If someone is in their late 20s or early 30s and never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, does that automatically mean, that they are not just ugly?

[Unit1]

... but quite hideous?

I argue for boys if it's not them being ugly, then it's them being too broke.

Duh!

Nuh!

Wuh?

[Anonymous]

if the guy is good looking, women will actually defend him and make excuses for him

on the flip side, they'll demonize the shit out of an ugly man

if he's hot and lives with his parents, he must be a loving son who cares for them

if he's ugly and lives with his parents, he hasn't grown up and is a man child

if he's hot and plays video games, he must be Henry Cavill

if he's ugly and plays video games, he's childish and immature

if he's hot and does combat sports, he must be a brave warrior

if he's ugly and does combat sports, he must be a domestic abuser

if he's hot and been to jail, he's just misunderstood and a victim of judicial bias

if he's ugly and been to jail, he must be automatically guilty of his crimes

if he's hot and gets lots of women, he must be a charming ladies' man

if he's ugly and gets lots of women, he must be using manipulation tactics on them

[Unit1]

Can't argue with that

[Opinion Owner]

a woman's level of attraction for a man determines her respect for him putting her in the chooser's spot rather than the beggar's spot yet mainstream society likes to tell us we have "male privilege"

[Unit1]

The only male privilege i see is becoming a transgirl.

[Opinion Owner]

never forget Norah Vincent committed suicide trying to be an average man (in just dating alone, she never even experienced family court, MeToo, homelessness, military disposability etc.)

meanwhile Dylan Mulvaney is a millionaire and Lia Thomas is winning trophies and medals

[Unit1]

Ace mate. I know about Norah Vincent.
I need to look up the other 2 names though. I expect their lives to be turned upside down post transitioning.



Take away the ability to become a transgirl from the boys and nooses start to look like a gateway to an anime girlfriend waiting for us on the other side.

[hahahmm]

No. You could be the hottest looking guy on earth and have bad 'luck' because you chase the wrong women and/or you didn't bother to do some traditional man stuff. The traditional man stuff makes a man more valuable to himself & to women. That said, nobody can get everybody they want so I'm not saying there's a magic formula to get "every" woman.

[Unit1]

Andrew Tate made the point, that there is not a girl he can't get

[hahahmm]

If he means literally any woman, I disagree. If he means it like "any type", sure, 98%. It's like saying you can get any type of car. Not the same as being able to point at a car and saying, "I can get that exact car in my garage".

[alice55]

It generally more mean they're not into relationship but only ONS or either are weird / have bad personality. This is what most people will actually think about rather than they're ugly cause I've seen hundred of ugly people be in a relationship and even married.

[LaurenM1997]

I’ve had one boyfriend that’s it I’ve been single for a long time but that doesn’t make me ugly or hideous

[MikeTheBartender]

Dating is probably harder now than it has ever been for long-term. For hookups it's easier than it's ever been, but no if they have not had a long-term boyfriend or girlfriend yet there's nothing wrong with that. They should be working on themselves always. But they shouldn't let that bring them down.

[WindAtMyBack]

It might mean they are not in the top 10%, but that is FAR from being ugly. They need to look elsewhere for the reason. Very likely there is something they can do about it.

[KostasKouvalis]

Not necessarily. A lot of ugly people have partners, and a lot of attractive people are single. They could just be socially awkward or have high standards, or simply aren't interested in dating, or they have a bad personality.

[exitseven]

There are many reasons people have never dated that are unrelated to appearance. A lot of people are too busy working or advancing their careers or caring for an elderly relative.

[DrPepper12]

He could just be a total douche, failure to launch, arrogant prick, mamas boy. doesn't have to be looks.

[Anonymous]

No. Not hideous. It's more likely they're just ugly and socially inept to boot. Very few people are completely hideous.

[Dongie]

They may be beautiful. Just an emotional or psychological problem.

[moviedude714]

Variety of factors I would believe