I cheated and I regret it?

[itsnatasha2005]

So before I start off I know what I did is completely wrong but I need to get this off my chest and need some feedback. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship we’ve been together for 9 months now and I really like him. 2 weeks ago we had a party with a lot of people from my class and I was pretty drunk and had one of the guys I talk to hit on me. I don’t know why or what happened but I just gave into it and flirted back.. i was pretty drunk and I know that’s not an excuse but one thing led to another and I ended up making out with him and giving him a bj. I really regret doing this and I haven’t told my boyfriend yet and I know this is something that won’t happen again as well. I don’t know what to do.

[36FS45]

OK, so I don't need to tell you that what happened was really dumb

At the same time, at least you only gave him a blowjob and didn't end up letting him fuck your brains out

Wouldn't tell your boyfriend.

Unfortunately, there's not much more I can say except you're gonna have to live with it now.

[ItsKiaraaa]

What she did has no excuse but what difference does a bj and a fuck make?

[36FS45]

@ItsKiaraaa it doesn't excuse it, that's not what I'm saying

[Danielle93]

My answer will vary base on this question. Were you two dating in person at one point during the whole 9 months? Or was this relationship long distance the whole entire time?

[Anonymous]

At least you regret it but if you tell him and then he breaks up then that's justified

This is why long distance doesn't work, my and my partners broke up rather that failing to make it work
It was amicable and probably wouldn't have been if the LDR had been attempted

[DarkLegacy]

You ought to be ashamed of yourself and your boyfriend deserves to know and deserves better. no doubt women will tell you to keep it a secret whilst slating men who cheat.

[Danielle93]

Long-distance relationships are actually silly. If the OP has been in a long-distance during all this time, the whole 9 months then that's not even a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Sorry but long distance "relationships" are silly for this exact reason. You are better off with someone you actually see.

[normalice]

Seconded

[ItsKiaraaa]

Don’t tell him about it, you’re young you just made a mistake and if it’s a one time thing like you said then don’t tell him it’ll just ruin things

[jahaims]

Tell him and move on. You are too immature for a relationship

[JesseP1nk]

I think you should tell your boyfriend so he can dump you. He deserves better.

[dougeats]

a blowie is no big deal