it off. We both don’t wanna be interrupted or stressed out

[MisterWack]

Do Not Disturb, maybe he has on late at night since….. You know…. Men like me have to sleep? I always turn my phone off at bed / ringer off / dnd / the works lol.

If my girlfriend did the same I’d be like, “Its fine, your sleep is important and I totally understand.”

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe he just wants to sleep in peace and not have his phone waking him up

[Asker]

He kinda show signs of a cheater

[Danny_dan92]

What signs are these?

[Asker]

1. Phone always on dnd late at night
2. Lies about where he lies at and about his life
3. Lied about being a virgin
4. Had a unknown woman purse in this car he drives

5. Lied about the car he drives in

6. Constantly cancel our plans to spend time together once
7. Uses his family as a excuse
8. He wears a ring that looks like a wedding band but claims he’s not married

[Danny_dan92]

Only one there that is a red flag is the last one.

[Asker]

Oh okay but he’s suspicious acting

[Asker]

He lies a lot

[Danny_dan92]

Uh huh. Good luck

[DishLady]

I don't know. I set DND so folks don’t bug me after hours except for the 2-3 people I care about. Don’t overthink everything. People get mentally exhausted from being “ON” 24/7. DND is very helpful.

[genericname85]

it woul definitely be a big red flag to me if a girl i was dating has such huge trust issues that me having my phone on dnd makes her nervous.

by the way: i personally always use dnd at work and at night. basically every time i do not wanna be desturbed. makes sense?

[Asker]

Turns out he was talking and dating other girls

[BetaBucks]

Sorry that happened, but it's 100% unrelated to his phone being on DND. Everyone I know does that at bed time. Murderers and rapists all drink water, but that's not suspicious behavior.

[genericname85]

i agree with @BetaBucks. finding a loyal partner can be a challenge but developing trust issues won't get you any closer to a partner who doesn't cheat you. it actually drives you away from one, cause normal people hate being controlled and mistrusted.

[Asker]

Also night time is when he go see the other girls

[Asker]

I don’t have trust issues and I found out he’s a liar and a cheater. He was possibly married.

[genericname85]

dude i'm not saying he's not a cheater. i'm saying that looking at someones phone status to make conclusions is trust issues. the fact that he was actually not trustworthy is independend of that.

[Asker]

My apologizes

[avery58]

It probably just means he doesn't wanna get waken up by a text. I turn off my wifi when sleeping, nothing weird about it

[FreyaRed]

Maybe he gets some marketing offers at 2:00 am like I do from my internet provider.

[Agape93]

Nope

[Anonymous]

What is DND mode?

[Seriouslyjojo]

Do Not Disturb