Is it true that ugly guys never get girlfriends?

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but unattractive girls can get boyfriends. why ? Im so lonely :(

pingupassion · Accepted Answer

Meh everyone's wrong. This a biological question. A small number of men (the alphas) still have large control over the females in society. You can see this with a few males being able to sleep with all their female friends. Note how these females will start to bitch about said male when they realize they've given him what they want.

Now put this in a new way. Throw out contraception, it doesn't exist anymore. Ultimately the idea of sex is to reproduce. Now that alpha has slept with all his female friends, a percentage of which are now pregnant. His alpha genes have seeded. But who is left to bring up this alpha. Just the mother? nope, bring in the beta males. These males are the sweet, less aggressive type. What they perceive for 'love' is more a 'I'll give you affection if you bring up this child'.

This behavior is still used without the need of a child because although the behavior is there for reproduction, it isn't controlled by reproduction. Much like we have sex for reproduction, but with contraception now used we still have the motive for sex, defeating the point of sex.

You have to wonder how many men out there are bring up children under the illusion they are their own? more than you think.

Ammo186 · Accepted Answer

My now boyfriend tells me "I've seen the guys uve dated".. making fun of their looks.I never get offended for one simple reason..I'm proud that looks never mattered to me..I think they are ugly now but that's only because of the person they turned out to be...and I may not have been all that attracted to them to begin with..but what gave me the initial attraction to them was the traits I admired...musical talent anyone who can make me laugh as in get rolling to tears..protective...guys with any or all I was attracted to...looks are only a perception of someone that's how the most attractive guy I was ever with became the ugliest...so many girls were attracted to him as well so I kno it was more then my opinion..but he was the worst and after all he did hr became so ugly in every way..if your with chicks that think differently than that...its time to move on..they are far too ugly to waste your time..tell enm that as you walk away...drive them nuts make you hotter LOL

Tatiahna · Accepted Answer

I think you need to work on your self esteem more than anything. Ugly guys date pretty girls all the time.

My best friend isn't exactly the best looking guy in the world; yet he gets really good looking girls all the time without even trying.

Another friend of mine is the same way. He's not good looking at all in the face, but he is hilarious (imagine if Kat Williams and Kevin Hart had a baby.. that's him) so he gets a ton of girls.

If looks aren't your strong suit then play up whatever talents you have and be sweet.

funkyzoom · Accepted Answer

No, that is not the truth at all. I myself am really ugly. In fact, most people describe me as 'short, dark, fat and ugly'. In spite of this, I have dated 3 girls at different points in my life. Two of them were really pretty, and one was average (but by no means unattractive). See, rather than your looks, the key lies in the way you speak. If you like a girl, just care for her, do some small sweet things which she likes, text her 'good morning' and 'goodnight' regularly, compliment her etc. She'll fall for you sooner than later. I too used to feel like you because I didn't have a girlfriend until the age of 23. But then I realized that looks will only help you for those 'love at first site' cases. The way you talk and express yourself is most important. Just be confident, and you can surely find a nice girlfriend. My advice would be to find a girl with a beautiful heart rather than a beautiful face. To prove this point, I can even send you my pic, and I'm sure you'll agree that you look much better than me. If I can do it, so can you. Cheer up, buddy! And go date someone! Good luck! :)

SuitsAreAwesome · Accepted Answer

Girls dig guys that show the natural traits required for survival: strength, intelligence and bravery. A combination of these translates more or less to confidence in modern day society. Sure a good appearance helps, but it's your attitude that eventually gets the girls. You don't need to be an a-hole either, just don't act like a p**** and respect yourself.

Unattractive girls don't get boyfriends either, if they don't act like it. I liked a girl once who wasn't that good looking, but she was nice so I tried. It still didn't work out because she kept acting awkward, which made things too difficult for what she was worth. Again, it's not the looks that were the problem, not even her personality, but just the fact she kept acting awkward and insecure.

I hope this helps!

souradiphamza · Answer

Yeah its so true. Me an ugly guy from India never had any female friends even my own friends used to taunt me about my looking and the way I speak although thanks years ago I finally abandoned them and currently I'm isolated on my own I don't approach people anymore. Coming back to the topic, as I said I never had any female friends so I tried social media as a route to meet up with girls rather better to say to find a girlfriend. I got three girls I met them. Firstly I talked to them on social media gained their trust then talk to them over the phone. I shared some my photos but I don't exactly look the same as I looked in those photos. Then finally oneday she agrees to meet on real life. I went to meet her, acted nicely, talked about some normal things approached her should we go to a restro or on a movie date? but the moment she saw me in real thats the moment her all thoughts got shattered and she/they couldn't utter a single word except "u looked different in photos" then they gets too much hurry to go home giving some excuses like they have tution to go or their family shall get angry if they become late but it's only 20 minutes since she came to meet me. I tried three girls in 4 years from facebook but all of them showed same reaction or action after seeing me in real. I know its very awkward to be with an ugly looking guy in public espeacially when u are good/moderate looking and smart. years have passed now, I don't approach anybody now. never married. I do a job leave my home at the morning 8'o clock and comeback to home at night 9'o clock then I take my dinner and get to sleep. it has became daily routine. I don't use social media so often but I use it as a diginal newspaper. the bottomline is an ugly guy never gets a girl how hard he tries. it's an eternal truth

Anonymous · Answer

Because unattractive girls aren't as picky as ugly guys. Unattractive girls are more than happy to date guys just as unattractive (or even more unattractive) than themselves. Ugly guys mostly only go after girls much more attractive than themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

At your age it is still normal to not have had a relationship. It's not because you're ugly, you just didn't meet the right one yet.

Looks are not that important when it comes to men. A clean, neat and smart appearance will seal the deal. A study in Germany recently suggested that the best way to catch a woman's attention is a good suit with tie and a neat language (especially: no cursing; talking about sex is allowed if done with proper wording, not using "nerdy" scienctific/latin words but neither slang). A shower and a good perfume are of course mandatory.

Stop struggling to find one, it's going to happen but not when you're letting them know at the first glance that you are desperately searching. Desperation is one of the biggest turn-offs for women!

SteelyMcBeam · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

1. All beauty is relative, every one is attractive to someone.

2. It's probably because that "ugly" girl is a good person, where as you appear to be a whiney bitch

3. Because guys do more of the initiation they're more likely to go after a girl out of their league

Clean up your act, pull yourself together and stop the pity parade no one cares and it's super unattractive. Learn some skills, get some hobbies, be a person worth dating because right now you're clearly not. You're not ugly, I promise you you're not, but you are boring and tedious. I know that based on this sentence, based on this presentation, spending five minutes with you would be hell. You're negative, over critical, judgmental and kind of an asshat.

xobrowneyedbeauty · Answer

everyone's definition of ugly is different so even though there will always be people who find you unattractive (this goes for everyone else in the world), there will also always be people who find you attractive. and you shouldn't use whether or not you have a girlfriend as a way of judging your appearance. just because you're single/lonely doesn't mean you are unattractive!

youngandfriendless19 · Answer

Guys who are not so attractive can get really pretty girls, it's all about your attitude and personality. If you're a really fun person or treat them like they wanna be treated you can get a really pretty chick. Give it some time and you'll find a really good girl, ik it's really cheesy to say but good things come to those who wait.

pixelized · Answer

I'd say it's reverse, at least in my school. I know so many good looking and not so good looking girls not having a boyfriend and being all sad about it but then again, the guys I think are ugly (personality and physically) have gfs. I see a lot of girls settling for the guys worse than them just because they're insecure about their weight or looks mostly which is ridicules.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I'd say being ugly is more of a barrier for women then for men.

Its a disadvantage for men, but an ugly guy with an average personality, a job, his own place, etc, can probably get someone.

For women, if she's ugly, she better have a great personality and be amazing in bed as well.

Anonymous · Answer

na mabey just an ugly girlfriend but same with girls gotta go for whos in your league.. if your lonely its  because you let your looks define you instead embrace your flaws love them and be confident as hell girls find it attractive and everyone respects someone that's ugly but has confidence. I know its hard to do but when you master it you'll never be lonely again. remember that your good you don't have to impress anyone or make up for anything just be yourself inside and out and be confident

Anonymous · Answer

No. Unattractive girls still can become pretty with effort (makeup, style, haircut,etc) and they develop good personality.

In society, guys are suppose to ask because it let us girls know if you like us and are serious (hence, the tests). Even if a girl is unattractive, she still get hit on and therefore, have choices. Unattractive guys usually feel bad and don't make the effort. They also seems really insecure and no amount of anyone else words will make them feel better because that is a self-esteem issue. Confident and personality can overcome looks.

Looks only make up 5% typically so if you have 85 - 95 %, you are good catch. Girls wants guy that are confident and feel good to be around as much as guys want a girl who is cute/decent/pretty/etc and good personality.

50% acceptance of self = confident projection

45% attitude and personality

5% looks

TexanCowgirl · Answer

Its usually the other way around cause guys care about looks more than girls :P

RedSmartie · Answer

No, it's the other way around.  I see so many hideous guys with girlfriends but the ugly girls are always alone.

Anonymous · Answer

So not true. I'm a personality person... lots of girls are. Just keep trying. You'll be surprised. The last guy I dated wasn't super attractive, but man was he nice. He didn't date for four+ years and tried to go after like 11 girls til he met me.

redridinghood · Answer

beauty is the eye of beholder so if someone like your personality will slowly like you and eventually she won't think you are unattractive anymore :)

Friendly12 · Answer

Its all about your attitude and how you approach them :-)

KittyLink · Answer

LIEs! I've seen horrible looking men who are married.  xD

jacquesvol · Answer

Ugly guys get girlfriends. Unattractive girls get boyfriends. Horny clumsy guys never get girlfriends before they stop showing clumsily how horny  they are.

Anonymous · Answer

Ugly guys with money ,  Can get all the girls they want .  Example Jay Z, Jermaine Dupree, Hugh hefner .  And you can take that to the bank.

britannny · Answer

Not true.  No matter what you look like, someone out there will definitely find you attractive.

emzy-89 · Answer

Different people find different things attractive so everyone has the potential to get a bf/gf.

Anonymous · Answer

^answers it

kaisleypaisley · Answer

Definitely untrue. Everyone defines "attractive" by something different, and some don't even acknowledge outer appearance as much. You'll find your girl, just give it time.

MichaelL · Answer

Most men are ugly looking good is for women. Clean up and get some style then act like you're not ugly you'll be fine.

Titataonga · Answer

your question should be is true guys with ugly personalities never get girlfriends? cause as long as you have a great personality trust me it's not hard!

GaiaGirl2468 · Answer

I feel the same way about myself,but girls should only care about personality. I've dated guys who weren't very attractive but had wonderful personalies

Anonymous · Answer

It's not always true. Change your attitude and you may become more attractive to girls.

TheWeirdGirl · Answer

No, I've had crushs on really unattractive guys, I love a hot guy of course, but if you have a good personality that's always a good thing :)

MouthyMerc · Answer

Impossible, No. Alot harder? Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Feel the victim, be the victim and stay the victim. Grow up.

Anonymous · Answer

Work on your personality That can take you far

moviedude714 · Answer

probably just not ones in their league

Marrryyyyy · Answer

no, just not confident guys

titoloco · Answer

fascinating

upsyndrome · Answer

No.

Anonymous · Answer

You're probably going for the wrong girls.

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