Why is it near impossible to get a partner in California?

[Anonymous]

Even black men want any race but black women. Lot of them act like they aren't black themselves and give you a look like "you don't belong here." Even trans people have an easier time getting a partner than a black woman in Southern California. I can't believe I been here for 8 years and haven't really got anyone. The times I attracted some guys ironically in a Caucasian area. I hear Latino guys don't like black women and there parents definitely don't want to see their son with one. I GET PEOPLE HAVE A PREFERENCE but I get treated like a doormat by men. Just because they don't find a woman attractive they think making fun of someone's appearance is okay. The more I wear my hair natural the more guys shout insults from their car and my hair is not super curly wild. I don't know if it's because I look young for my age (24). I have been told I'm naturally pretty and am I dating someone. Ironically other minority men treat me the worst.

[normalice]

Oh, your experience is far from uncommon. Indeed, that's pretty much the entire culture in Brazil. That last layer of racism no one can really pin on any individual for having but for culture itself for cultivating. And asking any individual to stop is asking them to unsee what they saw, which is a world in which dark skin is treated as inferior. It is no real mystery why white men are becoming increasingly interested in boning black ladies - white people media keeps telling them that black people are not treated as inferior.

Unfortunately, they are still men so their attention will be more towards getting off. The same is true of white women, we just learned we can't be as blunt about it because ever though we are told black people aren't treated as inferiors anymore, we do see it and it sinks in no matter how successful we are at ignoring it.

[paledreams]

Lol apparently towns like the party towns 😅😝 maybe that's more your style. Lol move to Malibu or move to Santa Barbara or near the coast lol 😆😄

[paledreams]

Lol Buena Vista was always promoted by Disney logos lol - maybe that's a sign? ,😔😔😬👀

[Anonymous]

Really? My nephew found his girlfriend when he went to California. He wasn't even living there. He was just visiting there.

[Knightwatch27]

Sounds weird. Given how liberal California is supposed to be statistically.