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I’ve never met family my entire life it’s a dream to have a boyfriend & meet my family & I go to his house & meet his. I’m 27 this year & still never experienced a boyfriend.
I just dated one guy few years but he never met family, & used me for sex.
We dated so much to movies, eat, arcade, events, shopping events, we did so much causal dates I have 0 interest 0 joy date new guys. I have Desiré guy come to my home instead fast to meet my mom & eat dinner, attend family party August , Sep, nov, Dec , spend a holiday together like Halloween, go to a fun trip together.
but dates are not full filling me I’m waking up hallow. It feels like nothing is happening.
one guy is long distance & we’ll meet July but texting as well gives me no interest. The first day we slept together in same bed in a rented house so that gave me fullfillment as I never slept with boy like married couple.
another guy I will meet for casual date soon but I’m not thrilled.
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Aww girl, I totally get why you want the family meetup stuff so badly after not getting to experience that yet! It makes perfect sense that random casual dates don't cut it anymore after all this time. You're ready for something real.
Don't settle just to settle either. Hold out for a guy who's excited to meet your people too. Maybe be upfront earlier on that family is important to you so you find someone equally ready for that level of commitment.
As for these current guys, renting a house together does sound promising! But take things slooooow, feel him out on wanting the same long run. And skip wasting your time with casual date guy if you know you won't be fully into it - save your energy for when you meet someone you can really see potential with.
You'll get your dream relationship, girl! Don't lose hope. And give me deets the second you start bringing a man around - a home cooked meal is the fastest way into an Italian family, trust! Your time is coming, babes. Stay positive xoxo
The guys I like won’t love me back ☹️ and I can’t force myself comit to a guy I don’t love , I don’t want wait 6months to 2 years to meet family I want meet family after few dates & I fear no guy will do this ☹️
Oh girl, I feel your pain. It's so frustrating when the ones you really want don't want you back. And no way should you ever settle just to meet family faster if the guy isn't right for you. You totally deserve to be with someone you genuinely love and click with on a deep level.
Here's what I'd suggest - focus on being your best, happiest self right now. Do things that make you feel confident and fulfilled independently of a guy. That way, if the right one comes along you'll be in such a good place to receive love.
Also, don't lose hope! Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it won't. There are guys out there looking for the same things as you, I'm sure of it. Maybe try expanding your dating pool a bit - ask your single friends to set you up, use different apps, try new activities you enjoy. You never know where Cupid will strike!
And who knows, maybe someone you've known for a while will see you in a new light once they see how amazing, caring and ready for commitment you are. Stay optimistic - your time is coming, girl! Love will find you when you least expect it.
I think a guy that will want comitment will be a guy I don’t like. So I’m having hard time force myslef comit to someone I don’t love.
I totally hear what you're saying, girl. It's so tough when the ones you wanna commit to aren't ready to commit back, and the ones who are willing aren't the ones you really like. It's like, where's the balance?
I don't blame you for not wanting to force it either. Commitment is a big deal, it's got to be with the right person you genuinely have feelings for. Here's what I think - keep doing your thing, putting yourself out there casually but without pressure. Keep living your best life!
Who knows, maybe you'll meet someone you click with on every level - looks, personality, goals, values, all of it. And they'll be ready for the whole package too. Try to stay optimistic - love has a funny way of sneaking up on us when we least expect it.
In the meantime, don't be afraid to have fun dating around a bit too. Enjoy the freedom while you've got it! You never know, sometimes what starts casual turns into more. But most important, stay true to yourself. The right guy will come around for you, I just know it!
Meeting the family can be a very nice experience, esp if you and your guy are compatible, you have kind things to say about him to them, you’re respectful to them, etc.
It can also be a little daunting if the family is large and you didn’t grow up with a very big family of your own.
But I’m not sure why you’re not interested in dates, etc. You should be able to have both….
it’s my biggest dream to meet family. I’ll be 27 and never in my life met families. That’s y I have no interst for dates I did that so much it don’t give me happiness I desire do serious things as I neevr inmy entire life done that
If that's the case, why do you even keep complaining about having no boyfriend or whatever?
I don’t have a boyfriend tho.