Are girls who get heart broken hotter?

[Anonymous]

[Rosexøxø]

Not everyone reacts to heart break the same way.

Whether they make improvements, self sabotage, live independently, or follow the status quo is up to them.

Some just become targets for heartbreak and that’s what lures the toxic people. It’s a two way type of thing. How they behave and all.

Some actually have some type of glow up and attract both good and bad guys. They still have to decide who they’ll stick by and hopefully don’t settle for less believing that’s all they’re good for, or simply what they’re used to.

Hotness/ beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. That works in the sense of sexuality but in relationship compatibility/chemistry/ good conversation/ understanding is always required to make it long term and last.

All in all, all I’m saying, is that it depends.

[Anonymous]

Whenever I get my heartbroken I usually change up my look (like get a new haircut, dye my hair, start wear nicer bolder outfits to regain my confidence and stuff) - this usually leads to people seeing and appreciating my “glow up” for some reason. Like recently, I got cheated on. I got a new haircut and took better care of my skin. As a result people are now seeing how radiant I have become. So I guess yeah, girls who are heartbroken do look hotter lol

[Asker]

girl same so few people get this question lol that's exactly what i mean is heartbreak made u "glow up"

[Opinion Owner]

Girl yes! You should be prioritizing getting your confidence back after having your heart broken. What do you typically do to “glow up” after a heartbreak tho? Currently going through one right now and I’m still up and down with my self esteem 🥲

[Asker]

first breakup i got abs lost 30 pounds
second breakup i got curtain bangs and layers and started dressing more hot (used to be more cutesy style)
third breakup im on this one thinking about getting dental treatment teeth are pretty straight but not perf. I'm thinking about getting eyelashes.

[Opinion Owner]

Yess you go girl!! Proud of you for glowing up ✨

I just got my eyelashes done as well as a new haircut, I say do it. It makes me feel hot and it cuts down on getting ready time in the morning lol

[maddieisfineasf]

In my opinion girls who get heart broken try harder to look better so they could find somebody who likes them and won't leave them while girls who have never been heart broken do not try as hard to look better you may hear people say "Oh look that girl dyed her hair red she must have gotten broken up with and heartbroken" while some girls do dye their hair a un-natural color after they have gotten broken up with that is not always the case and girls who dye their hair might just like the color or don't like their natural hair color but in reality, you can't tell if somebody has been heartbroken just by the way they look don't assume things you don't know. Have a good day/Night, Maddie

[Asker]

ur the only one who got my question

[maddieisfineasf]

I'm sorry and did you get heart broken recently

[Asker]

lol awhile ago but have had it several times in the last year. i just. was thinkign whether you think a lot of girls who are really hot are just girls who went through a lot of heartbreak and leveled themselves up. I went through a lot in the last year and everyone is like wtf bc i just keep getting hotter each time a guy breaks my heart. then i make myself out of their league

[Alice18]

100% agree with you

[blueonblack22]

Hot girls have these paradoxical issues:

• They have too many options. So they ironically are most attracted to what is most challenging (men who mistreat them). Not all of them but too many. But they have no shortage of men who will kiss their asses and they take that for granted.
• They are rarely held accountable for their poor decision making. Rarely told they are miserable because they made a poor choice to begin with. Rarely taught self accountability. They always find shoulders to cry on.

So yes I can see them being them being “heart broken” but when you dig deep you will find more often then not it was their poor choices in dating to begin with.

[ZainabAli123]

I had my heart broken recently by a guy I liked for 11 years and I’m telling you it’s the worst. Yet I’m different to you instead of going out there to make myself look hotter I just look more trash and ugly that’s because I believe I am instead what happened is I have trust issues.. the guy I liked decided the didn’t want anything to do with me cause I’m not pretty enough his words were “i only date pettier girls” that left a scar in my heart a so have tried soo many times but now looking a new guy I think he won’t like me m. m…

[53669]

Wow I felt I was reading my own biography. Only mine was 15 years. He told me he’s not cheek! That he’s a prince and I’m Fiona and that I should go find shrek! Lol it’s funny but so sad I’m depressed and feel as ugly as ever! I used to feel attractive and pretty and happy now I just see ugly and feel down. My head hurts sometimes and I think it’s because I’m so sad.

[MisterWack]

There are women and men who find hopeless romantic types totally hot. Why? It boils down to they show off their emotions, vulnerability, and fragile hearts that they want to mend while also not letting this little struggle / bump in the road keep them from falling out of the romance game which can really get eyes and hearts really interested in them. I wouldn’t say it makes you automatically hotter, just peaks interest amongst the crowd.

[Rosexøxø]

I liked the word usage of *peaked interest.* seems more appropriate

[MisterWack]

@Rosexøxø
I mean turned on isn’t really the best since I’ve seen women have this kind of attraction it isn’t a sexual light switch of sorts, and it isn’t like “let me at him” crazy wild so peaked interest was the best language I could use since it was definitely more fitting. Thank you for sharing your thoughts & feelings about my response, Rosexoxo have a nice lovely day.

[Rosexøxø]

Ofc! Hope it didn’t seem sarcastic or so. Really meant it on a logical note. Thanks! Likewise 💯

[MisterWack]

@Rosexøxø
No no of course not, you sounded genuine. Since you seemed interested enough to reply, I thought I’d take the time to explain my thought process is all. You are a logical mind with warm heart, you’re welcome! 👍

[OfMiceandMen]

I wouldn't be looking at her in that manner. I think I would empathize with her having been there before.

If I thought she was hot at this most vulnerable stage in her life it would make me a predator and I could never take advantage of someone in that situation.

[BobbieBoy666]

What does heartbreak do to a woman?


Heartbreak can trigger psychological shock, a very real condition. Heartbreak, like any other trauma, can put you into psychological shock, also called 'emotional shock' and 'acute stress reaction'. And emotional shock doesn't just cause anxiety, fear and a sense of unreality.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

No, they’re far less desirable. Not undesirable but the most important thing to a man who wants a woman for life is loyalty and a woman’s capability for that on average lowers with every man she dates.

[Rosexøxø]

I think you could have a point there

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

No, but if guys find out you recently got your heart broken, they might think you're in the market for a rebound guy, and more likely than usual to make bad decisions.

[Rosexøxø]

Could definitely get them in the wrong head space. It’s probably 50/50 if any girl got hurt, and whether or not she’d want just plain sex. I think more times than not though, she’s probably not going to want that. It could also be the worst timing cause she would need to reset her priorities and all.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

@Rosexøxø Yeah, but like the girl is crying about her lost love, and the guy is sitting next to her with his arm around her, comforting her. And he like kisses her cheek, and she doesn't pull away, just keeps going on about her broken heart, and so he kisses her a few more times...

That's what guys find interested about broken-hearted girls. That's what they're hoping for.

[Rosexøxø]

Oh lmao so they essentially let guys be sexual with them is what I’m reading from that scenario 😂

That’s funny to read for some reason and sad at the same time. I see both angles to it, but feel bad for both of them too lmao

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

@Rosexøxø I mean, maybe the girl is being taken advantage of, or maybe she like WANTS to be taken advantage of, you know?

[Rosexøxø]

Yeah it’s a weird situation 😆

I’d hate to see that happen in public. I’d just not know whether to stare while eating my icecream 🍦, intervene, laugh, or cry. Lmao 😂

[Anonymous]

No, in fact I find them more annoying and manipulative tbh and through my experiences when I tried to be Mr. Psychologist for her "trauma" and "problems". I realized if she's not envisioning a future with me, forget her, she's an adult, let her deal with her own problems. She has girlfriends, she has family and she's probably talking to 50 other guys. Guys shouldn't waste time on these kinds of girls.

[DishLady]

No, but they either become tougher (which some guys find hot while other guys don’t like) or more desperate and vulnerable (which abusive predators tend to horn in on).

[Smokeyjoe11]

It could be. But any girl could be a hotter Without a broken heart. I assume you had a breakup

[Asker]

lol yes and each heart break i change something about myself. make myself out of the guy who broke my hearts league yk. i was wondering if that's common to keep glowing up the more hurt and insecure you get from guys breaking ur heart

[Smokeyjoe11]

Most of the stuff I post is on breakups or relationships

[Smokeyjoe11]

It's a very difficult dealing with a breakup. Especially when you have things and memories in common and spend the time together to not have it worked out it is devastating. But sometimes at the end it only makes you stronger

[AlinaJanowska18]

Most guys are assholes who just play with our feelings. Not all, of course, but there are a lot of them...

[paledreams]

Hmm. I've likely rejected hot women before - I wasn't in a time or place for a relationship ; and or I just didn't want one. So yes, I've rejected hot women lol 😆😆😭

[paledreams]

Around 3-6 total so far, maybe 10 women max I've rejected

[ProbablyClueless]

Maybe for domestic abusers. I can't think of any reason an emotionally healthy person would find spiritual brokenness attractive.

[DreamLife7]

At your big age this is like the dumbest question I've ever heard. He dumped u bc ur ugly and immature. Ugly is forever boo

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 you kicked her out of the park! LOL

[DreamLife7]

@MasterKS it amazes me how they think men would be with an airhead 🤣

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 i love when i saw she is 25-29 LOL!!

[DreamLife7]

I know she's literally too old to be asking such 5th grade questions

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 may be a kido with fake age. LOL

[Asker]

@MasterKS lol i mean a lot of girls when they get their heart broken they will try to "level up." fix their hair, dress better, makeup etc. I was just wondering if u think the hottest girls are hot bc they got their heart broken and leveled tf up. I was in a long term relationship and i wasn't that hot. He loved me though. When we broke up, I leveled up. I lost 30 pounds going to the gym and got abs. Dated another guy we broke up and I got the hottest haircut of my life. Dated another and I got insanely good at makeup.

[DreamLife7]

@MasterKS 🤣🤣

[DreamLife7]

@asker they all dumped u so what does that tell u? None of these men married you. What does that tell you? Lol

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 you landing well! LOL

[DreamLife7]

They're so brainless lol

[MasterKS]

@Asker I get what you asking, its not heart broken, its more dumping trigger, when the ego hurts people act like that, show them, prove them. If it goes positively its fine otherwise sometimes it goes wrong. I had some experiences like that which you explained.

[Asker]

first 2 guys came back after i got hotter but i wasn't interested anymore. third guy didn't come back tho.

[Asker]

@MasterKS yess exactly thats what i mean

[MasterKS]

@asker i can share interesting story which i experienced but not in public, how could i follow you and share it?

[DreamLife7]

@asker they came back because the woman they wanted wasn't available. They know you're insecure, weak and unattractive so they can use u until the woman they want is available. U think u were hot but u really wasn't since u got dumped again🤣

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣🤦🏼‍♀️😩

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 sounds like you will run behind her till heaven. LMAO!

[Asker]

@MasterKS you follow me i think

[Asker]

second guy prob he was a whore but first guy nah

[MasterKS]

@asker is it? can you pm me there?

[Asker]

nah im sexy every guy wants me I know that

[DreamLife7]

@asker you were dumped twice doesn't sound sexy to me 😩🤣

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 LMAO!

[DreamLife7]

She got dumped two times by the same guys 😩🤣

[Asker]

nah dumped three times lol first two guys tried coming back and I dumped them. third guy I don't know im still heartbroken on him. I ghsoted him after he broke up with me and he just hearts my posts on insta. we are friends.

[DreamLife7]

@asker then ur ugly I'm sorry dear

[MasterKS]

@dreamlife7 you are boxer! LOL!

[Asker]

lol ok sure

[Asker]

it wsa long distance no one could do it. First guy almost got married but religious differences his parents couldn't overlook

[Rosexøxø]

@MasterKS you need to stop smiling cause that’s either a man or a taken girl.

or tag teaming cause nobody is going to want your rude asses. The fetishes are strange so you’ll only get others who MAY have similar fetishes.

Your mom didn’t raise you right. Sorry not sorry.

[DreamLife7]

@roaexoxo you must be the poster. No matter what account u use boo you're still ugly and was rejected x2 🤣. Nice true boo

[clampfan101]

It certainly doesn’t make them any less attractive, but why on earth would it be considered hot?

[RingOfFire]

I'm not sure I would call it hotter, but it's really nice when a girl has a capacity to love that deeply.

[genericname85]

no because as far as i know being hear breaken changes nothing about their looks.

[Asker]

broken heart makes u go back to the gym change ur look get hotter

[genericname85]

for some people maybe. but that's not such a common thing that you can just assume that as the default that happens after breakup.

[JacobJordan]

The word you are looking for is crazier and the answer is yes. They are definitely not hotter

[Dongie]

They're more mature, seasoned in life. As long as they have conquered that and are thriving. Then, yeah, they are hotter.

[DextroShade]

No, I don't want to deal with her trauma, baggage, and trust issues. This is why men prefer virgins or as close to it as possible.

[Anonymous]

No. Toxic women like this are landmines. Guys avoid these women when possible.

[LostSouls_]

What’s hot about a broken heart

[Nikki1989]

Why would that be?

[Asker]

bc then they want to "level up" and get hotter purposefully glow up

[Caroline91]

No, they're just sadder for a while.

[Asker]

broken heart makes u go back to the gym change ur look get hotter

[Caroline91]

I never go to the gym anyway. But being sad doesn't change the things I do, I'm just sad while I do them for a while. Except, I probably would spend more time in the water, bodysurfing bc that always makes my spirits soar. If I'm hot, I'm hot. If I'm not, I''m not... lol. I'm just me and being happy or sad doesn't change who I am.

[Apple1996]

Nah I don't think so

[Fireguy17]

no, why would they be hotter?

[sheikalana]

That is pathetic.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not see why they would be.

[KrakenAttackin]

A strange correlation to make.

[Anonymous]

Why would they be? Hot girls are hot.

[montherobaidat]

I think so

[Kingofkings1992]

No, very weird question

[CrabCakes11]

Not really.

[Ladybossj]

Yesss me!

[jahaims]

No lol

[White_Swan_]

Nope.